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By *yanShire OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Motherwell

Had a previous thread of this that got weirdly hijacked so thought I’d try with it again.

One of my very first sexual experiences was me and a mate having a threesome with a girl we knew. It immediately hooked me into group play and I soon found myself eager to always have others involved. A bit of an addiction that has ended up crossing boundaries with a lot of people I’ve known. Anyone with similar experiences/same addiction?

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By *ink vixenCouple
36 weeks ago

Medway

I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Bristol


"Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

Total fantasy of mine and my o/h knows it.

She's interested in the idea but not enough to go actively seeking someone.

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By *yanShire OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Motherwell


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

Yeah I know what you mean. Does it go back to something primal or?

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By *R BBC FENDIMan
36 weeks ago

barracks

Absolutely get this. Love sharing a new toy between the gang! As Eazy-E said, It ain't no fun if the homies can't gave none!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

A d*unken escapade led to my brother fucking my wife. It became fairly regular and years later my brother and I love to fuck other women together, with or without hubby present. Some are disgusted, but we get a fuck a couple of times a month!

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By *lippy02Man
36 weeks ago

edinburgh


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

Similar here as I have loved my wife being involved with other men over the years

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By *eegh0stsMan
36 weeks ago

If I go away with my friends somewhere that isn’t local and we all have hotel rooms it’ll often be something we aim for.

Meet someone d*unk, ask them if they want to come back but let them know we’re sharing a room so it’ll be us both. Often it leads to them bringing a friend but sometimes they’re up for it enough that they just want to be greedy and have 2 cocks.

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By *ink vixenCouple
36 weeks ago

Medway


"If I go away with my friends somewhere that isn’t local and we all have hotel rooms it’ll often be something we aim for.

Meet someone d*unk, ask them if they want to come back but let them know we’re sharing a room so it’ll be us both. Often it leads to them bringing a friend but sometimes they’re up for it enough that they just want to be greedy and have 2 cocks. "

A dr*nk woman can later claim that she didn’t knowingly give consent but apart from that this just sounds really creepy.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Worcester


"If I go away with my friends somewhere that isn’t local and we all have hotel rooms it’ll often be something we aim for.

Meet someone d*unk, ask them if they want to come back but let them know we’re sharing a room so it’ll be us both. Often it leads to them bringing a friend but sometimes they’re up for it enough that they just want to be greedy and have 2 cocks. "

Maybe don’t fuck d*unk people because they can’t give consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"If I go away with my friends somewhere that isn’t local and we all have hotel rooms it’ll often be something we aim for.

Meet someone d*unk, ask them if they want to come back but let them know we’re sharing a room so it’ll be us both. Often it leads to them bringing a friend but sometimes they’re up for it enough that they just want to be greedy and have 2 cocks.

Maybe don’t fuck d*unk people because they can’t give consent."

Yep… He could easily have left that word out too and said “someone up for it” instead… creepy as fuck

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By *unnerbenMan
36 weeks ago

Dublin / Cork

When I was teenager me and my mates used do same room wanks . Then advanced to 3sums etc . Hooked on 3sums ever since . We share pics and vids of homemade fun with each other too .

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By *arrySwindonMan
36 weeks ago

Swindon


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

Used to arrange small group meets for a playmate. I knew she enjoyed being shared and I got a huge kick from arranging and then watching her enjoy herself. When she looked at me with another man’s cock in her mouth was the weirdest feeling……

A big factor was the “reclaim sex” she swore I felt bigger and harder…….it was pretty primeval.

Great fun

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By *ink vixenCouple
36 weeks ago

Medway


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself?

Used to arrange small group meets for a playmate. I knew she enjoyed being shared and I got a huge kick from arranging and then watching her enjoy herself. When she looked at me with another man’s cock in her mouth was the weirdest feeling……

A big factor was the “reclaim sex” she swore I felt bigger and harder…….it was pretty primeval.

Great fun"

Ah yes and of course….the reclaim

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By *osie2023Woman
36 weeks ago

Tallaght


"A d*unken escapade led to my brother fucking my wife. It became fairly regular and years later my brother and I love to fuck other women together, with or without hubby present. Some are disgusted, but we get a fuck a couple of times a month! "

Not that I’m very experienced but my best threesome experience was with two brothers! I met them twice and it was out of this world.

I originally met the younger brother off tinder and we got to talking in bed one time about threesomes. He mentioned he’d teamed up with his brother before and then arranged it all for me.

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By *unnerbenMan
36 weeks ago

Dublin / Cork


"A d*unken escapade led to my brother fucking my wife. It became fairly regular and years later my brother and I love to fuck other women together, with or without hubby present. Some are disgusted, but we get a fuck a couple of times a month! "

That’s very hot . I know a couple who had a 3sum with the couples brother too. Filth

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My first threesome with my husband and his mate was what got us into the lifestyle. It was regular thing for a while but that first night was incredible

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By *xfordjohnMan
36 weeks ago

Oxford

I've been obsessed with threesomes and groups ever since my first wife and I began with meeting with her FWB back in the 80's. One on one just hasn't been my priority since then.

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By *23RouteCouple
36 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Love it ! Need the right wife though !!!!

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By *vening SongCouple
36 weeks ago

diss

Had a few experiences like this we enjoyed them at the time sadly one friend over stepped the mark and thought he'd try his luck with me out the way ,not a good idea she was pretty disgusted too

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By *yanShire OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Motherwell


"When I was teenager me and my mates used do same room wanks . Then advanced to 3sums etc . Hooked on 3sums ever since . We share pics and vids of homemade fun with each other too . "

Yeah very similar here mate.

Great posts shared on thread everyone!

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By *yanShire OP   Man
23 weeks ago

Motherwell

Anyone else?

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By *eedee27Man
23 weeks ago

cambridge

I love group sex but cant do it with mates that i grown up with

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By *aulnextMan
23 weeks ago

Hoar Cross Staffordshire

Yes . A friend of mine from school days rings me from time to time to invite me round for a three some. Started with him telling me over a beer that his wife had always fancied me !

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By *otfunduoCouple
22 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

We love sharing but not friends. Too risky x

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By *redzMan
22 weeks ago

liverpool

I’ve always wanted to be shared by real mates

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By *ee1967Man
22 weeks ago

watford

Loved seeing ex wife with mates

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By *omRachCouple
22 weeks ago

Wirral

Our 1st dabble in this lifestyle was MFM fun with a guy who is still - 24 years on - one of my very best friends to this day.

We only stopped fucking (as a threesome) 5 years ago but we (he and i) are still as close now as we were prior to that 1st play session.

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By *ertscouple-2021Couple
21 weeks ago

Berkhampstead


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

This is also me I think about it for hour and still can’t figure it out

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By *hegreatoutdoors99Man
21 weeks ago

Hamble

I've always found it a turn on to share with friends, I like showing her off and people wanting what I have. Plus as she finds it a turn on its great to see her have fun

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By *yanShire OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Motherwell

Thought I’d resurrect this one to see if any new additions?

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By *eirdscienceMan
12 weeks ago

Postwick

Started seeing a girl and shared her with an old mate and over time we did get married and continued to share her but not with mates

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By *smithukMan
12 weeks ago

cardiff


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself? "

I think that you’ve answered your own question - you like seeing her enjoy herself. And you’re secure enough in yourself and your relationship not to feel threatened by it happening.

Why should we expect one person to give us everything in life. You can love and respect a partner and be committed to them but you don’t expect them to satisfy all your needs all the time so why should sex be any different?

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By *hestercplxxCouple
12 weeks ago

Chester


"I’d like to understand the psychology of it more but get bogged down in the pseudo science.

Why do I like to share my wife with other guys and see her enjoying herself?

This is also me I think about it for hour and still can’t figure it out "

Same here , live the mental side of it

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By *ikey warringtonMan
12 weeks ago

Warrington

It’s usually not about you, more her likes and interest

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By *erICorknowCouple
12 weeks ago

cork

For me it’s seeing her enjoying herself and I think a bit of a thrill that most people don’t get that it’s ok!

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By *erICorknowCouple
12 weeks ago

cork

We’ve shared with friends as well, some went ok and there was never an issue. Others turned out to be a nightmare

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By *wesome TitsWoman
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I've always found it a turn on to share with friends, I like showing her off and people wanting what I have. Plus as she finds it a turn on its great to see her have fun"

I'd love to find a partner who let me do this. I very much enjoy group sex and being shared, but I've never done it with a group of friends. It's a fantasy of mine though.

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By *rNightMan
12 weeks ago

Coventry

I actually find mf sex boring now, I won’t refuse it and I’ll make the most of it but when we play with others is when I’m most stimulated

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By *plmanningtreeCouple
12 weeks ago

harwich

Sharing is caring ?

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By *yanShire OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Motherwell

Resurrecting this to see if any other likeminded experienced mates been up to some wild adventures…

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By *alsaman15Man
4 weeks ago

Market Drayton

Not mates but I did hold a 9 person orgy at my place once greatest night ever love group play would love to do it again if one is interested

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By *ack1971Man
4 weeks ago

Cork


"Had a previous thread of this that got weirdly hijacked so thought I’d try with it again.

One of my very first sexual experiences was me and a mate having a threesome with a girl we knew. It immediately hooked me into group play and I soon found myself eager to always have others involved. A bit of an addiction that has ended up crossing boundaries with a lot of people I’ve known. Anyone with similar experiences/same addiction?"

I shared my 1st and 2nd girlfr8end with mates when we all lived together in our salad days, but wouldn't share with mates today.

Different mindset.

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