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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..for the guys to approach you and message you? Not necessarily for a meet. But just to see if you both may click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

I seriously considerd filtering single men, so as I would have time to go looking for some candy.

Im more than happy to send an email expressing an interest, and when I do, its not c n p and is usually very adult and very relivant to the person Ive written it too.

As yet Ive been blessed with positive responces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If one catches our eye we will make the approach. Why waste time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better off letting the women approach you i reckon, unless someone really catches ur eye then its worth trying ur luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont expect anything on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't expect it, would never be that arrogant - but it's just the case that good offers have come to us and so have to confess that we aren't too proactive on searching people out (not just men).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"better off letting the women approach you i reckon, unless someone really catches ur eye then its worth trying ur luck

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why is it better to do that.

The worst that can happen is they say no thanks or delete the message. What have you gotta lose by sending a message if you've read, digested and think you match the persons profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"better off letting the women approach you i reckon, unless someone really catches ur eye then its worth trying ur luck

why is it better to do that.

The worst that can happen is they say no thanks or delete the message. What have you gotta lose by sending a message if you've read, digested and think you match the persons profile. "

i never make the first move, not sure why, fear of rejaction i guess, your right you have nothing to loose, some people are just more forwards, if thats the right word than others, i prefer to let guys mail me that why i know they are interested, that does not mean i expect it tho, i just think if a guys not mailed me he obviously dont like me so whats the point in me mailing him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect mails, it's a lovely surprise when I do get them.

Nor do I fear sending them. I don't mind being knocked back, I know I'm not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I rarely send out a first message..but only to those that really catch my eye. And the message hasnt just been one word or one line.

However, lately iv been thinking..im not getting many messages or any at all. So, maybe i should be approaching..but to me, i would feel bad especially if they are not looking to meet today.

...hmmm. Im stuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never make the first move, not sure why, fear of rejaction i guess, your right you have nothing to loose, some people are just more forwards, if thats the right word than others, i prefer to let guys mail me that why i know they are interested, that does not mean i expect it tho, i just think if a guys not mailed me he obviously dont like me so whats the point in me mailing him"

im exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile catches my eye I have winked and/or sent a message. Don't do it often but I have done it. Nothing to lose so what the heck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect anything at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would of thought it was mutual

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