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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned "

I never nit pick, however, you spelt most incorrectly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it when people moan about people moaning

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have just read a thread about a party being organised and someone made a snipey comment for no reason.

If they dont want to go to the party, don't comment on the people who are attending...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God dont they just

Some of the replys make me laugh, if you went by these forums most on here is the best parent, best pet owner, have the best marrage in the world or so they'd have you believe by the way they pull everyone elses lifes down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have just read a thread about a party being organised and someone made a snipey comment for no reason.

If they dont want to go to the party, don't comment on the people who are attending... "

i remeber a thread a while back from a lady who had a poorly dog, it was late at night and she just asked for advice till she could get to the vets in the morning and it ended up people slagging her off and telling her she was a unfit dog owner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God dont they just

Some of the replys make me laugh, if you went by these forums most on here is the best parent, best pet owner, have the best marrage in the world or so they'd have you believe by the way they pull everyone elses lifes down "

They are just trolls, it's a sign of insecurity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have just read a thread about a party being organised and someone made a snipey comment for no reason.

If they dont want to go to the party, don't comment on the people who are attending... "

that gets my goat.. if you dont have something relevant to the topic of the thread.. why post..

like if someone asks "what do you enjoy about watersports"

and people start replying about why they dont liek it and find it nasty.. usually the same people who will post about being allowed choice and preference too..

if you dont enjoy watersports.. dont post.. cos thats the topic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have just read a thread about a party being organised and someone made a snipey comment for no reason.

If they dont want to go to the party, don't comment on the people who are attending...

i remeber a thread a while back from a lady who had a poorly dog, it was late at night and she just asked for advice till she could get to the vets in the morning and it ended up people slagging her off and telling her she was a unfit dog owner "

or the one form a lady who was waiting for NHS direct to call back about her child and everyone told her she was disgusting and should take the child to a DR.. all making assumptions the childs illness was life threatning.. jez

or the guy who's son was missing for a night.. everyone makign assumptions again and he was just lookign for some support as his hands were tied.. but everyone assuming noone was doing anythign to look for the boy or cos he was a teenager that it didnt mean he was vulnerable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have just read a thread about a party being organised and someone made a snipey comment for no reason.

If they dont want to go to the party, don't comment on the people who are attending...

that gets my goat.. if you dont have something relevant to the topic of the thread.. why post..

like if someone asks "what do you enjoy about watersports"

and people start replying about why they dont liek it and find it nasty.. usually the same people who will post about being allowed choice and preference too..

if you dont enjoy watersports.. dont post.. cos thats the topic!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a was always of by my mum

If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there was a forum post the other day on watersports and it was titled yes or no.

I answered No as that was the question... not why it is a No.

it is choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there was a forum post the other day on watersports and it was titled yes or no.

I answered No as that was the question... not why it is a No.

it is choice"

yh but thats not the same as the example i gave.. they asked if you do or dont like..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"there was a forum post the other day on watersports and it was titled yes or no.

I answered No as that was the question... not why it is a No.

it is choice

yh but thats not the same as the example i gave.. they asked if you do or dont like..

"

cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to see so many positive responses

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

"

I like to post on everything just because i can. There is no rule to say what your answers should be as long as you dont break the forum rules

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread.. "

Is there a list now of what you can and cannot type on threads. I was under the impression you could type what you wanted as long as you stayed within the rules

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Good to see so many positive responses

"
....Give it 5 min

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread.. "

In fact ive just seen you go off topic on a thread just to give someone false information without finding your facts out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur so right OP

seen it loads onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only just started to read the forums and put a little comment here and there but to tell the truth I mostly just _iew as am very wary of posting after seeing the verbal attacks on some that do.

I will add that I have also seen an awful lot of positive and encourage posts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum used to say exactly the same thing. Always good advice from mums*


"As a was always of by my mum

If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to stop these trolls is to ignore them, they feed of any attention as they lack any in 'real' life

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"The best way to stop these trolls is to ignore them, they feed of any attention as they lack any in 'real' life "

Some one who posts silly stuff, derails a post or who makes sarcastic comments isn't a troll - most users do that at times, some more than others.

Trolls post inflammatory remarks that are a deliberate attempt to provoke a negative emotional responce and then follow them up over and over to wind up their target.

There is mercifully very little of that on here compared to many forums.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

Is there a list now of what you can and cannot type on threads. I was under the impression you could type what you wanted as long as you stayed within the rules"

It would appear so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

I like to post on everything just because i can. There is no rule to say what your answers should be as long as you dont break the forum rules

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best way to stop these trolls is to ignore them, they feed of any attention as they lack any in 'real' life

Some one who posts silly stuff, derails a post or who makes sarcastic comments isn't a troll - most users do that at times, some more than others.

Trolls post inflammatory remarks that are a deliberate attempt to provoke a negative emotional responce and then follow them up ove

r and over to wind up their target.

There is mercifully very little of that on here compared to many forums. "

I agree,however because of the strict rules the trolls on here can not be as open with their insults, so they use sarcasm and other more subtle forms if insults .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

Is there a list now of what you can and cannot type on threads. I was under the impression you could type what you wanted as long as you stayed within the rules"

Fair enough, but if the thread doesn't interest yourself, or you have nothing positive to say or you cant have a laugh with the people posting, what's the point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as someone gets bitchy or insulting on here then I move to another thread, can't stand bitchiness on here and the holier than thou approach.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think it is quite easy to ignore comments that might be an attempt to cause trouble - if in doubt either seek clarification with the poster by asking politely or ignore the comment/ poster.

Also sometimes a comment can be perceived as being negative when it was not meant to be. I have been in that situation myself recently and I asked the poster what he had meant - the poster replied, explained and I could see that in now way had it been meant to be aggressive. The poster also acknowledged that what had been written COULD easily have been misread in the way I had read it.

We are now good mates - so in some way I am glad for that first post that I thought might be negative which turned out it was not.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The over analysing does drive me potty at times. Sometimes a question is asked and all kinds of negative assumptions are lumpted onto the OP that aren't even true.... but we ALL do that at times with posters.

...but that's a Forum. You post stuff to a public audience and you need to expect you will get sillyness, sarcasm, off-topic and genuinely helpful and interesting replies. Some people aren't suited to the environment and take things too seriously and are too thin skinned.

It's the way Forums are, and the Fab forum is actually a very good one that is monitered pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break"

Negative -


"and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads ."

Negative -


"Thus we end up with a great forum"

Positive +


"being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !"

Negative -


"Let's try and be more positive"

Positive +


"and ignore the negativity shown by the few"

Negative -


"especially when a new event is being planned "

Positive +

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Negative:4 (+1 for the title) = 5

Positive: 3

Overall Positivity Rating (OPR): -2

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Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only just started to read the forums and put a little comment here and there but to tell the truth I mostly just _iew as am very wary of posting after seeing the verbal attacks on some that do.

I will add that I have also seen an awful lot of positive and encourage posts too "

I'm a bit like that.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I have only just started to read the forums and put a little comment here and there but to tell the truth I mostly just _iew as am very wary of posting after seeing the verbal attacks on some that do.

I will add that I have also seen an awful lot of positive and encourage posts too

I'm a bit like that. "

Ooooh! You fibber! We can't shut you up at times!!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"love it when people moan about people moaning "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only just started to read the forums and put a little comment here and there but to tell the truth I mostly just _iew as am very wary of posting after seeing the verbal attacks on some that do.

I will add that I have also seen an awful lot of positive and encourage posts too

I'm a bit like that.

Ooooh! You fibber! We can't shut you up at times!! "

I tend not to post on the more serious threads I meant. I stick to the what's your favourite colour or how many fingers can you put in your mouth and still quote Star Wars type threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it when people moan about people moaning "

That sounds voyeuristic (in an aural sense)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

In fact ive just seen you go off topic on a thread just to give someone false information without finding your facts out"

Did you just go off topic to point the finger at someone else?

Did I?

Well fuck me it looks like we're ALL the same after all eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

I like to post on everything just because i can. There is no rule to say what your answers should be as long as you dont break the forum rules

"

i know there is no rules.. just my opinion as being pointless and just a reflection on the poster thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

In fact ive just seen you go off topic on a thread just to give someone false information without finding your facts out"

haha i have pointed out things when people have gone astray..

not sure about false info tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

Is there a list now of what you can and cannot type on threads. I was under the impression you could type what you wanted as long as you stayed within the rules"

ur a bit touchy about this..

no there is no list or rules.. its called an opinion.. what people do on forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break

Negative -

and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Negative -

Thus we end up with a great forum

Positive +

being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Negative -

Let's try and be more positive

Positive +

and ignore the negativity shown by the few

Negative -

especially when a new event is being planned

Positive +

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Negative:4 (+1 for the title) = 5

Positive: 3

Overall Positivity Rating (OPR): -2

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This Over-Analysis provided FOC

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Welcome back"

brilliant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been about for the past 3 weeks, and looking at the forums today, it is exactly the same as before

For me personally, no matter what forum you are on differences of opinion will occur, more important how you yourself interact and conduct yourself with others.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I haven't been about for the past 3 weeks, and looking at the forums today, it is exactly the same as before

For me personally, no matter what forum you are on differences of opinion will occur, more important how you yourself interact and conduct yourself with others."

I disagree! We are all the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been about for the past 3 weeks, and looking at the forums today, it is exactly the same as before

For me personally, no matter what forum you are on differences of opinion will occur, more important how you yourself interact and conduct yourself with others.

I disagree! We are all the same! "

Yeah, yeah you wind up merchant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao "

I thought we were friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends? "

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx"

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

I never nit pick, however, you spelt most incorrectly!! "

Sorry to be pedantic.... But is spelt a word ?....was it not "spelled " incorrectly??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet "

Yes lol just thought i would test your memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a was always of by my mum

If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all! "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

I never nit pick, however, you spelt most incorrectly!!

Sorry to be pedantic.... But is spelt a word ?....was it not "spelled " incorrectly??

"

Nope hate to say you are wrong

spelt 2 (splt)

v.

A past tense and a past participle of spell1.

spelt1

vb

a past tense and past participle of spell1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet

Yes lol just thought i would test your memory "

I am not that old, and 3 weeks off fabs doesn't erase your memory, I think? Who am I again? Where am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people on here seem to take what other people post too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet

Yes lol just thought i would test your memory

I am not that old, and 3 weeks off fabs doesn't erase your memory, I think? Who am I again? Where am I? "

Lol its 1952 your name is glenda and your in saigon lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people on here seem to take what other people post too seriously."

tongue in cheek seems to go over some heads..

just remember what these guys mean -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet

Yes lol just thought i would test your memory

I am not that old, and 3 weeks off fabs doesn't erase your memory, I think? Who am I again? Where am I?

Lol its 1952 your name is glenda and your in saigon lmfao "

Cool! I hope I am a cowgirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao

I thought we were friends?

Whats a friend ?? lmfao xx

Oh no, for goodness sake have you not found the light switch yet

Yes lol just thought i would test your memory

I am not that old, and 3 weeks off fabs doesn't erase your memory, I think? Who am I again? Where am I?

Lol its 1952 your name is glenda and your in saigon lmfao

Cool! I hope I am a cowgirl "

So do we then i can be a Rhinestone cowboy lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The majority of the time the forums are just words on a screen to me !

No offence but i dont know you personally , im not your friend and therefore why would i pay any attention to defamatory , stupid or ridiculous posts lol !!

Having said that there are a minority who post invaluable help , advice and intelligent comments and to an extent that probably makes up for the utter inane drivel that gets posted lol !

Now all you have to do is work out if your in the minority lmao "

Nope - I just won't pay attention to it

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've just analysed you all with my Acme Psycho-Analyser Matic 4400™ and you're all completely mad and need therapy...

Oh hang on, it was pointing the wrong way...

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

I never nit pick, however, you spelt most incorrectly!!

Sorry to be pedantic.... But is spelt a word ?....was it not "spelled " incorrectly??

Nope hate to say you are wrong

spelt 2 (splt)

v.

A past tense and a past participle of spell1.

spelt1

vb

a past tense and past participle of spell1

"

La a la la la la........ (Fingers in ears)....... La la la la la

How common....

I won't be using it...... Plus it's classed as irregular...

(Grudgingly accepts and slinks away gollum style)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

In fact ive just seen you go off topic on a thread just to give someone false information without finding your facts out

haha i have pointed out things when people have gone astray..

not sure about false info tho.. "

I just find it amusing when you say one thing and do the other, but he if it makes you happy giving people false information then you carry on.

By the way false is something that isnt true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fluffy threads can be repetitive and dull sometimes.

And if that was all that was posted so would the forums be.

disagreeing with someone's _iewpoint isn't sniping. It's disagreeing with their _iewpoint. little else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned "

Have you not just been hung from your own petard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

Have you not just been hung from your own petard?"

Isn't it hoist*

*Any pedantry or sniping is unintentional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting for me to return to the forums after a bit of a break , and there are the same folk over analysing and nit picking on even the mist positive threads .

Thus we end up with a great forum being used by a tiny percentage of users as the pedantic nature of some spoil it !

Let's try and be more positive and ignore the negativity shown by the few - especially when a new event is being planned

Have you not just been hung from your own petard?

Isn't it hoist*

*Any pedantry or sniping is unintentional "

I suppose, but really it should be "blown up by" - a petard was an early type of bomb. Sorry. I'll shut up and get a life now.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"yes its a choice to.. but if someone asks why you like it and you dont want to say.. skip to next thread.. you dont have to post on every thread..

I like to post on everything just because i can. There is no rule to say what your answers should be as long as you dont break the forum rules

i know there is no rules.. just my opinion as being pointless and just a reflection on the poster thats all "

am I the poster you refer to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some ppl cant help but be negative. Each to their own.

Sadly in all aspects of life there are trolls, ppl who get off on putting others down etc..

Best just to ignore, if you dont give them any bait, they cant feed !!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I guess some ppl cant help but be negative. Each to their own.

Sadly in all aspects of life there are trolls, ppl who get off on putting others down etc..

Best just to ignore, if you dont give them any bait, they cant feed !!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the same as many forums you always have your frustrated should who are unhappy with their lot and make it their lives work to pick and poke in an attempt to make people as unhappy as they are. Its a real shame everyone cant look for the positives but it just doesn't happen.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My mum used to say exactly the same thing. Always good advice from mums*

As a was always of by my mum

If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say anything at all! "

That's what Thumper's mum says when Thumper laughs at Bambi.

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