FabSwingers.com forum: Finishing

By *lwaysHornyInFilladelphia OP Man
41 weeks ago

Barnsley

I’d probably better start by saying that I’m more of a giver than receiver; I get off more knowing the partner is getting off. That’s not to say I don’t enjoy receiving, I do love it.

There’s just one issue really…I’ve never finished via a blow job and can count on one hand how many times I’ve finished through a hand job; that isn’t mine

Is this common? And for a man?

Just to add to this; when it comes to sex, luckily not now but I’d had the odd pre after getting carried away and it’s devastating. Nothing worse. I’d feel like a failure. But this was way in the past and although I can’t understand or control it now, but sex will last anywhere between a couple of minutes to a couple of hours and I usually know based on how giddy, horny and turned on I am.

Regardless, I feel like it’s my duty (but it’s a shared responsibility) to make the partner finish and I’m not happy unless they do (and even just once is frowned upon) and I could say a lot here, but I’d like other perspectives just in case.

Im not sure if it’s being in my head too much, feeling the need to not be a let down and therefore putting pressure on myself that contributes to all of this.

Tell it to me straight; am I broken and should I seek help?