FabSwingers.com forum: Are Dadbods all that…

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

I’m 38 with a dadbod. I’ve heard that dadbod’s are back, but is the general attraction actually there? Let us know…are they actually attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Not for us no.

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By *oxy RedWoman
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

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By *triker0079Man
49 weeks ago

London

Another dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

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By *EX-SMan
49 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yep I have a dad bod too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"Not for us no."

So is it just athletic build for you guys??

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
49 weeks ago

Norwichish

When I was single and doing the Tinder thing I was surprised at how many girls much fitter than me were matching with me. (And yes my pictures showed that middle aged spread).

When it came up on date I was often told they didn’t like super toned guys because that may be an indication that they care more about their body than anyone else.

Also dad bod types would probably try a bit harder

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By *lik and PaulCouple
49 weeks ago

cahoots

The person is more important than the body but personally don't like super toned or muscley body types.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I used to be self concious of mine.

I did excercise but not to the extreme.

I chose to have more focus on my job and family rather than my appearance but I find as I get older that concious seems to disappear and realise it’s not all about what you got on the outside

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
49 weeks ago

Camberley

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Brilliant......

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By *ritladMan
49 weeks ago

Taunton

Yup another dadbod here

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I find body type a lot less relevant than then the person inside it.

It's rare I find someone beautiful before having some idea of who they are. I have found people with dad bods beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I do appreciate a dad bod

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By *moothdickMan
49 weeks ago

stoke

Dad bod here with a young mind

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By *omeotango121Man
49 weeks ago

sussex

Love a dad body

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Not for us no.

So is it just athletic build for you guys??"

I’d say muscular althletic yes but not slim althletic

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I personally think a face is more important but if it is attached to a nice body even better

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By *riel13Woman
49 weeks ago

Northampton

I find body type irrelevant, when seeking playmates... The face and personality dictate my attraction to someone

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By *mmaleiaWoman
49 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I like a bit of meat on a man’s bones

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Dadbod checking in

Although I've been doing a lot of yoga lately, so it's getting trimmed down

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By *exyScientistsCouple
49 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *exyScientistsCouple
49 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'd rather build up a connection through messaging and chat before I see face pics. But body pics don't affect my attraction at all

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Great chat up line

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By *ags73Man
49 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Tried to be less dad bod as I was too dad bod when I started. Still not much interest from messaging, but hey ho maybe one day.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
49 weeks ago

Cumbria

There’s a profile near us who has a great body, you can tell he works really hard in the gym and is very proud of his body; unfortunately that appears to be his entire persona. Consequently we don't look twice at him.

Much prefer a dad bod attached to someone with a bit of personality!

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By *lappyMan
49 weeks ago

Manchester

I’ve found that its personality that is a attribute towards a connection which is also important when talking to someone perhaps arranging a meet and I’ve a dad bod too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
49 weeks ago

Leeds

The body alone is meh....

It's a good body when it belongs to a decent man, dad bod or otherwise.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"The body alone is meh....

It's a good body when it belongs to a decent man, dad bod or otherwise.

Mrs "

Give this lady a gold star!

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By *cotsguyyMan
49 weeks ago

Belfast and Fife

Fingers crossed

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By *moothshaftMan
49 weeks ago

Coventry

Well, I've got a grandad bod, and I hate it.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
49 weeks ago

London

Nothing wrong with a dad bod x

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By *r MzchiefMan
49 weeks ago

Middle Earth

My dad bod does not seem to be drawing in the ladies.

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By *oxy RedWoman
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Great chat up line

Why thank you....the patter oozes out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Great chat up line

Why thank you....the patter oozes out of me.

It certainly does, if I were straight that would have worked on me

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By *oxy RedWoman
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *oxy RedWoman
49 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Great chat up line

Why thank you....the patter oozes out of me.

It certainly does, if I were straight that would have worked on me

And if I was a gay man, I would be trying it on with you! (Peeked at your profile)

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

Great chat up line

Why thank you....the patter oozes out of me.

It certainly does, if I were straight that would have worked on me

And if I was a gay man, I would be trying it on with you! (Peeked at your profile)

Awww

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By *oxladMan
49 weeks ago

WORKSOP

I’m 59 with a dad bod!

Would love a bit of acknowledgement from a female or two!

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By *ranimallxl5Man
49 weeks ago

Winchester

It usually means they have a personality

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By *oxy jWoman
49 weeks ago

somerset

define dad bod ?? why not just be honest with your size rather than hide it under one banner that means pretty much any size ?? same with mums bods just be honest with your acual size you are what you are

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By *exy gentMan
49 weeks ago

Midlothian

Definitely a dad bod here, but would like to get to 12.7stone, that's where my clothes fit me better, more confident, run better and enjoy 5asides more, not all about being vain, just makes me happier for a lot of different reasons

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By *eepitsimple400Man
49 weeks ago

ilkeston

Also full dad bod, but does me more service in regular life than it does on here. This is more cattle market, so expect gym fit, good looking, and larger appendages to mop up, need to try a bit harder and grind those messages with a bit more detail to succeed here

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By *alandNitaCouple
49 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Also full dad bod, but does me more service in regular life than it does on here. This is more cattle market, so expect gym fit, good looking, and larger appendages to mop up, need to try a bit harder and grind those messages with a bit more detail to succeed here"

This indicates that you are unable to express yourself as well online.

Whilst a nice looking face might initially catch my eye, I don't like the look of overly muscular men and have never in my life considered cock size as a reason for having sex with a man.

His personality will always win out in the end. This is why clubs are often a much better option for men who are less able to express themselves well in text.

Also a positive attitude is always better than a negative one.

Nita

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By *ags73Man
49 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"define dad bod ?? why not just be honest with your size rather than hide it under one banner that means pretty much any size ?? same with mums bods just be honest with your acual size you are what you are "

Yeah that’s why I said average on the deets

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By *heekyGent44Man
49 weeks ago

Northwich

"Your dad bod would look good on top of my mum bod...

You have a gorgeous Mum Bod. Wouldn't mind it being on top of me

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Another Dad bod here , I m fairly new to this and have being pleasantly surprised how how many gorgeous intelligent women find me attractive and realised I was doing myself a injustice

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By *eepitsimple400Man
49 weeks ago

ilkeston

This indicates that you are unable to express yourself as well online.

Whilst a nice looking face might initially catch my eye, I don't like the look of overly muscular men and have never in my life considered cock size as a reason for having sex with a man.

His personality will always win out in the end. This is why clubs are often a much better option for men who are less able to express themselves well in text.

Also a positive attitude is always better than a negative one.

Nita"

I've lost track of the amount of detailed messages I've sent out that remain yellow for all time, with members who are on every day, the sheer volume of mail single females and couples must recieve means plenty get missed.

So the first message gets trimmed down, face picture added and a snippet from having read through a profile. Usually if it's not read when they are online at that initial time it never gets opened.

I'm happy when they are read and deleted, at least I know they aren't interested and can move on.

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By *ralfor hoursMan
49 weeks ago

Gerrard cross

Is it not more about the person .

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By *ungle VIP 1Man
49 weeks ago

colchester

Be happy in yourself and don't judge people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

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By *edDevil5Man
49 weeks ago

NN4

Dad bod here

Not many ladies I feel go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Used to be quite tone and no problems women finding me attractive now 2 kids later a hint of depression and anxiety really took a toll on my body now I'm quite insecure on how I look

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
49 weeks ago

Maldon

I’m not keen on thin or buff guys. I like to see a bit of meat on a man. It’s much more of a turn on

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By *23RouteCouple
49 weeks ago

Huddersfield

My wife doesn’t mind !

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By *eavenscentitCouple
49 weeks ago

barnstaple

Lots of great bodies here x

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By *ig-LMan
49 weeks ago

Ripley

Not true that mate.. we only get attention off men especially on here. my inbox is full of offers from men but I'm not that way inclined but they are relentless..haha.

can only imagine how much women get pesterd off some straight men must just be a male thing like dogs after a bone.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
49 weeks ago

SW Scotland

Really dislike the term dad bod. I’m a father and go to gym about five days a week, eat well too.

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By *ivilised matureMan
49 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

Dad and grandad bod here, what chance so I have lol

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By *hriscooperMan
49 weeks ago

Warrington

I consider myself to have a dad bod, but it's wild how it varies between men and even more so what women see as a dad bod to us men.

I suppose its a bit like the word curvy for women isn't it.

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By *ommander_StraxMan
49 weeks ago

Telford

I’m a dad and have a body. So there’s that!

I get told quite often I’m a chunker on here. Really does a number on your confidence, but then some people have insane standards too. So you can’t listen to everybody.

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By *inkyguymkMan
49 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I'm not sure if i have a dad bod or if I'm just out of condition, all I know is the 6 pack is distant memory

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Dad bod here too

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By *ags73Man
49 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I’m a dad and have a body. So there’s that!

I get told quite often I’m a chunker on here. Really does a number on your confidence, but then some people have insane standards too. So you can’t listen to everybody."

Way I look on it, I’m better than I was.

There’s some insanely good physiques on the torso Tuesday thread but I’ll still pop my squishy bits on as maybe some ladies need something to hold onto

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By *rill PhilMan
49 weeks ago

Crediton

I have the body of a heavy larger drinker. This pisses me off as I hardly ever drink.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

Dadbod is just a term that was invented because blokes were jealous that women started pushing back and celebrating the ways that their bodies changed and became supposedly less desirable after carrying and birthing children.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Not sure how i would class my body tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Meaty dad bod here

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By *ecretSearcherMan
49 weeks ago

Reading

Another dadbod representing.

I've worked hard over the last year though. I've managed to lose 2 stone and am now working with a PT to tone up a bit. Happy with progress, especially the legs.

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By *sexypairCouple
49 weeks ago

Stourbridge

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By *unnybunsWoman
49 weeks ago

Between here and over there

"I’m 38 with a dadbod. I’ve heard that dadbod’s are back, but is the general attraction actually there? Let us know…are they actually attractive?"

If I vibe with the person - I don’t care if they have a dad bod. It’s all good here

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By *oxy jWoman
49 weeks ago

somerset

dad bod mums bod is just a cop out of trying to make yourself sound better without actually describing your real size ....just be honest stop hiding behind a term thars not a body size or shape most men and women are mums n dads from slim to large ....

its like the other term rugby build look at how that was dunno what type of rugby they are playing but it dont include running on a rugby pitch thats for sure

just be honest or show a honest body pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Rather attached to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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Some Dad Bods are still attractive to me yes & some aren't....some are still slim & trim just with no defined muscles others have weight around their abdomens ....

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Trying to work my dadbod off

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By *oofer1Man
47 weeks ago

consett

Dad bod right here haha

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By *adbod2godbodMan
47 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm a dad with a body

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By *uchasGMan
47 weeks ago

Northwest

Count my dad bod in

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By *lternative BikerMan
47 weeks ago

Cheshire

"I’m 38 with a dadbod. I’ve heard that dadbod’s are back, but is the general attraction actually there? Let us know…are they actually attractive?"

I’m 43 this Saturday and I think my dad bod is too much so I’m trying to lose weight. But if there’s people out there that like it please say

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
47 weeks ago

North East

Dad bod but hide it well, but it’s there luckily my fave isn’t so bad so I’m told!

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By *ighty-maus85Man
47 weeks ago

WATFORD

If they can't accept the dad bod then they don't get the rod :?-?P:?-?P

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Matters not, if they've a big fat juicy meaty throbbing cock and know how to fuck a sissy Bitch hard then it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

We are fans and I also have one being a dad with a body.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

You are every man's dream

Best comment on Fab

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Chichester

I guess for a quick fuck in club play room setting if the cock decent size then prob not bothered too much with rest as won’t really be paying too much attention tbh .

If doing dates / more planned 1 on 1 meets then well … it’s going to be muscles / fitness driving it.

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By *tagmeupMan
47 weeks ago

wirral

I used to be on here as user name athleticgirth but after pulling a muscle it took me out the gym for months and now am halfway between dad bod and athletic bod i changed my username! So fingers crossed it is a thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Dad bod here and also love a curvy mum bod

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By *partharmonyCouple
46 weeks ago

Ruislip

I'm curious. Does anybody like my dad bod? Luke

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By *rjay224Man
46 weeks ago

up north

I have A dad bod it’s not for everyone but if there’s anyone who live late night snacks let me know haha

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By *alifaxLovemachineMan
46 weeks ago

Halifax

Unashamedly got a dad body minus the aspect of being a dad... its about character not aesthetics looks will always desert the person personality sustains after looks attract but attraction can be a distraction for real beauty of who a person actually is..

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By *moothshaftMan
46 weeks ago

Coventry

Pensioner bod just checking in!

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

when I was in the army I was very fit and into weights ect but I haven't noticed any difference physical attraction different types of women maybe but not really any difference in numbers I find once you get talking to them its the personality that count's. That unfortunately is where places like this fall down for single straight guys

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By *r MzchiefMan
46 weeks ago

Middle Earth

I have a body like a sack of spuds bought by dad at a farmers market.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Absolutely: I am a Dad and I have a bod.

Check... Check..

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By *hipdaleCouple
46 weeks ago

Greenhithe

We all get there one day as long as you can do the deed and all enjoy then who cares as long as you don't smell

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By *exy gentMan
46 weeks ago

Midlothian

Dad bod here, would like to lose my belly

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Mrs loves a dad bod

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By *obin444Man
46 weeks ago

Windsor

I hope they are …

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By *anny_stevensMan
46 weeks ago

holytown

Dad bod too, but planning on slimming down a little bit

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By *avexxMan
46 weeks ago

cheshire

all the women love them i must get one

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By *andK8084Couple
46 weeks ago

Alton

Another dad bod here, although I prefer to call it "fuel tank to a love machine"

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By *iddle ManMan
46 weeks ago

Walsall

What is a dad bod these days. I've been told I've got one, all the way to a gym goer. Unless you are ripped, or hugely over weight, I guess your in the dad bod zone.

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By *xydadbodMan
46 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Count me in then

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By *aveonMan
46 weeks ago

Dartford

Sure I’m a dad bod !

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