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How close to home is TOO close ?

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By *tuart9474 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sherburn in Elmet, Leeds

I dont know about you, but i have no idea what is going on in the next street to me, never mind the whole village, and does anyone care what other get up to in their street . . .

If you saw a Single Man leaving a couples house (someone you know) would you jump to ilicit conclusions ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably wouldnt even notice

I dont walk down the street looking at whos leaving whos house

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

wouldnt even know what the neighbours looked like never mind their visitors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to slip in and out the back door

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

My neighbours would hear anyway as the walls are so thin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'who's near' freaks me out....

We try to keep our family/private life separate from our naughtiness..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't notice. And I meet a guy that's one street away.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearest I came to my house was being picked up 10 mins from my house and that was pushing my luck. Married so cant have guys coming near house at all.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Nearest I came to my house was being picked up 10 mins from my house and that was pushing my luck. Married so cant have guys coming near house at all."

You seem to have missed the all important 'Married' detail from your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me "

like your style

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

like your style "

We're here for the same thing and I'd like to think that I'd choose people to play with who are mature and discreet enough to be able to say 'hi' in the street to them (even with kids around) and it not be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a guy in the same town as me, and we live two streets apart. I don't think anything of it, if someone was to ask why i was there or that they see me coming out. I would tell them in the nicest way possible to mind their own business !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

like your style "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perversely we aren't that bothered about people in the village-we're not a big part of village life and have met several people from very close by the closest being the next street away and we have run into them locally...but have a no meet rule in the town where i work due to my job and the consequences that could arise if i was recognised there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

like your style

We're here for the same thing and I'd like to think that I'd choose people to play with who are mature and discreet enough to be able to say 'hi' in the street to them (even with kids around) and it not be an issue "

I agree...that's what I look for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

like your style

We're here for the same thing and I'd like to think that I'd choose people to play with who are mature and discreet enough to be able to say 'hi' in the street to them (even with kids around) and it not be an issue "

Have agree to most of that but there are some really freaky people on here whom you would much rather avoid lol

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I see a guy in the same town as me, and we live two streets apart. I don't think anything of it, if someone was to ask why i was there or that they see me coming out. I would tell them in the nicest way possible to mind their own business !! "

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Next door

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have recently moved in to a small cul-de-sac so I am sure my neighbours will notice sooner or later that I have a number of 'gentlemen callers'. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always seem to bump into couples we know in the local asda. Like others have posted we are all consenting adult's so it doesn't bother us one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to avoid this by playing out of county which is hard as there are some very hot people nearby!!!

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Got no choice playing in Guernsey.

We often see others that we have met and we always say hi, nothing more just Hi, if they want to carry on talking then fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a meet within 25 miles of here not something I have had to think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearest I came to my house was being picked up 10 mins from my house and that was pushing my luck. Married so cant have guys coming near house at all.

You seem to have missed the all important 'Married' detail from your profile

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Yes I have left it out. I used to have that I was married in my profile, didnt seem to affect anything too much. But will put it back in, I guess I was hoping if guys wanted to know anything they would ask, most do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really noticed what people get up to and sure as hell i'm not bothered what people think i do what goes on behind closed doors is only important to the people concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've played with someone a couple of streets away - and I sometimes see people from the local club in Tesco or in town and a couple of the mums at school also go to the club - doesn't bother me

like your style

We're here for the same thing and I'd like to think that I'd choose people to play with who are mature and discreet enough to be able to say 'hi' in the street to them (even with kids around) and it not be an issue "

We prefer local as its easier to arrange a last min meet and have bumped into Afew from here in shops etc as long as they don't shout oh we're swingers I don't think it matters

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have recently moved in to a small cul-de-sac so I am sure my neighbours will notice sooner or later that I have a number of 'gentlemen callers'. LOL "

Will you be planting pampas grass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance doesn't bother me so much as most mature adults wouldn't want to bring attention to themselves, never mind someone else...someone sending an email to my boss this week about me though is a whole new aspect to the site that I wasn't quite expecting! Oh the joys of swinging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there's regular gang bang parties held at a house across the road from me. I've met the guy who lives there but never been to one of the parties.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Wouldnt really care but I certainly wouldnt get involved with anyone that close....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather not if honest.. If i didnt have a raving mental ex, i doubt it would bother me at all... In fact, it would be more convienient!

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