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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me but ive had loads of really nice messages from guys in my age range but when they send pics they look either much older....or like a school boy lol .

Maybe its just me with big expectations or something or do you think people 'tell a few fibs' ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me but ive had loads of really nice messages from guys in my age range but when they send pics they look either much older....or like a school boy lol .

Maybe its just me with big expectations or something or do you think people 'tell a few fibs' ???"

Surely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we et that,we think the older guys tend to lie about their age. so they can try get the ounger girl we think

dont see the point in liying really,but also i think its to cover their id

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe pics taken a few years ago

Maybe ages set to get around filters

Maybe fake pics

and probably many more Maybe's.

as for fibs...

I hardly believe anything I read on the tinternet

good luck and welcome

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Is it just me but ive had loads of really nice messages from guys in my age range but when they send pics they look either much older....or like a school boy lol .

Maybe its just me with big expectations or something or do you think people 'tell a few fibs' ???"

There is very little point in hiding your age, you will eventually be found out...and you would probably not get any further than Hello! I have had that same scenario not long ago...thought he was a young George Clooney and turned out to look more like Clive Swift.

There is always botox and cosmetic surgery...men do go under the knife as much as women and its not always a success Lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks and yeah i dont believe much either lol

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We have had that too. We arranged to meet a couple at a club believing that the other couple were in a similar age range as us. But when we met you could easily have added 10 years.

Perhaps they had a tough paper round when they were kids.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not just men though. everyone fibs a bit on here I think. I changed my age for a while because I don't actually look my age and lots of single fems have 40 as a top age. made not an ounce of difference, still no replies so I changed it back. but it's obvious once you meet that you've fibbed or when you send pics so what is the point (although I actually look 6 years younger than I am so I never felt I was being misleading really). we do what we think will help get us the meets we want

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I prefer people to be honest and not lie.

I am 41 and proud of it. Wether I look my age I dont know.

I certainly dont act it lol.

Fun....thats whst I have been described as and am happy with that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's not just men though. everyone fibs a bit on here I think. I changed my age for a while because I don't actually look my age and lots of single fems have 40 as a top age. made not an ounce of difference, still no replies so I changed it back. but it's obvious once you meet that you've fibbed or when you send pics so what is the point (although I actually look 6 years younger than I am so I never felt I was being misleading really). we do what we think will help get us the meets we want"

6 years younger, that's very specific, how did you come to that figure??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, it's what everyone says whenever people tell me how old they think I am. It's been the same since I was 20. I looked 14. It is oddly specific isn't it? Apparently my body looks a lot younger.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Is it just me but ive had loads of really nice messages from guys in my age range but when they send pics they look either much older....or like a school boy lol .

Maybe its just me with big expectations or something or do you think people 'tell a few fibs' ???"

I get loads claiming to be 39 but look 10 years older. I say a polite no thanks and make a note in case they try their luck again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people always try and get away with what they can but what is the point if it is unrealistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, it's what everyone says whenever people tell me how old they think I am. It's been the same since I was 20. I looked 14. It is oddly specific isn't it? Apparently my body looks a lot younger."

Nice one,

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Some guys most certainly knock ten years off .. really disappointing when they send photos ..either that or they smoke too much. Makes me smile and then just dump !

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

speaking as one of the school boys, were worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind the ones that look like schoolboys though.

some of the men who say they are in their fifties actualy looked 70

compared to some sixty year olds who look about 50.

some lie about their age because most older men want to meet women in their twenties if they can.

some people just look old for their age.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I haven't lied about my age since I was 17 and wanted to get into nightclubs

and I have never felt the need to lie about my age since then.

I have met quite a few guys my age who do knock off a few years to keep themselves under the big-five-o mark, as this seems to be a cut off point for a lot of people in their searches. I don't think it really matters that much as long as their photos are current. To me it would be more of an issue if they were showing photos from 10-15 years ago

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I am 53, don't care who knows it.

Cuts down my potential for meets, but hey I am what I am.

Always say, I can do most things as well as I could at 30 and many things better.

Shame no one beleives me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 47 and also proud of it x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Am 49 and so looking forward to turning 50 next month!!! Half a century to go...oh yes I intend on living till I am 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me but ive had loads of really nice messages from guys in my age range but when they send pics they look either much older....or like a school boy lol .

Maybe its just me with big expectations or something or do you think people 'tell a few fibs' ???"

I have to say that I'm 27 but look quite a bit older I'm not saying there all telling the truth as we all know most guys will do what they can to get a shag

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Iv seen pics of men and women on here ad thought "yeah right"!!! No way they the age they claim.....and not in good way!!!!

Really dont see point in lying....Of course they could be telling truth and just look bad for age.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant see the point of lying anyway, i know in my head I am only say 33 years of age its only when I look in the fecking MIRROR I realise I really 56. Wish my mirror would fib to me sometimes lol. The old lady of chat Cat xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see the point in lying..

Im 42 and YES believe it or not im a grandma too, and it loads!

Ive had many guys on here tell me my pics are fake, but i can assure you, i update them regular so ppl can see the person they are about to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple come to see us for a social-he claimed to be 50, looked much older and kept having to stop himself when he talked about what he was doing since he'd retired...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We met a couple once whose profile name was xxxxxxxxxxxcpl40s

We thought they were in there 40s (and their pics backed this up) but I think they were born in the 1940s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 and that's the truth although I have been told by a couple of people on here that I look older than that but I can't do anything about that so hey ho just have to live with what god gave me

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

In my limited experience I notice that younger guys add on a few years. Most state that they are in their 30s when in fact they are in their late 20s. It's to get past people's filters they state. However it made me realise that I actually should not be as rigid. Just get to know someone. If I fancy them, let's meet. I don't condone lying, I just understand why they did it.

With some age really is just a number.

However Immaturity is not limited to a certain age group.

Jangels how did you put that pulsating heart in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 53, don't care who knows it.

Cuts down my potential for meets, but hey I am what I am.

Always say, I can do most things as well as I could at 30 and many things better.

Shame no one beleives me."

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