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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really think it would be a great feature on here for paying members to be able to see if , if anyones, hotlist there on.I often wonder myself, strangely would actually turn me on to find out whos hotlist im on, if any at all that is! if your listening the fab team, get it sorted!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Curiosity yes, but reality no. It would be the end of the hot list.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

workable, only if egos can remain intact...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My hotlist is for me to know the same as my private notes..all for meeeee (evil laugh lol)

Fruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah would be a good feature. Making me curious who's we are on now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is for me to know the same as my private notes..all for meeeee (evil laugh lol)

Fruit x"

Private notes!! I have never used that feature, what sort if things do you write??

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If I met them in a club say and she was wearing a red dress maybe I will note it down so I remember. Or a note to say I need to meet this couple as soon as poss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the notes (complete wazzock) alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I met them in a club say and she was wearing a red dress maybe I will note it down so I remember. Or a note to say I need to meet this couple as soon as poss x"

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Wouldnt benefit anyone to see mine. Hotlist is mostly used for those i wish to hi light for other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I met them in a club say and she was wearing a red dress maybe I will note it down so I remember. Or a note to say I need to meet this couple as soon as poss x"

Sounds good,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See then I wouldnt use my hotlist at all, so all the men Im perving on, I would forget and they wouldnt find my email in their inbox or my wink as I had forgotten their profile name

What good is it, knowing who's hotlist you are on, when no one uses the hotlist because its no longer private?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people could see my hotlist i wouldnt use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah would be a good idea to see who has added you and give you the option to remove yourself from their list too..

i personally dont like the idea of being perved over.. im only pervy with those i choose to be..

im on another site you can remove yourself

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts


"Yeah would be a good feature. Making me curious who's we are on now lol"

Mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"workable, only if egos can remain intact..."

Perhaps we could have a cool list for the dogs? Me first!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


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Private notes!! I have never used that feature, what sort if things do you write??"

Private is the best asset of this site

I put a note for those who don't reply to message after sending you a wink or a first message, a quick note on the big mouths of the forum and also a note on someone i could block but decide not to

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

This is already a feature of Platinum membership.

As is _iewing all friend only pics.

It's invitation only though. If anyone is interested I can get you an invite if you send me a picture of your fajiner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Private notes!! I have never used that feature, what sort if things do you write??

Private is the best asset of this site

I put a note for those who don't reply to message after sending you a wink or a first message, a quick note on the big mouths of the forum and also a note on someone i could block but decide not to"

Are you an auditor?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I was on on POF dating site for a couple of months and put a lot of ladies on my hotlist as possible ones to contact.

A couple of weeks later I got a bizarre message off a woman calling me a creepy weirdo as I'd hotlisted her but not messaged for over 2 weeks

I didn't realise they could see you'd added them... althought that paranoid weird bint got swiftly blocked!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"

Private notes!! I have never used that feature, what sort if things do you write??

Private is the best asset of this site

I put a note for those who don't reply to message after sending you a wink or a first message, a quick note on the big mouths of the forum and also a note on someone i could block but decide not to

Are you an auditor? "

More than an auditor

It help to avoid trouble here as you know who is who.

In the other hand i also add some nice note on the nice people.

In fact i am adding some note on your profile right now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Guess it would be good for those with over inflated ego' to see whose hotlist they are on, can just see the forum threads now..

Im not on anyones hotlist, what can i do about this.

Im on over 100 peoples hotlist, how many are you on.

Someone used to have me on their hotlist and now they have removed me

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Guess it would be good for those with over inflated ego' to see whose hotlist they are on, can just see the forum threads now..

Im not on anyones hotlist, what can i do about this.

Im on over 100 peoples hotlist, how many are you on.

Someone used to have me on their hotlist and now they have removed me"
It will just turn like facebook

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Guess it would be good for those with over inflated ego' to see whose hotlist they are on, can just see the forum threads now..

Im not on anyones hotlist, what can i do about this.

Im on over 100 peoples hotlist, how many are you on.

Someone used to have me on their hotlist and now they have removed me It will just turn like facebook"

Fancy a poke

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

A poke???

I dont see you poking me anytime as i am not there...

Fancy a shag????? Yes ...lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"A poke???

I dont see you poking me anytime as i am not there...

Fancy a shag????? Yes ...lol "

You would be surprised how far my fingers can reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did't no you could do notes....THANKS lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I did't no you could do notes....THANKS lol "
..Comonn Fatboy look on your homepage...there is the private note option on your left handside...

Keep a note of all the ladies who never reply to your msg. That way you do not message them again...

You can also give them a note on how good or bad the meet or shag was

I even note the colour of their underwear

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I did't no you could do notes....THANKS lol ..Comonn Fatboy look on your homepage...there is the private note option on your left handside...

Keep a note of all the ladies who never reply to your msg. That way you do not message them again...

You can also give them a note on how good or bad the meet or shag was

I even note the colour of their underwear "

Bleedin' 'ell, is that available on an Excel spreadsheet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so crap at this. Lol sorry in let you all down

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


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Bleedin' 'ell, is that available on an Excel spreadsheet? "
Time to tell admin to add that spreadsheet option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are arguments for both sides on wether this is a good or bad thing so admin could work it like your friends list where you can choose to display it on your profile or not

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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Bleedin' 'ell, is that available on an Excel spreadsheet? Time to tell admin to add that spreadsheet option"

Bugger that, get us on Dragons Den...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"

Bleedin' 'ell, is that available on an Excel spreadsheet? Time to tell admin to add that spreadsheet option

Bugger that, get us on Dragons Den..."

Dragon Den??? Hope Mr Theophalis or whatever his name will buy this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if i decide not to wear underwear? How will the spreadsheet cope?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"What if i decide not to wear underwear? How will the spreadsheet cope? "
...Will just add a note as : COMMANDO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nop.... Can't find it !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to see how many peoples hotlists you've made - mind though, if people knew that you could see when they added you, it'd probably just end up being used as a substitute for winking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't use it, if we like the person we'll talk to them. Someone we'd never spoken to before messaged us last week to say they'd hot listed us, and it creeped me out to be honest

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually.. i use the hotlist function for negative reasons... just to prepare myself for people being in the same place as me on a given night.. so i know it doesn't ruin my night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually.. i use the hotlist function for negative reasons... just to prepare myself for people being in the same place as me on a given night.. so i know it doesn't ruin my night..."

Can't you just avoid them?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

There's another site I am on where you get a notification if someone has put you in their 'favourites' list. It sometimes makes me shudder at the ones who have chosen me - especially since they never message.

I would hate to see someone else's list or know that I am on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the notes (complete wazzock) alot"

haha similar here - things like - dont even think about it - also the good things like- if youd like to arrange a surprise for me this would be a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's another site I am on where you get a notification if someone has put you in their 'favourites' list. It sometimes makes me shudder at the ones who have chosen me - especially since they never message.

I would hate to see someone else's list or know that I am on there."

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"If I met them in a club say and she was wearing a red dress maybe I will note it down so I remember. Or a note to say I need to meet this couple as soon as poss x

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Lol x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"actually.. i use the hotlist function for negative reasons... just to prepare myself for people being in the same place as me on a given night.. so i know it doesn't ruin my night...

Can't you just avoid them? "

I do.... but it just goes to show that different people use parts of the site in a different way from others.. and the site allows you to do that....

for example... private notes has probably saved me a ton of time on the naughty step.. because I can really vent my spleen there... and serves as a reminder

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