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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can the majority of single women honestly enjoy NSA over the long term?? Or is it mainly a short term fix??

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I've been enjoying NSA through swinging websites since I was 26, so for me yes. Well apart from the couple I moved in with in, but that was a friendship thing, not a sex thing.

But everyone is different.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

from my exsperience its guys who have the issue lol! guys who are sworn singletons then disappear from site and back abit later as they had chance of a realationship .also meets who al of a sudden go cold and you then find theyve got a girl friend again after swearing blind relationship was last think they wanted and happy to enjoy nsa sex .but hey no one knows whats around the corner .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"from my exsperience its guys who have the issue lol! guys who are sworn singletons then disappear from site and back abit later as they had chance of a realationship .also meets who al of a sudden go cold and you then find theyve got a girl friend again after swearing blind relationship was last think they wanted and happy to enjoy nsa sex .but hey no one knows whats around the corner ."

Interesting point, I have found the same with single fems, allthough newbies tend to leave very quickly those that do stay tend to develope a 'hardened' attitude to the site

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

ahhh but is it hardend or mearly realistic approach .maybe people just get wiser about using the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from my exsperience its guys who have the issue lol! guys who are sworn singletons then disappear from site and back abit later as they had chance of a realationship .also meets who al of a sudden go cold and you then find theyve got a girl friend again after swearing blind relationship was last think they wanted and happy to enjoy nsa sex .but hey no one knows whats around the corner ."

i have experienced this too.. ive been single for just over 3 years but most of the regulars i made left cos they got GF's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been doing this for 12 years now, i was married when i started but the last 4 years ive been meeting as a single

Its a long tearm quick fix for me lol, even tho im single i still have needs, i have a very high sex drive and even being on here i dont get anywhere near enough sex, but i get more than i would if i wasnt on here, so yeah its a means to a end, but for now theres no light at the end of the tunnel as im not planning on getting into a relationship ever again, so i'll be doing this for many years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"from my exsperience its guys who have the issue lol! guys who are sworn singletons then disappear from site and back abit later as they had chance of a realationship .also meets who al of a sudden go cold and you then find theyve got a girl friend again after swearing blind relationship was last think they wanted and happy to enjoy nsa sex .but hey no one knows whats around the corner .

i have experienced this too.. ive been single for just over 3 years but most of the regulars i made left cos they got GF's "

ohhh thank god i thought it was just me it happened to !! i was starting to feel like the female "good luck chuck" of fab ! lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile."

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy "

Some of the moaning headlines from couples/single men/ women are cringe worthy. I agree 100%

I use the internet and this site to enhance my life, I still send thanks but no thanks messages, despite my profile saying if I delete it's a thanks but no thanks.

I put up with the rocks to find the diamonds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy "

i wouldnt say angry.. try looking at the profiles in a different light. one of frustration, one of trying to filter out so many unessecary mails to go through cos they arent what your looking for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping for both - has a couple of experiences in the past with an ex thoroughly enjoyed, a few experiences since single and hoping to meet the right guy to continue the experiences with as I kinda like sharing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so

as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy

i wouldnt say angry.. try looking at the profiles in a different light. one of frustration, one of trying to filter out so many unessecary mails to go through cos they arent what your looking for.. "

Maybe your right, it's not worth getting frustrated or angry about though!! It's just a swinging site, I think the frustration/anger runs deeper than that tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so

as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy

i wouldnt say angry.. try looking at the profiles in a different light. one of frustration, one of trying to filter out so many unessecary mails to go through cos they arent what your looking for..

Maybe your right, it's not worth getting frustrated or angry about though!! It's just a swinging site, I think the frustration/anger runs deeper than that tbh. "

yh but how can you not when you get mail after mail after mail to go through which isnt relevant.

i use bold on mine in the hope it will catch peoples eye.. not cos im shouting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can the majority of single women honestly enjoy NSA over the long term?? Or is it mainly a short term fix??"

It seems to me from what, at least from what I've seen, many single women will go with the short term fix - several times over the years, I've seen a particularly attractive girls profile go up, get a sufficient number of verifications to suggest that she's genuine (ie photo verified, site supporter etc), then accrue multiple written verifications over the next few weeks from couples, guys and sometimes a few other girls before she deletes her profile and disappears, only to return a few months or even years later to do the same again.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think there are certainly women who would happily enjoy NSA over a longer term.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but I also think a lot more are looking for love than care to declare it upfront.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but I also think a lot more are looking for love than care to declare it upfront."

I agree, I think women who 'want' long term NSA are rare,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a life so I will give up fabs from time to time, do I give up swinging clubs/friends/sex? No.

Leaving fabs, or your fabs profile is different to giving up nsa or swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so

as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy

i wouldnt say angry.. try looking at the profiles in a different light. one of frustration, one of trying to filter out so many unessecary mails to go through cos they arent what your looking for..

Maybe your right, it's not worth getting frustrated or angry about though!! It's just a swinging site, I think the frustration/anger runs deeper than that tbh.

yh but how can you not when you get mail after mail after mail to go through which isnt relevant.

i use bold on mine in the hope it will catch peoples eye.. not cos im shouting "

But having shouty profiles etc and to many preferences doesn't actually stop the irrelevant emails, however it may put of people who you do want to message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant we have both?

When I was married, I enjoyed nsa and clubs both with him and on my own.

Since my divorce Ive enjoyed nsa.

When in my last relationship I enjoyed nsa but in full honest open style.

Becomming 'hardened' on a site like this, do you mean once women get fed up of sending the very same email 300 times and amend their profile so

as to avoid that, they are hardened?

Or do you mean they decide very quickly what they are/arnt looking for and saying no becomes easier?

Always allow for the unexpected and the person behind the profile.

I mean there attitude becomes hardened, at he end of the day get 100s of emails and being pestered in here isn't a reason to become angry and that applies to all people on here. This site is about choices, if it makes you mad, don't come on, some of the moaning headlines I read are cringe worthy

i wouldnt say angry.. try looking at the profiles in a different light. one of frustration, one of trying to filter out so many unessecary mails to go through cos they arent what your looking for..

Maybe your right, it's not worth getting frustrated or angry about though!! It's just a swinging site, I think the frustration/anger runs deeper than that tbh.

yh but how can you not when you get mail after mail after mail to go through which isnt relevant.

i use bold on mine in the hope it will catch peoples eye.. not cos im shouting

But having shouty profiles etc and to many preferences doesn't actually stop the irrelevant emails, however it may put of people who you do want to message you"

it does work.. of course u still get a few who ignore whats on your profile.

if people see it as shouty and see me as angry then why would i wanna meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this site to make friends and get laid, but id rather a commited relationship. Just dont think theres anyone out there for me. So this will have to do. Im grateful to fab and its lovely fabsters or id be a nun by now lol

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"I'm hoping for both - has a couple of experiences in the past with an ex thoroughly enjoyed, a few experiences since single and hoping to meet the right guy to continue the experiences with as I kinda like sharing lol "

Totally agree ... same for me too

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