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By *oungBi_Fun_x OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

Sheffield

Why can't couples or singles hold conversations here? Chat so we'll on here and get on and then move to another platform and then all the flirting,banter just all goes out of the window! So hard to find someone who doesn't turn weird!

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By *ink vixenCouple
45 weeks ago

Medway

There’s an easy solution.

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By *oungBi_Fun_x OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

Sheffield

What's that?

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By *r MzchiefMan
45 weeks ago

Derbyshire


"Why can't couples or singles hold conversations here? Chat so we'll on here and get on and then move to another platform and then all the flirting,banter just all goes out of the window! So hard to find someone who doesn't turn weird! "

This platform is built for flirting, it is it's purpose. Other message platforms are for more e everyday conversations, possibly plays with peoples minds. Or they as you say are just weird.

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By *oungBi_Fun_x OP   Couple
45 weeks ago

Sheffield

We aren't complaining about the flirting stops on another platform its more talking just stops full stop and everything turns weird.

Ideally we wanna talk with a bi couple or male, get on, talk about every day life, flirt, have a bit of banter then have a social and see where things go from there, problem is we get attached to people, get on well here then get ignored somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Speak for yourself ha ha ha

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By *ink vixenCouple
45 weeks ago

Medway


"What's that?"

Remain chatting on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Why can't couples or singles hold conversations here?"

Words is hard.

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By *rman82Man
45 weeks ago

Manchester


"Why can't couples or singles hold conversations here?

Words is hard. "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I try to make flirty conversations with people; and I’m good with talking to people (like I’m not socially awkward kind of thing ) but I do find people rarely want to talk even in a flirty way lately

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By *heshireman69Man
45 weeks ago

Chester


"I try to make flirty conversations with people; and I’m good with talking to people (like I’m not socially awkward kind of thing ) but I do find people rarely want to talk even in a flirty way lately "

I find exactly the same thing.. On the rare occasions I ever get a reply to a message I can hold a decent conversation / flirt etc but people just seem to drift off.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
45 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Can I speak from my own experience? Well I’m going to anyway . I get a bit overwhelmed with multiple conversations and real life. I get excited at first and then over time get a little sidetracked with other things I have going on. Conversations go a bit cold, but I always let people know I’m still about, just in my own little world. If they choose to wait then great, if they don’t then I completely respect that. I eventually meet the ones who understand and I often attend socials/clubs and let people know if they wanted to bump into me. And I usually dick about in the forums when I need to escape the daily grind.

That’s just my answer though. I can’t speak for everyone else.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
45 weeks ago

Northampton

It’s related to the level of horn!

Come on here, horny, flirt, chat, orgasm, move on.

Get a ping in the office mid afternoon, no reply.

That’s our theory anyway

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By *iredhandMan
45 weeks ago

Manchester


"Can I speak from my own experience? Well I’m going to anyway . I get a bit overwhelmed with multiple conversations and real life. I get excited at first and then over time get a little sidetracked with other things I have going on. Conversations go a bit cold, but I always let people know I’m still about, just in my own little world. If they choose to wait then great, if they don’t then I completely respect that. I eventually meet the ones who understand and I often attend socials/clubs and let people know if they wanted to bump into me. And I usually dick about in the forums when I need to escape the daily grind.

That’s just my answer though. I can’t speak for everyone else. "

As a woman is it possible for you to dick about or should it be fannying around?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
45 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Can I speak from my own experience? Well I’m going to anyway . I get a bit overwhelmed with multiple conversations and real life. I get excited at first and then over time get a little sidetracked with other things I have going on. Conversations go a bit cold, but I always let people know I’m still about, just in my own little world. If they choose to wait then great, if they don’t then I completely respect that. I eventually meet the ones who understand and I often attend socials/clubs and let people know if they wanted to bump into me. And I usually dick about in the forums when I need to escape the daily grind.

That’s just my answer though. I can’t speak for everyone else.

As a woman is it possible for you to dick about or should it be fannying around? "

Good point. I just flap about.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago


"Can I speak from my own experience? Well I’m going to anyway . I get a bit overwhelmed with multiple conversations and real life. I get excited at first and then over time get a little sidetracked with other things I have going on. Conversations go a bit cold, but I always let people know I’m still about, just in my own little world. If they choose to wait then great, if they don’t then I completely respect that. I eventually meet the ones who understand and I often attend socials/clubs and let people know if they wanted to bump into me. And I usually dick about in the forums when I need to escape the daily grind.

That’s just my answer though. I can’t speak for everyone else. "

I can relate so much to this.

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By *assConductorMan
45 weeks ago

the wild

I'm simply terrible at conversations over text.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We aren't complaining about the flirting stops on another platform its more talking just stops full stop and everything turns weird.

Ideally we wanna talk with a bi couple or male, get on, talk about every day life, flirt, have a bit of banter then have a social and see where things go from there, problem is we get attached to people, get on well here then get ignored somewhere else"

A solution?

Move from online chat to a physical social sooner rather than later.

People can get bored of online chat and whilst flirty chat can be fun for a while, if another conversation begins elsewhere thag has more prospects then people will move on.

How long you leave it is up to you. But an early doors face to face will identify some level commitment to carrying things on and also give you the chance to work out if you're compatible.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
45 weeks ago

Watford

Because most people are just here to be voyeuristic now no one seems to follow through or they ghost at this point private meets seem to be dead and clubs seem to be the way to go

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By *cottish guy 555Man
45 weeks ago

London


"Can I speak from my own experience? Well I’m going to anyway . I get a bit overwhelmed with multiple conversations and real life. I get excited at first and then over time get a little sidetracked with other things I have going on. Conversations go a bit cold, but I always let people know I’m still about, just in my own little world. If they choose to wait then great, if they don’t then I completely respect that. I eventually meet the ones who understand and I often attend socials/clubs and let people know if they wanted to bump into me. And I usually dick about in the forums when I need to escape the daily grind.

That’s just my answer though. I can’t speak for everyone else. "

Yep, this sounds like the way it works for me.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
45 weeks ago

chichester

I tend tonnitbhe interested long winded messaging back and forth for weeks. Ultimately it goes no where I find

For be I am very simplistic with approach , I am here to have casual sex with people. I’ll exchange enough messages / vid call to ascertain we are whom we say from pics / check for quick chemistry / attraction then look to get a date slotted in asap .

I am not really one for divulging much about my real life other than the basics . I keep fab well away from my normative life

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
45 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Why can't couples or singles hold conversations here? Chat so we'll on here and get on and then move to another platform and then all the flirting,banter just all goes out of the window! So hard to find someone who doesn't turn weird! "

I'm terrible at flirting and banter.puts me off if it is an ongoing thing. I probably come across as being weird, it's why spontaneous works for me

Mr is good at banter and flirting

Cali

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
45 weeks ago

Leeds

Long drawn out conversations on here become tedious quickly, theres only so many times I can answer how's your day been?

Unless I have a plan to meet soon I'm far from a daily chatter if anything it'll put me off quicker than the occasional little chat.

Some people expect too much personally I have work, kids and a family, chatting with some stranger isn't high on my priorities as I say unless I am planning to meet soon then I'll have that to discuss.

Mrs

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
45 weeks ago

Sheffield

Why not arrange to meet socially first?

Long winded chatting eventually fizzles out. Not everyone wants flirty banter. One of the reasons I prefer clubs and meeting others in person, then take things from there.

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