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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead

We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Marlow

They were probably fake, did they have veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well"

Welcome to the single guy experience on Fab

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By *inochioMan
42 weeks ago

Derbyshire


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well"

Probably every single male prifile without exception. As couples are often quoting on here, accept it and move on.

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By *oxy jWoman
42 weeks ago

taunton somerset

why did you feel you were owed a reply ?? they clearly were not interested so why try again ?? noboidy owes anybody anything ...

get this a lot message from people stating oh i tick all your boxes yep that you may do but i need attraction too there more to this scene than matching wants and likes

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

It’s just part of life. So same in the swinging world.

The key is always attraction. Lots of clubs and socials to get yourselves to and get meeting others.

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Yes they were a real profile with veris and had been on here for a while. Oh well haha

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"why did you feel you were owed a reply ?? they clearly were not interested so why try again ?? noboidy owes anybody anything ...

get this a lot message from people stating oh i tick all your boxes yep that you may do but i need attraction too there more to this scene than matching wants and likes "

We never thought we were owed a reply?

Just saying we were super attracted to them and gutted that obviously they were not interested back. We're just venting and wondering how many other people go through this haha

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By *ussraneCouple
42 weeks ago

Romford

No one is owed a reply but isn’t it good manners ?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"No one is owed a reply but isn’t it good manners ? "

Single guys on Fab have been asking this very same question since forever

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Unreciprocated lust is the worst.

Nevermind OP.

We all have to deal with it sometimes

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"Unreciprocated lust is the worst.

Nevermind OP.

We all have to deal with it sometimes "

Thanks haha. It's crappy but oh well. We're starting to go to our local club now so hopefully we'll have more luck soon

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
42 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Unreciprocated lust is the worst.

Nevermind OP.

We all have to deal with it sometimes

Thanks haha. It's crappy but oh well. We're starting to go to our local club now so hopefully we'll have more luck soon"

Not everyone is into everyone.

And it's even harder when it needs to be a 4 way attraction.

Your local is probably my favourite club. You'll have fun there

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
42 weeks ago

Epsom

Yup. Found one of those rare single guy accounts that really caught my eye and nothing. I contemplated sending over a vag pic with a “wanna meet” after the first failed attempt but decided against it

Bx

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Yup. Found one of those rare single guy accounts that really caught my eye and nothing. I contemplated sending over a vag pic with a “wanna meet” after the first failed attempt but decided against it

Bx"

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"No one is owed a reply but isn’t it good manners ? "

As a single female on here I simply don’t have the time to reply to the amount of messages I receive with the best will in the world! So I have a disclaimer stating as much in my profile… it’s not just about manners sometimes it’s about sheer volume!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Gutted? Are you sure you're not feeling bad about the illusion. Rather than their lack of action?

Can't miss what you never had...

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By *layfullsamMan
42 weeks ago

Solihull


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well"

Be glass half full and tell yourself you had a lucky escape

Probably big Barry from bury masturbating over your profile wearing a string vest and skid marked dirty y fronts in front of a c.m splattered pc monitor

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I bought a lottery ticket the other day. I was super excited, I had planned out everything that I was going to spend my winnings on. I was gutted when none of my numbers came in. Oh well.

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"Unreciprocated lust is the worst.

Nevermind OP.

We all have to deal with it sometimes

Thanks haha. It's crappy but oh well. We're starting to go to our local club now so hopefully we'll have more luck soon

Not everyone is into everyone.

And it's even harder when it needs to be a 4 way attraction.

Your local is probably my favourite club. You'll have fun there "

Good to hear we're excited but nervous haha!

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Bloody hell, we were only having a laugh, some people take everything so seriously

Thanks for the laughs guys, probably avoided a few big Barry's in our time haha

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42 weeks ago

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By *essTTWoman
42 weeks ago

Birmingham


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well"

Happens to the best of us although I wouldn't of dreamt of sending a 2nd message

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well"

Can’t say I’ve ever experienced this…

…*flashbacks intensifying, slowly slides off the sofa into a heaped mess on the floor hoping for the misery and disappointment to end*

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"We saw a FF couple on here we were super interested in, ticked every box we could imagine and more. Both girls absolutely stunning, both our type. And they never read our message then eventually deleted. Tried again a few months later and they never read again until they deleted it. Didn't look at our profile (unless they've hidden that).

Anyone else ever been really into someone then gutted they didn't reply to you? Just very disheartening as we haven't had any luck at all really. Oh well

Happens to the best of us although I wouldn't of dreamt of sending a 2nd message "

It was a few months later, thought we'd just try once more as sometimes things get missed. Wouldn't dream of pestering though as that's just not attractive at all x

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By *parkle1974Woman
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't say anyone has had that effect on me in all honesty.

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


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Can’t say I’ve ever experienced this…

…*flashbacks intensifying, slowly slides off the sofa into a heaped mess on the floor hoping for the misery and disappointment to end*

"

Haha, thanks for the laugh. It's rubbish but it's life. Good luck!

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"Can't say anyone has had that effect on me in all honesty."

Haha, lucky you! You're an attractive lady though so it's probably fellas on the other side thinking you were perfect for them haha. That's life though

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By *ose and her beastCouple
42 weeks ago

Watford

All the time lol

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By *rayBoo OP   Couple
42 weeks ago

Birkenhead


"All the time lol"

Awh looking at your profile, you're a great looking couple too. Their loss haha

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By *cunnylassCouple
42 weeks ago

Exeter

We simply don't reply if we're not interested in meeting the person who has messaged us.It doesn't matter what others think about manners etc.This is how we run our account and it works for us.

M and M

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
42 weeks ago

wickford


"I bought a lottery ticket the other day. I was super excited, I had planned out everything that I was going to spend my winnings on. I was gutted when none of my numbers came in. Oh well. "
hahaha

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