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Dating sites / vanilla or nay

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By *tagmeup OP   Man
36 weeks ago

wirral

So who on here is on dating sites and would you accept vanilla with a new partner? Curious as I don’t think i could do vanilla dating anymore.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
36 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yes I’m on them. I had a vanilla date on Friday. It felt weird like I wasn’t being my true self even though I don’t always talk about swinging with fab friends. I did try though. It was pleasant.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

No gave them up. I’d rather just use fab and go to clubs. Hopefully meet someone with the same interests along the way. I’m not looking for a vanilla relationship x

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By *os19Man
36 weeks ago

Edmonton

I’m on the Facebook dating site but I cancelled tonight’s date on Monday with a view to meeting on Saturday.Last night chat and some of the txt leading up to last nights chat.I don’t think she is very vanilla

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By *tagmeup OP   Man
36 weeks ago

wirral


"Yes I’m on them. I had a vanilla date on Friday. It felt weird like I wasn’t being my true self even though I don’t always talk about swinging with fab friends. I did try though. It was pleasant. "

Yeah totally get this. I feel like am wasting time dating on these sites as i want a gf who i can continue enjoying the lifestyle with.

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By *tagmeup OP   Man
36 weeks ago

wirral


"No gave them up. I’d rather just use fab and go to clubs. Hopefully meet someone with the same interests along the way. I’m not looking for a vanilla relationship x"

I dont blame you but it’s tough as the dating sites you know they want a relationship which i do and am happy to travel for the right person but i need to continue this fun lifestyle and want to do that with the right lady.

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By *acksparrow99Man
36 weeks ago

Canary Wharf, London

I gave them up long time ago.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
36 weeks ago

south coast IOW

I dont bother with dating sites. Vanilla would not work for me. I need a guy who likes to share.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
36 weeks ago

Next Door

Totally given up on dating sites.

Haven't really on a proper date in 4yrs.

I think once you hit the mid 40s it becomes very hard on the sites. The last time I used one, I had probably 3 messages from people who suited what I was looking for and after a hello they stopped.

Also find most people I like are too far away and not interested in a relationship with distance.

Open to dating on here with the right person, i think i might be easier to have someone in the lifestyle. Ive not found him on here so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I’m still of the fishy one, but don’t frequent it very often, where as my phone seems to automatically load fab every time I pick it up

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By *lik and PaulCouple
36 weeks ago

Flagrante

Neither of us have ever used dating sites as there's plenty of opportunity in real life for a vanilla relationship. For swinging we mainly use clubs plus the odd opportunistic encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes I am because I would like a relationship, I haven’t found that fab is a place for that in my personal experience

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By *tagmeup OP   Man
36 weeks ago

wirral


"I dont bother with dating sites. Vanilla would not work for me. I need a guy who likes to share. "

Yes this is exactly what i want, a girl who i fancy that i can take for meals, have holidays with but also share her x

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By *jonesMan
36 weeks ago

Plymouth

I'm on vanilla sites and have a lot of coffees with nice ladies ..

.it's impossible to find a single woman I like on fab so I'm looking for a sex positive (as they say on their profiles) adventurous ladies for a relationship and hopefully introduce them to this.

I would come off fab if I did find a gorgeous lady I thought I could convert ...

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Yes I’m on them. I had a vanilla date on Friday. It felt weird like I wasn’t being my true self even though I don’t always talk about swinging with fab friends. I did try though. It was pleasant. "

The trouble is the longer your into swinging the more it can pop out in conversation

You never know your luck

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By *Cups32Woman
36 weeks ago

Colne

I'm on vanilla sites and currently chatting to a guy into cuckolding/hotwifing so it is possible to find those into an alternative lifestyle away from here and it's not the first time it's happened on the vanilla sites either.

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By *urora1912Woman
36 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm on dating sites as I would like to find someone to be in my life,I don't know if I would want to swing once I found someone though

It's something I need to think long and hard about

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By *jonesMan
36 weeks ago

Plymouth


"I'm on vanilla sites and currently chatting to a guy into cuckolding/hotwifing so it is possible to find those into an alternative lifestyle away from here and it's not the first time it's happened on the vanilla sites either. "

Feeld can be a great site . Sort of cross between tinder and fab

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By *Cups32Woman
36 weeks ago

Colne


"I'm on vanilla sites and currently chatting to a guy into cuckolding/hotwifing so it is possible to find those into an alternative lifestyle away from here and it's not the first time it's happened on the vanilla sites either.

Feeld can be a great site . Sort of cross between tinder and fab "

I've tried Feeld but it's mainly Polyamourous or ENM.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Nope, well apart from this.. Dating sites are not for me. I prefer the more traditional hello in a public place.

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By *ixen_Seeking_StagWoman
23 weeks ago

Bristol

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By *ixen_Seeking_StagWoman
23 weeks ago

Bristol


"I dont bother with dating sites. Vanilla would not work for me. I need a guy who likes to share.

Yes this is exactly what i want, a girl who i fancy that i can take for meals, have holidays with but also share her x"

Wow, why are you so far away xx

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