FabSwingers.com forum: Darkrooms at Clubs?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love the idea of the darkroom at a club not knowing who is playing really works for me but do males wear a condom if full sex occurs?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Love the idea of the darkroom at a club not knowing who is playing really works for me but do males wear a condom if full sex occurs?"

i would hope so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd need to check as there will always be someone trying it on.

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

I have to say that this is a great idea. I went to a club in Amsterdam where there was a dark room in the basement - and when I say dark I mean absolutely pitch black without a single gleam of light - not a photon! It was tremendous, you'd no idea who was doing what to whom and with what!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could you find your way out? Could have been skeletons in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even in dark rooms, men/women should ask for permission before they touch you.

In my personal experience, normally a light touch and eye contact is enough, because whilst its dark you can see enough.

Re condoms, always do the finger check.

How would you feel sat at some clinic somewhere because you didnt check a stranger covered up? Or the worrying whether you've been exposed to something?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

There has been an eye-opening threat about stealthing on here + the darkroom beeing an obvious choice for those type of guys!

We love the visiual stimulation of swinging so a Darkroom is not for us.

Enjoy but with care

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in a darkroom it is up to the person who is touched to say "no thanks" or to state any limits they might have. This would certainly include the condom question. I have experienced the dark room at Infusion and found it really sexy, but like everything else some things float your boat while other experiences will sink it.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

glow in the dark condom

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

The Club in Aberdeen has pulsating lowlights so you can see a little. Whenever we've been in there they guys have always been covered. I won't play otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think in a darkroom it is up to the person who is touched to say "no thanks" or to state any limits they might have. This would certainly include the condom question. I have experienced the dark room at Infusion and found it really sexy, but like everything else some things float your boat while other experiences will sink it."

It seems a strange concept to say "No thanks!" in a darkroom.

After all, you can't really say that you don't fancy them or don't like the look of them can you?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"glow in the dark condom "

Awesome idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear a condom in the darkroom for sex, i have a wristband with a pouch in it where i keed a condom for the purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your comment traceand Ric. My remarks about saying "no thanks" was meant to point out the the conclusion that you so aptly came to. Brian x

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Tried the darkroom at abfabs just the once and would never go in another one ever again. It was a horrible scary experience where some VERY large old man literally dragged his woman over and grabbed at my g-string area. So we got out damn quick and have never been in another since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been brave enough to try one. Don't like the idea of not knowing who is touching me. Would imagine a sleazy, revolting, dirty old fat guy trying to get it on with me... Yuk!

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By *ipper DeVineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I went in one at a London club, and was more worried about someone's hand going in to my bagand losing my phone and wallet, I got straight back out, I'd love to try it in no more than underwear, but what to do with your personal belongings? One Love to you all xxx

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I've never been brave enough to try one. Don't like the idea of not knowing who is touching me. Would imagine a sleazy, revolting, dirty old fat guy trying to get it on with me... Yuk!"

I think thats the whole thing about a dark room is your not quite sure whom is touching you, just like a glory hole box. By it's nature, a dark room doesn't suit everyone, infact it probably suits only a minority, but thats just the same with say a BDSM area of a club in that if you don't like the idea of being spanked, it's unlikely your going to allow yourself to be tied up and let people spank you. As you post implies, I've seen some very large men and women in darkrooms, but I've also seen some absolutely stunning ladies and very fit guys also enjoying everything a darkroom has to offer.

I've been in darkrooms at Xtasia (when they had one) and at Cupids. The ladies and couples whom enter the darkroom know what they are doing and like the anomity of what happens in there, and presumerably enjoy the almost scrum like syndrome that develops in those types of rooms. Similarly with a grope box, if you don't like hands mainly and the occasional cock being thrust through the glory hole to touch you, you wouldn't go in it, but certainly at the facilities in Xtasia I have seen many ladies enjoying that experience and several ladies and guys more than happy to take part from the outside.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Surely the guys that go in a dark room have to be very "bi friendly" as you would not have a clue who or where you was touching someone.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of a dark room.

must seek one out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love darkrooms they are great fun never had an issue with guys not wearing condoms we love the new darkroom layout at xtasia with grope box and glory holes built in the same room

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love all the replies in here and I'm definitely still tempted - will definitely remember the finger test - thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been brave enough to try one. Don't like the idea of not knowing who is touching me. Would imagine a sleazy, revolting, dirty old fat guy trying to get it on with me... Yuk!"

You called?

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"Surely the guys that go in a dark room have to be very "bi friendly" as you would not have a clue who or where you was touching someone.

Dave"

LOL Dave, well I haven't been in a dark room thats so dark you couldn't make out whom was male or female. I think it would be fare to say though that you have to be comfortable in the company of other males, as you would perhaps in a 3some, but in reality I can honestly say that I have never been touched by a male in a dark room, but I have touched and been touched by plenty of females in darkrooms.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't ask to touch in a dark room... if someone says No... that is different.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"Love all the replies in here and I'm definitely still tempted - will definitely remember the finger test - thanks x"

Well Naughtyside,

The only darkroom in a club that I can readily think of around your area is Infusions in Blackpool, I haven't been to that club yet but looking at the website it looks good.

As AnnaDean says, the maze/gropebox at Xtasia is excellent and almost dark and I'm sure I read from the Xtasia Owners that they are looking into bringing back the darkroom at the club in the future.

I'd have offered to take you myself, and yes I have read your profile, but it's a real bummer being 51 instead of 50....lol

You can certainly have a lot of fun in a darkroom, but it's definately not for the faint hearted....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as uk male said xtasia are looking to bring the other darkroom back as well as still keeping the new one and since you last came to xtasia more rooms have been added but the darkroom is our favourite anna loves being surrounded by guys and not knowing who they are is more fun

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

"I wouldn't ask to touch in a dark room... if someone says No... that is different."

I agree with you, by entering the darkroom your implicitly consenting to being touched without losing your right to say No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree you always expect contact in a darkroom but no still means no

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