FabSwingers.com forum: Couples who play separately

By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

Do you find you have more resistance from potential play partners through messaging when you say you play separately?

We seem to get people believing we are hiding behind a ‘fake profile’ smoke screen

We tried single accounts also but he doesn’t get much joy with messaging people as a single man.

We’ve had far better success in the club environment though. Which is a positive! Just we can’t always find the time to visit clubs due to childcare etc.

How does everyone else manage this dynamic successfully?

By *isstinseltoesWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I'm half a couple that meets separately.we met here and kept our solo profiles, if someone wants to meet my partner I'll happily confirm it's all OK.

Funnily enough not one man has ever asked to check with my partner though.

It's hard for men who play with permission, because of all the men on here who are supposedly single, but are really cheating.

So I think some women just figure it's easier not to meet attached men, even if it's with permission.

Clubs can be an easier option apparently as people don't ask apparently.

By *isstinseltoesWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also, I think the fake bit comes from men who are still pretending they're a couple, when they've split up.

They keep using the account and post updates like "only Mr meeting" or who wants to meet Mr alone.

By *orl1971Couple
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

Wouldn’t even try to meet separately. Mrs would get all the meets and Mr would get none judging by what we see on Fab.

Think people are suspicious of guys of a couple playing alone.