FabSwingers.com forum: Fisting tips

By *ake and Becky OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Becky and I have always wanted to do this (Jake on Becky). We've tried before, but I have rather large hands and can never get anywhere near four knuckles in.

We've done all the obvious stuff: slow, lots of fun first, plenty of relaxation, sometimes a few glasses of something to loosen us up, plenty of lube.. but never quite there. I'm not sure it's possible with hands this big, bit if we're missing something obvious please let us know! Any tips?

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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago

exeter

Practice. Regularly.

And also start with smaller (hands or toys) and gradually increase.

Use as much lube as you think is enough and then add more.

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Also don't get so focused on achieving the end result that you forget to have fun xx

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By *ake and Becky OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Please reply in the forum rather than via PM please. Others may find your tips helpful.

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By *heMaestroMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Reminds me of a old poem

When I was a little girl I had a little quim, I sat upon my bed and put one finger in.

Now I am a woman and full of all the charm, I can get 4 fingers in and half my fucking arm.

Anyhow, keep practicing and let me know if you need any help

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

We've never quite managed it either, same as yourselves, never get past the knuckles.

Would agree with Voodevil about not focusing too much on managing it, it's horny fun just trying lol

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Practice with varying sizes of toys first to get comfortable with being stretched. Lots of lube and be careful.

I have a fwb that loves the feeling so have done it a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some hands are just too big. Don't force it. If you can't don it despite practice and lots of lubrication, ask a lady with narrow hands for help. Once in, carefully arrange fingers into a fist-like shape with fingertips facing inwards. Think of holding a fishing rod in your hand. The sensation is difficult to explain, but extremely arousing. You may squirt, you may have strong orgasms, you will be shocked and delighted at the same time. Enjoy!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

With practice theres a few toys out there that open you up.

Even on ebay

Have you tried Belladonnas Magic Hand or practiced with it.

Some knot dildos are popular ( bad dragon ) but they still need practice.

Now whilst my hands are thin and small ( piano hands ) some of the mens hands are

I can understand some of the ladies thinking

no way is that going inside of me.

That bulb or knot has a different feeling to it compared to a normal dildo.

You can feel it open your lips to enter you as well as when its being pulled out.

You can also feel it sliding down inside of you dosnt matter if its vaginal or anal you can feel it.

the toys are expensive but you can make a bulb by using a tight rubber over the dildo and packing inside of it.

Halfway down a 7" dildo this will give you a little entrance before the bulb and allow close up after the bulb

then using a condom or 2 to cover the lot.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Going to try this when we can , small hands first !

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Don't forget to twist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Belladonnas Magic Hand is a good toy to try.

I would say good quality of lube, look for one that is designed for fisting. Then use loads and more.

Then it's just a case of keep practicing, but it maybe that is not possible.

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By *NV14INVCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Tried lots but never got all the way. Been pretty close and decided it was down to mood and amount of play. Hopefully we will get there one day if we are lucky.

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By *isterMushroomMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I’ve found that taking my watch off first can help

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I keep reading this as "fishing tips" and wondering if I'm in the wrong forum

MrsAbz

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