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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester

Sounds really weird but from march 23 to now I was tracking my own sex stats, and thought I might post them here. Being separated I’ve been exploring my sexual side and thought it would be interesting to note my statistics like a game, so without further ado

Adz stupid sex stats 23/24 season

Times had sex 109 (this is sessions so if I had sex twice in the same session it would count as 1) - disappointed with the numbers here, due to working away a lot this year hasn’t helped

New sex partners

36 (quite low really but still had lots of fun)

Where did I meet these new partners

14 - Tinder

4 - Bumble/ POF (forgot to record it correctly)

9 - organically I.e nights out

2 - fab

7 - swingers clubs

Type

84 - 1-2-1

21 - MMF

4 - gangbangs

Protected (didn’t quite record this correctly)

98 bare

10 protected

Misc

11 STD tests (all negative)

6 viagras taken (usually taken from late bootie calls when I wasn’t on form)

Key things to note, fab isn’t the best to meet, however the couple that I did meet were the best meets. Tinder/ pof/ bumble is just admin sometimes, where fab meets were the most simple.

Gangbangs are my fav but also the most contentious, private gangbangs were the best, club gangbangs were sometimes awful.

Going bare is always my fav, I’ve had the snip so no worries that side, although testing is expensive, our local STD service is awful, so spent £129 per test private but that included testing everything.

All in all it was fun to keep stats but feels a bit weird now, not sure if I’ll do it again, but be fun to compare years.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Is there a spreadsheet available?

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By *sWyldWoman
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

109 times and 36 new people in a year.. When do you have time to do anything else!

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By *ewgirl42Woman
44 weeks ago

london

I see you are bi….whats the M/F split?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Is there a spreadsheet available?"

Yes. And a pie chart would look good actually on these stats tbh!!

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"109 times and 36 new people in a year.. When do you have time to do anything else! "

I thought they were rookie numbers to be fair

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"Is there a spreadsheet available?

Yes. And a pie chart would look good actually on these stats tbh!!"

lol it’s a google sheet to be fair, but just tallies. I’m a sucker for a bit of stats.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

£129 !!!!!

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"I see you are bi….whats the M/F split? "

Good question I didn’t record it. I only play bi with the right couple, so low numbers on this. I’ll record it this season though.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"£129 !!!!!"

I know, shocking, that’s the cheapest as well that’s from a reputable company. I can get a free home test from sexual health clinic (they don’t do walk ins) but takes weeks to get the result and don’t test for everything.

The expense of going bare

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By *_weadenMan
44 weeks ago

Near Hull


"Is there a spreadsheet available?

Yes. And a pie chart would look good actually on these stats tbh!!"

Is that a creampie chart

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By *KTim61Man
44 weeks ago

Tipton

ME

New sex partners

1

Type

1 - MMF

Protected (But her boyfriend wasnt )

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"£129 !!!!!

I know, shocking, that’s the cheapest as well that’s from a reputable company. I can get a free home test from sexual health clinic (they don’t do walk ins) but takes weeks to get the result and don’t test for everything.

The expense of going bare "

how quick do you get the 129 results

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Manchester


"£129 !!!!!

I know, shocking, that’s the cheapest as well that’s from a reputable company. I can get a free home test from sexual health clinic (they don’t do walk ins) but takes weeks to get the result and don’t test for everything.

The expense of going bare how quick do you get the 129 results"

Usually within 5 days of the test, but had it a lot sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Is there a spreadsheet available?

Yes. And a pie chart would look good actually on these stats tbh!!"

Could it also be in 3d

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By *sWyldWoman
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm just considering mine and it makes me quite sad

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I'm just considering mine and it makes me quite sad "

Happy to help getting the stats up x

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
44 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

11 tests all negative- if this is this year only, the three month window opens in a month, assuming you got laid on the 1st January BB. Let’s hear back then. I’ll grab the popcorn and wait. Best of luck.

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By *rchie300Man
44 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Im impressed O.P …… I’d beat you hands down on wanking , but I guess solo sex doesn’t count on your stats …. I was magnificent by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Are you achieving your goals? What are your projected future achievements on a year-to-year basis? Would you say you are above or below your peer group?

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
44 weeks ago

Glasgow

Interesting stats.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Is there a spreadsheet available?

Yes. And a pie chart would look good actually on these stats tbh!!

lol it’s a google sheet to be fair, but just tallies. I’m a sucker for a bit of stats.

"

Interesting. What fields did you record in the spreadsheet? The weekday of various events, be great to know which day is best? And how many messages or meets you needed to send before a scoring meet (from each online one)? Snd survivor bias can affect the conclusions, so did you capture the failure rates too?

Really interesting stuff

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By *ickD80Man
44 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

98 bare and 10 protected…..so 91% of the women you had sex with were happy to have unprotected sex…to me that seems completely unrealistic, I’m wondering if there are any other men on this site who have also experienced that 91% of the women they fucked who they weren’t in a relationship with were happy to do it unprotected.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
44 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Not trying to be rude OP, genuine question, have you been assessed for ASD?

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By *ickD80Man
44 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You’ve met 7 people from going to clubs…so I’m guessing you’ve been to a club on at least 7 different occasions. Whenever any one asks for the best way to get verifications they’re told to go to clubs and meet people in person….so you’ve been to a club at least 7 times and you have 2 verifications. The people who post about going to clubs to get verifications normally have 2 or 3 verifications from every night they went to a club so it’s weird that you only have 2 verifications

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By *ags73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I wondered on age. OP is probably at a good age for a cross section of women upwards and downwards.

I’ll admit to be jealous. No way I’m producing stats though.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
44 weeks ago

North Shields

I built a counter counter. Some acrylic clear tubes with coloured counters.

We're filling it up this year (since Christmas) and excited to see what the distribution looks like.

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By *m2330Man
44 weeks ago

Bromborough

109 times? Who you trying to kid??

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By *ags73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I built a counter counter. Some acrylic clear tubes with coloured counters.

We're filling it up this year (since Christmas) and excited to see what the distribution looks like. "

What are you counting men/women or types of sex?

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By *ags73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"109 times? Who you trying to kid??"

365/109 is an average 3.34 days between shags. Twice a week?

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By *eet-la-MinxWoman
44 weeks ago

Bishop STORTFORD

Great humble brag - disappointed sex 106 times, 36 new partners quite low. If it's true enjoy it while you can. Won't be too long before STDs beckon.

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By *ames-77Man
44 weeks ago

milton keynes

People that do well in life tend to stay quiet and humble ..when people have to try to impress others with words and stories it tends to be them talking of the life they wish they had and by pretending they have it gain some form of respect

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By *ickD80Man
44 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"People that do well in life tend to stay quiet and humble ..when people have to try to impress others with words and stories it tends to be them talking of the life they wish they had and by pretending they have it gain some form of respect "

Are you saying that OP is lying?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"109 times? Who you trying to kid??

365/109 is an average 3.34 days between shags. Twice a week?"

Anyone who fucked more than 100 times would have recorded it in higher detail, surely ??, at the very least performance by day, so until we can see his Google sheet, it's not a credible story. But it made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I built a counter counter. Some acrylic clear tubes with coloured counters.

We're filling it up this year (since Christmas) and excited to see what the distribution looks like. "

brilliant what are the categories

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

This is a gentle, boasting thread isn’t it?

Me - I’ve had sex a few times.

I’ve had an MFM a couple of times

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
44 weeks ago

Worcester


"This is a gentle, boasting thread isn’t it?

Me - I’ve had sex a few times.

I’ve had an MFM a couple of times

"

It does certainly read like a humble brag.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
42 weeks ago

North Shields


"I built a counter counter. Some acrylic clear tubes with coloured counters.

We're filling it up this year (since Christmas) and excited to see what the distribution looks like.

What are you counting men/women or types of sex?"

We're counting most scenarios.

So her fucking alone

Her fucking with bf present

Same for him and same for sucking.

5 tubes and about 8 coloured counters so quite a few possible combinations.

Also tracking if its at home or away.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"This is a gentle, boasting thread isn’t it?

Me - I’ve had sex a few times.

I’ve had an MFM a couple of times

It does certainly read like a humble brag."

Mine sure as hell doesn’t!

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
42 weeks ago

all over

I can't explain why but it all made me feel ill.

Especially the 98 bare

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
42 weeks ago

all over


"You’ve met 7 people from going to clubs…so I’m guessing you’ve been to a club on at least 7 different occasions. Whenever any one asks for the best way to get verifications they’re told to go to clubs and meet people in person….so you’ve been to a club at least 7 times and you have 2 verifications. The people who post about going to clubs to get verifications normally have 2 or 3 verifications from every night they went to a club so it’s weird that you only have 2 verifications "

He may have been to a club once and had a gb with 7 people.

He also may not need a club to verify him, hence did not ask.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"11 tests all negative- if this is this year only, the three month window opens in a month, assuming you got laid on the 1st January BB. Let’s hear back then. I’ll grab the popcorn and wait. Best of luck. "

Just got results back. All clear. Most STDs are two weeks incubation periods. HIV is 3 months, however the risk for a male having penetrative vaginal sex with a female is very low.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"98 bare and 10 protected…..so 91% of the women you had sex with were happy to have unprotected sex…to me that seems completely unrealistic, I’m wondering if there are any other men on this site who have also experienced that 91% of the women they fucked who they weren’t in a relationship with were happy to do it unprotected. "

It’s a lot easier to go bare, if you have had the snip and are regularly tested.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"Not trying to be rude OP, genuine question, have you been assessed for ASD? "

I’ve no idea what that is, but I have ADHD.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"You’ve met 7 people from going to clubs…so I’m guessing you’ve been to a club on at least 7 different occasions. Whenever any one asks for the best way to get verifications they’re told to go to clubs and meet people in person….so you’ve been to a club at least 7 times and you have 2 verifications. The people who post about going to clubs to get verifications normally have 2 or 3 verifications from every night they went to a club so it’s weird that you only have 2 verifications "

I don’t think I’ve asked or ever been asked what my fab name is a lot a club. I’ve had telegram and WhatsApp details, but in regards to fab I’ve never done that. Nor would I ask to be verified, I would find that very weird.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"109 times? Who you trying to kid??

365/109 is an average 3.34 days between shags. Twice a week?"

Aye roughly about right. I work away a lot so it’s easier to find new ladies on tinder etc. some weeks could be more some weeks less. Also when it’s my turn to have my kids at the weekend I don’t play at all, so that will reduce the opportunities. But twice a week I would say is about right

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry


"11 tests all negative- if this is this year only, the three month window opens in a month, assuming you got laid on the 1st January BB. Let’s hear back then. I’ll grab the popcorn and wait. Best of luck.

Just got results back. All clear. Most STDs are two weeks incubation periods. HIV is 3 months, however the risk for a male having penetrative vaginal sex with a female is very low."

. Seriously??? Wow! There is some delusional stuff going on here! Syphilis and gonorrhoea are at an all-time high. There are a number of variants that are now antibiotic resistant. What about things that aren’t regularly tested for such as hepatitis, Trichomoniasis, herpes, and HPV which causes not just cervical cancer but penile cancer too. All of this information is available on the first page of the GUM clinics were this to be true.

I hope for your sake that you’re just trolling and full of shit, otherwise the people who are engaging with you are genuinely taking their lives in their hands.

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By *dz69247 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Manchester


"11 tests all negative- if this is this year only, the three month window opens in a month, assuming you got laid on the 1st January BB. Let’s hear back then. I’ll grab the popcorn and wait. Best of luck.

Just got results back. All clear. Most STDs are two weeks incubation periods. HIV is 3 months, however the risk for a male having penetrative vaginal sex with a female is very low.

. Seriously??? Wow! There is some delusional stuff going on here! Syphilis and gonorrhoea are at an all-time high. There are a number of variants that are now antibiotic resistant. What about things that aren’t regularly tested for such as hepatitis, Trichomoniasis, herpes, and HPV which causes not just cervical cancer but penile cancer too. All of this information is available on the first page of the GUM clinics were this to be true.

I hope for your sake that you’re just trolling and full of shit, otherwise the people who are engaging with you are genuinely taking their lives in their hands. "

I understand your point. Going bare is a risk, I try and mitigate that risk with regular testing, but you are right it doesn’t remove the risk.

The test I do is for all the STDs you mention. I should have been clearer, the risk for HIV is lower for males who are having vaginal penetration. Males can still catch all the other not so good stuff.

I’ve never hidden the fact I go bare, and every single person I’ve slept with (well unless it was arranged to go bare beforehand) I’ve told I rarely use condoms.

Live and let live.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
40 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry


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The test I do is for all the STDs you mention. I should have been clearer, the risk for HIV is lower for males who are having vaginal penetration. Males can still catch all the other not so good stuff.

I’ve never hidden the fact I go bare, and every single person I’ve slept with (well unless it was arranged to go bare beforehand) I’ve told I rarely use condoms.

Live and let live."

You do you.

No test does all of those, particularly given that two live in the nerves and will come up as negative unless there were an active infection. It doesn’t mean that you’re not infected.

I’m not stopping you living your life the way you want to. Just countering misinformation for the benefit of others.

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