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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single lady on here I would like to pick the brains of those ladies who are half of a couple, especially those of you who aren't married/don't live together and who met as swingers, ie were already on the scene before they became a couple.

What, if anything do you keep between your partner and yourself only?

I know for some it's penetration, others its kissing or cuddling.

TIA

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We where already both swingers when we met 7 years ago, weve been together 6 and dont live together. No matter what you do with someone else and how good it is its never the same experience as with your partner. Its not necessarily the sexual side we keep for each other apart from the fact he is the only one i dont have protective sex with. Its the cuddling and lying together in each others arms and the gentleness that i dont share with anyone else. I like hard sex, i dont like soft gentle sex. Thats for my relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't do anything with anyone that I haven't done with 2wheels-anal being the main thing. I also wouldn't submit to just anyone the way I do with him until we're both comfortable with the other guys experience and ability. I also wouldn't do bareback with anyone other than him.

I have hugged play partners but I wouldn't want to snuggle into anyone else's arms other than 2wheels.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we've been together we've not plyed alone. Just doesn't feel right nor had the urge.

But for me it would be the sensual side that's important. I don't want to hug someone, look into their eyes whilst stroking their hair, tickle anyone like I do with evie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys for your answers so far.

What about orgasms, do any of you keep those just between yourselves?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I've removed a post. Just a reminder not to use the forums to contact people if they have their account settings to block messages from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys for your answers so far.

What about orgasms, do any of you keep those just between yourselves?"

Nope-I know 2wheels prefers to come over a swinging partner rather than in her and only come inside me but I'm not particularly fussed by it. I know he also prefers my swinging partners not to come inside me (wearing a condom of course) but our orgasms are not exclusive to us. Personally, it doesn't worry me-I just want everyone to enjoy themselves and feel good.

crystal

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

For us it is sleeping over, no matter what goes on we always end up back in our bed together. It has surprised us how many people have asked me to spend the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.......love?

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