FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get into swinging?

By *elshnewbies69 OP Couple
46 weeks ago

cardiff

Out of curiosity what was everyone's first time experience of swinging and how did it come about?

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By *amesnplanesMan
46 weeks ago

Banbridge

I was an expat in Asia. Was invited to a house party.... And it turned out to be a lot more than just beer/ wine and a chat.

When in Rome was my thinking and I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I’m a bisexual wife and came out as

First experience was with more then 1 woman and husband

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Used to watch the German tv channels when sky first came out...blew my mind. Oh and I had a couple of sexy next door neighbours...

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
46 weeks ago

IRVINE

It was something I always wanted to try.so I just asked my hubby one night how he felt about me with two men and how sexy it would be.he gave it a few weeks and agreed it could be fun.that was 30 years ago and we had every looked back

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
46 weeks ago

Rotherham

By chance after an accidental d*unken threesome whilst at a uni party which later turned to swinging then full cuckold relationships.

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
46 weeks ago

Leicester

Always wanted to watch wife with another woman so she suggested it as she was on as a single years ago, so now we want to meet with Bi female and Bi male couples.

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By *io--Man
46 weeks ago

Near Blackpool

"Out of curiosity what was everyone's first time experience of swinging and how did it come about?"

Started posting on reddit, my cock became pretty popular apparently. At 20 and a virgin I decided to consider some of the offers I got to hookup . After speaking to this gorgeous woman in her late 20s for a few months I decided she ticked everything, I met her and it was 11/10. Used her bathroom after doing the deed then noticed a bunch of pics with her and a guy. I never outright asked her if she was single beforehand but more or less posed the question and she didnt correct me so I had no idea. He confirmed he was aware and okay with it, and it didnt take long for me to ask for round two. Aside from being slightly pissed for a few weeks after I decided I liked it and the rest is history

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By *TinRedCouple
46 weeks ago

Reading

Our old neighbours were swingers, and told us about their weekly trips to abfabs!

We watched a series about it as it piqued our interest, and T ended up in bed with the female half of next door!

We've just been going with the flow on and off ever since!

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By *eicsbicouplenewMan
46 weeks ago

leicester

The old magazine which is the name of a ford car and a paid for date has a lot to answer for lol

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By *cLovin2Man
46 weeks ago

Reading

"Our old neighbours were swingers, and told us about their weekly trips to abfabs!

We watched a series about it as it piqued our interest, and T ended up in bed with the female half of next door!

We've just been going with the flow on and off ever since!"

Dang! which part of Reading is this, I gotta move.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

My mrs told me she was bi and wants to explore with females more so I suggested making a couples account as I was once on here as a single

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By *elaxing2Couple
46 weeks ago

Manchester

We got into it as I told Ste on our 2nd date that I was bi and also had urges to have sex with more than one guy. By the time he paid the bill, he googled and found swingers club and we went to it that night and never looked back and 18 years later still loving it xx

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
46 weeks ago

West Bromwich

It was Mr NC's fantasy for years to watch me with another man. We talked about it, for years!, and eventually we dipped our toes in the lifestyle and have never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

19years old on a lads holiday in Magaluf, taking part in a party game that needed with me naked on stage. Later that night a couple in their mid-40s who where staying at our hotel came over chatting, said they seen me on stage and the wife had always liked big cocks, I said she could try it any time, there and then she grabbed it through my pants and send let’s go back to our room. I joined them another 2 times that holiday, and spent a couple of weekends with them and some of their friends over the next few months when we got back. They introduced me to other sites, and almost 24 years on I’ve never looked back

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By *ickD38Man
46 weeks ago

Preston

First wife and I had a couple of d*unken escapades with a male friend, then when I got with second wife it turned out we both got turned on by the idea of going to a club. Went along and never looked back...

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By *asha86Couple
46 weeks ago

walsall

Hypothetical conversation and it just grew from there

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By *pslad99Man
46 weeks ago

colchester

Come across an add when on a porn site.

Joined not met many of here but who I have met with have been form different walks of life and so nice to meet these people and share so fun together.

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By *iniskirtCouple
46 weeks ago

Paisley

We got into here after a d*unken night where Hubby blurted out he wanted to try something different, I was shocked and hurt to begin with although have now come round to the idea, although it might only ever be an idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

We took the mojoupgrade quiz

It only shows the topics you both clicked yes to so we were totally open

Turns out our kinks were very well aligned and the rest is history so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I met someone off craigslist she turned into a fwb

She told her friend about me and they arranged a 3some was an eye opener for me

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By *unkymale65Man
46 weeks ago

Worksop

I was in the pub with my best mate. After a few drinks he asked me if I would like a threesome with his wife. I honestly thought he was joking and had to much to drink.To cut a long story short. I ended back at their home. I fucked his wife five times until about 6 in the morning. He fucked her three times. She was a very sexy insatiable woman. That was the first of many sexy meets.

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
46 weeks ago

Cornwall/Devon

Our relationship started in a very vanilla vertical way 13 years ago. A few weeks into the relationship we got talking about fantasies as you do and Ruth shyly admitted that she had alway fancied having two guys at the same time. Now I had dabbled in the scene a little bit before meeting Ruth, and Ruth had never had any experience outside of a monogamous relationship before. In fact she had only 'known' six men in her life at that point.

My reply to Ruth's confession was "I can make that happen" This was received by silence so I thought, just leave it there and hopefully I have planted a seed. A little while later Ruth said"Do you mean that? That you can make it happen?" I nodded and then she said "Go on then".

So I did, and it turned into a very successful and fun meet, and for Ruth it was like a duck to water. Her sexuality and confidence blossomed and here we are, 13 years on and loving every minute of the lifestyle. That initial 6 men is now in three figures.

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By *isaSlutFaceCouple
46 weeks ago

Solihull

Started serving my dom when I was young and experienced everything through his guidance and safety. Learnt what I liked and when he moved away I carried on on my own x

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By *oyandJulieMan
46 weeks ago

blackburn

Went to Bukakke party at the Gatehouse

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By *heonixrising500Man
46 weeks ago

Barnsley

It was as a dare

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By *lthomasMan
46 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Saw an ex GF giving a guy a blow job without them knowing I'd seen. Found it a massive turn on and within a month we were trying a swinger club

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

"Out of curiosity what was everyone's first time experience of swinging and how did it come about?"

My ex got me into it

Her mate told her about it and clubs so she wanted to try it

Then we joined swinging heaven had our first mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

My first time properly trying swinging was through fab. An MFM. Pretty damn sexy. .. actualy it was Damn hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Being an absolute hon-dog I needed more and more sex.. I found out about the wonderful world of swinging in the very early noughties through a magazine called ‘Connections’ where people would put adverts of themselves in the magazine. My first meet was a lady in her 50s (I was 18 at the time). And after that first encounter, I knew I ALWAYS wanted to be a swinger!

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By *4funXXXMan
46 weeks ago

cheshire

Me wanting to watch my late wife enjoy another guy as I was the only one to fuck her. After lots of talking we started going to a few clubs. Played with a few couples soft play only then one time a young guy caught her eye and after a chat in the hot tub with him she said to

Me she would like to find a room and for him to join us. He licked her to a big orgasum then she pulled him on top and started to kiss him. She used to always want fucking after she had cum from being licked. This was no different and she told him to fuck her hard and cum in her. She loved it so much that she started asking to go to clubs regularly. He was the only guy to fuck her bare other than me. Played safe after that even though she didn’t really like condoms. She much preferred to feel cum inside her. Had many years of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I had just started seeing a girl and she picked me and a mate up from a night out, he needed to stop for a piss so she pulled into a village hall car park while he was out of the car I was d*unk and horny so started playing with her, long story short he came back and we both fucked her! We both found it such a turn on and it went on from there

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By *erICorknowCouple
45 weeks ago

cork

My wife started kidding a girl in front of me! Saying she was horny.. it went from there ..

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By *x SmithMan
45 weeks ago

East Lancs

A couple I knew from rock pubs were swingers. They moved away and I visited a few times, I was in to him more than her, never got naked with her, and after they split, he popped by back cherry.

Some years later I start dating a man who respects others needs for open relationships, and when he lost his libido, possibly due to meds, the fact that I have that freedom has allowed our relationship to last (13 yr together, 1 yr wed).

I get to fulfil a few group-sex and exhibitionist fantasies and have meets once every month or two. But, I am here, as a bisexual non-binary swinger, on my own.

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By *ifestyle1Man
45 weeks ago

me171

"By chance after an accidental d*unken threesome whilst at a uni party which later turned to swinging then full cuckold relationships."

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By *ifestyle1Man
45 weeks ago

me171

I got into a lift with a couple who I got surprised at the club. I'm still excited since

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By *iredhandMan
45 weeks ago

Manchester

In a moment of boredom I stumbled across another swinging website and it escalated from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Horny in my mid twenties found out about local swingers club in classified ads in local paper. Took the plunge and went along, got hooked and over time found out about here.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
45 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Watched a swinging documentary with my ex GF and it made us horny. We talked about it for ages and then found another website. Looked for single guys on there to fuck her but she ended up usually going out clubbing and either bringing guys back to ours for a threesome or fucking them wherever and then telling me about it afterwards.

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By *xourlittlesecretxxCouple
45 weeks ago

Me and my hubby had been talking about it for a while, and we started to watch some swingers programs which was a turn on for us both as i was at the time finding my bi sexuality, and this would be a great opportunity for me. Our first club visit was everything I'd imagined and I had 4hrs of woman on woman sex amazing!!! Weve never looked back since. We are now looking at soft swap as another step further to full swinging.

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By *ittyndCouple
45 weeks ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Ermmm I got d*unk first time in the party and next thing I remember, I was riding another guy while my fwb was watching xx

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Have always had my kinks like being turned on by a bf fucking another woman, enjoying threesomes, enjoying being watched having sex, but officially got into swinging when a mutual friend of mine and an ex bf suggested fab to me to help get over my relationship break up and here I am

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By *edAndHot666Couple
45 weeks ago

Harrogate

Mrs found herself being chatted up on her Christmas night out by a work colleague.... She found it a massive turn on. We chatted about boundaries and expectations for the last few months and here we are, fully fledged swingers.

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By *atter3127Man
45 weeks ago

stoke on trent

My ex’s 30th and our second date she wanted to go to Chameleons in darlaston. I’d never been before, she had, and that’s how I got introduced to it..

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By *omRachCouple
45 weeks ago

Wirral

From a desire to watch my (now) wife with other men and for her to receive better fulfilling sex than she probably gets from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Had an ex who was an amazingly sexy pervert and it just rolled from there..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
45 weeks ago

Leeds

Had the fantasy chat, the Mr wanted to try mff obviously & I like women so it worked.

We joined here & remain years later.

Mrs

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By *aughtycp1Couple
45 weeks ago

Leicestershire

We started out with sharing fantasies. Then progressed to playing on webcam. (It was a long time ago) They had adult cam rooms back then. It was all quite innocent. I would just flash my tits.

Then one day we had the opportunity to meet a guy we had regularly cammed with for some time. He ended up fucking me three times that night. It was incredible. Hubby loved watching me and joined in too. We never looked back x

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By *adja_lazloCouple
45 weeks ago

Solihull

"Out of curiosity what was everyone's first time experience of swinging and how did it come about?"

Bones was a glamor model back in the day, done a femfem shoot and went from there x

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By *valanche1001Man
45 weeks ago

Leeds

I went to meet a girl via a more traditional dating site and to my surprise was greeted by her and her husband at the door!

Introduced to fab and threesomes on the same night, result!

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"We took the mojoupgrade quiz

It only shows the topics you both clicked yes to so we were totally open

Turns out our kinks were very well aligned and the rest is history so to speak

What he said

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
45 weeks ago

Reading

We just start mmf

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By *lym4realCouple
45 weeks ago

plymouth

Mrs4 said she wanted to try being with a fem so we were lucky and found a willing single fem who gave Mrs4 her nickname that stuck for years "Magic Fingers" and we took it from there but both Mr4 Ex's were open minded sexually ( take that as you may ?) but he never mentioned it until....

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
45 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I accidentally turned down a threesome and a shag with an absolute stunner, due to self confidence issues and confusing sex with love. I decided to address these issues and join this site because my promiscuity became an issue. Now I practice ethical non monogamy. It's great.

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By *oleinone200Man
45 weeks ago

leeds

I was quite lucky as my then gf now wife was openly bi and we had plenty of fun with her gf before we got married. After that it was pretty simple to continue our journey

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I joined this site then went to club f wow wot an experience

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By *ister_EMan
45 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Was finishing up a job for a regular client in his late 60's when I was 20 and he led me into the garden for a serious chat. He explained to me that he absolutely loved his wife (early 60's), but couldn't keep up with her sexual needs. He said that he had allowed her to take younger lovers from time to time in the past. He said that she liked me and he was happy with her choice.

He offered me free board and lodging if I wanted to become her lover. He said at first it would be just me and her, then he would start to watch us and that when I was completely comfortable, then he would join in...

Fucked her the next night and she was amazing! A couple of weeks later and I'd moved in. Within a couple of months I was fully bi and fucking both of them

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By *dventuresofLandSCouple
45 weeks ago

Lincoln

Mr had been on here as a single guy before we met. I mentioned about swinging and he showed me the world of fab.

For our 1st experience together we had a nice social with a couple at ours and had a soft swap. It's was definitely alot hotter and more comfortable than i thought it would be and it gave me that taste for woman and delving Deeping into the swinging world.

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By *ucktastic33Couple
45 weeks ago

North Wales &

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45 weeks ago

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By *omKsubSMan
45 weeks ago

Newton

One of the very few good things that came about from my former marrage.

Ex wife turned out to be a cuckquean and had a 'welcome to America' present in the form of two very flexible young ladies.

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