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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?

We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was listed as straight for quite a while but I do mention in my profile text that I play bi with couples. After thinking long and hard about it I decided to change it to curious because people were missing/skipping that part of my profile.

I still don't really think I'm "bi" as such, I prefer the term "twisted"...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local (ish) bi guy right here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was listed as straight for quite a while but I do mention in my profile text that I play bi with couples. After thinking long and hard about it I decided to change it to curious because people were missing/skipping that part of my profile.

I still don't really think I'm "bi" as such, I prefer the term "twisted"...lol"

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?

We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended

Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol

All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Maybe some are scared of their sexuality, other's just want to try their luck, for us, if they can't be honest on their profile, what chance have we got when meeting up.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi, conveniently....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had this too. Just tell them it will be man on man first with the female just watching. That will put the 'real' straight guys off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to give freely myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to conveniently bi online, I go to Ebay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've had this too. Just tell them it will be man on man first with the female just watching. That will put the 'real' straight guys off.

In all fairness this a major turn on of mine, to watch two men suck one another as I watch

Any takers lol

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think a lot of guys are concerned that it will put couples off meeting them if they admit to being bi. This isn't an issue for me as I'm mainly here to meet bi couples.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I am straight about being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing better than sharing a cock with another guy a real fav of mine tbh xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"nothing better than sharing a cock with another guy a real fav of mine tbh xx "

Mmmmm yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had this too. Just tell them it will be man on man first with the female just watching. That will put the 'real' straight guys off.

In all fairness this a major turn on of mine, to watch two men suck one another as I watch

Any takers lol"

Raises hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?

We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended

we get at least half a dozen a day - they instantly get a "No"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heres a typical reply to a message

I changed it the other day because i want to meet women.....

ffs guys come up with another one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine the scenario if everyone put straight....... no one would have the foggiest who was looking for what?

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?

We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended

we get at least half a dozen a day - they instantly get a "No" "

We also get loads of these. Instant block. They are either beeing dishonest with us or everyone else. Either way not a good start

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

My profile states I'm straight but in the right circumstances I have been know to latch on to a nice cock and have mine sucked......I think it can put some women couples off if you put bi as some guys get paranoid. What does that make me??? A kinky fucker or just greedy?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So glad we are not alone in this..

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

"My profile states I'm straight but in the right circumstances I have been know to latch on to a nice cock and have mine sucked......I think it can put some women couples off if you put bi as some guys get paranoid. What does that make me??? A kinky fucker or just greedy?? Lol

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dishonest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm bi, conveniently....

.....although not conveniently by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple contacted me saying I was exactly what they were looking for. A few messages in they said they wanted to confirm that I was happy to play bi. I said no and pointed out that my profile says straight. They told me they only meet bi guys and asked if i would chang emy mind.

They have plenty of recent verifications from straight men, so i asked them about that. They said they all list themselves as straight, but were bi as soon as a couple asked them to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would have to read our profile to find out our bi-sides, we dont think thats too much to ask.

As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi-guys.

The amount of people that seem to be "bi" and not "out" is a direct reflection on how "bi-sexual" males are viewed by some members (perhaps in the minority judging by the amount of bi fellas that contact us).

One question to all those people that attend clubs, but say they wont meet bi-guys, how does that work.......

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?

We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended "

Agree with you. I'm straight and have been 100% comfortable with that since I was 15. But I was lucky in that a situation arose which cemented my orientation in one go. Not everyone has such an opportunity and there are a lot of guys who are struggling (for want of a better word) with their sexuality - even behind the anonymity afforded by a site like this.

In your position, I would stick to my guns and if they don't say 'bi' or 'bi-curious' in their profile, then no amount of claims otherwise by them would make me budge.

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

norh east

Bisexuality still has a sort of stigma to it, for me anyway, im still finding my sexuality,im submissively bi with strong couples, i dont play solo with guys, as it does very little for me. but maybe the straight guys are still struggling with that openness, or there married so the profiles all lies anyway?

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Have to agree, great looking couple.... Fancy chatting to another bi couple

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

U can't see me

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi. "

We did join the site listed as a make but was honest and duplicated our fab profile, in 3 weeks had one message who was interested in meeting as a couple lol

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

U can't see me

lol"

Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

U can't see me

lol

Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !"

It's quite a throber between your thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi, conveniently....

And from Brighton.

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

U can't see me

lol

Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !

Oh I bet is is brumbrum

It's quite a throber between your thighs

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!

Genuine bi couple here

And stunning

Thanks ....got to say same back

U can't see me

lol

Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !

Oh I bet is is brumbrum

It's quite a throber between your thighs

I'd love to join you 2 for 3 way bi fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm bi, conveniently....

And from Brighton. "

It helps

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think it also comes down to how you define bi.

I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it

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By *ral geniusMan
over a year ago

north notts

"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.

I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it

That's me to a tee, not interested in 1 on 1 but don't mind getting it on if alls good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.

I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it

Being Bisexual equally doesn't mean you want a relationship with someone the same sex.

We're both bi, put it in our Profile title to make sure and I (Dave) really couldn't care less if people thought less of me for being so. It's who I am and I'm happy with it. We meet plenty of bi guys at Chams on Mondays so perception on here is less important for me than it is for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would have to read our profile to find out our bi-sides, we dont think thats too much to ask.

As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi-guys.

One question to all those people that attend clubs, but say they wont meet bi-guys, how does that work....... "

You can usually tell if a guy is bi in a club if i go into the gloryhole and he kneels down next to me waiting for the first cock to come through the hole lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi when its Convenient for me. Otherwise known as bi sensual xx

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol

All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx "

There's the reason. As for your solution, I don't want to filter out every single guy on the site. A lot of guys are a good laugh, even if I don't want to get attacked by their todgers.

I just put straight, put a paragraph saying I'll try it for the right people and block the still endless stream of 'fancy a discreet massage' offers individually

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol

All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx

There's the reason. As for your solution, I don't want to filter out every single guy on the site. A lot of guys are a good laugh, even if I don't want to get attacked by their todgers.

I just put straight, put a paragraph saying I'll try it for the right people and block the still endless stream of 'fancy a discreet massage' offers individually"

oops, logged onto wrong account. Obviously that was written by me, Craig. Rach is very much bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (paul) is more than happy to admit being bi one of the best things I did was to tell my bettef half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.

I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it

nope - if you want it and need it, regarless of whether you want to have a happily ever after with them, you are bi. Which is fantastic.

Christ, it took me until the age of 42 to be finally honest with myself and my own wife. Thankfully, Lola is an angel and embraced the change.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol

Think of it as a positive thing, you know the guy is a liar and can avoid him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages grom straight guys saying they are bi and want to...... well you get the idea.

I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it"

Oh yes they do!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I get messages grom straight guys saying they are bi and want to...... well you get the idea.

I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it"

I get messages from 'straight' guys too wanting to suck my cock. Some people don't like bi guys and some people do. Someone for everyone on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it

Oh yes they do!!

Have you read some of the recent threads?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it

Oh yes they do!!

Have you read some of the recent

threads?! "

Like the one about milk first in the grab the world thread.....some people eh? Tsk tsk tsk

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