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"Just wanted to vent. It’s been one of those on my mind for many years. I’ve dabbled but I do miss it. Woman to woman. I love the build up and chase and teasing. I remember my first female kiss. I just remember feeling at peace and that it felt right.
Charlotte. Xx"Why have you stopped doing it if you enjoy it so much and it feels right? You shouldn’t deprive yourself of something you enjoy so much. May I ask what it is about it that feels so different from the build up, chase and teasing and kissing with a man? | |||
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"I hear you. Came here looking to meet ladies, few have ever made contact unless its half of a couple, and even then, its usually the man who messages. Its a shame there aren't more chatty ladies here who want to make contact to see where it leads." Yeah we encountered a fake person the other day which baffled us. All we asked for was a Live Photo of the person on Snapchat instant block lol. No skin off my nose. I’m a lover not a fighter. I tend to have more close relationships even with my friends. Xx Charlotte x | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x" You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please? | |||
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"I hear you. Came here looking to meet ladies, few have ever made contact unless its half of a couple, and even then, its usually the man who messages. Its a shame there aren't more chatty ladies here who want to make contact to see where it leads. Yeah we encountered a fake person the other day which baffled us. All we asked for was a Live Photo of the person on Snapchat instant block lol. No skin off my nose. I’m a lover not a fighter. I tend to have more close relationships even with my friends. Xx Charlotte x" Indeed, too many odd profiles. | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please?" Yeah men can be just as but I find a lot just want to please themselves first. It’s a difficult one to put into words really. Just there is a difference since I’m bisexual. I enjoy both sides. But I guess it would be like saying to a straight person if they would cuddle up to the same sex naked. Women feel softer also men are hairy etc. not saying woman aren’t but general rule of thumb. Just there’s a different buzz and feeling to it. Xx Charlotte xx | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please? Yeah men can be just as but I find a lot just want to please themselves first. It’s a difficult one to put into words really. Just there is a difference since I’m bisexual. I enjoy both sides. But I guess it would be like saying to a straight person if they would cuddle up to the same sex naked. Women feel softer also men are hairy etc. not saying woman aren’t but general rule of thumb. Just there’s a different buzz and feeling to it. Xx Charlotte xx" Ok, that’s interesting. Men are selfish lovers and hairy then? And women have soft skin and are attentive? Are all women attentive then, or are some women attentive and some aren’t? I agree that cuddling up to a man feels different to cuddling up to a woman, i think everyone would agree with that. Normally bi women enjoy cuddling up to a man as well as cuddling up to a woman though, it sounds like you don’t enjoy cuddling up to men because they’re hairy…. | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please? Yeah men can be just as but I find a lot just want to please themselves first. It’s a difficult one to put into words really. Just there is a difference since I’m bisexual. I enjoy both sides. But I guess it would be like saying to a straight person if they would cuddle up to the same sex naked. Women feel softer also men are hairy etc. not saying woman aren’t but general rule of thumb. Just there’s a different buzz and feeling to it. Xx Charlotte xx Ok, that’s interesting. Men are selfish lovers and hairy then? And women have soft skin and are attentive? Are all women attentive then, or are some women attentive and some aren’t? I agree that cuddling up to a man feels different to cuddling up to a woman, i think everyone would agree with that. Normally bi women enjoy cuddling up to a man as well as cuddling up to a woman though, it sounds like you don’t enjoy cuddling up to men because they’re hairy…." Curtis here! She never mentioned that but hey you wanna crack on and be Dr Phil go ahead. She craves a woman’s touch as she’s bi Not because men are hairy but maybe just because a woman has a completely different body and a woman will know what they want. I don’t appreciate the odd interrogation over something so simple. She doesn’t need to justify to you or anyone WHY she craves it or HOW it’s different. She just does. | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please? Yeah men can be just as but I find a lot just want to please themselves first. It’s a difficult one to put into words really. Just there is a difference since I’m bisexual. I enjoy both sides. But I guess it would be like saying to a straight person if they would cuddle up to the same sex naked. Women feel softer also men are hairy etc. not saying woman aren’t but general rule of thumb. Just there’s a different buzz and feeling to it. Xx Charlotte xx Ok, that’s interesting. Men are selfish lovers and hairy then? And women have soft skin and are attentive? Are all women attentive then, or are some women attentive and some aren’t? I agree that cuddling up to a man feels different to cuddling up to a woman, i think everyone would agree with that. Normally bi women enjoy cuddling up to a man as well as cuddling up to a woman though, it sounds like you don’t enjoy cuddling up to men because they’re hairy…. Curtis here! She never mentioned that but hey you wanna crack on and be Dr Phil go ahead. She craves a woman’s touch as she’s bi Not because men are hairy but maybe just because a woman has a completely different body and a woman will know what they want. I don’t appreciate the odd interrogation over something so simple. She doesn’t need to justify to you or anyone WHY she craves it or HOW it’s different. She just does." Well said! Every other man on Fab seems to be bi, but I've never come across one that's been interrogated over why he likes being with another man. | |||
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"when we first hit this scene over 50 years ago finding a woman who wanted another woman was very easy however fast forward to today and the swinging scene is really no longer the place to find it for the last 15 years ive made loads of lady friend via the LGBT+ scene gay clubs n pubs gay nights or even just a night on the town and thats how i get my woman on woman fun without any of the roleplay fantasy rubbish its out there and easy to find rather than wait for it via swinging ... and with hubs being bi to the LGBT++ scene is great for him too ..get the real deal fun "You sure it was 50yrs ago as you are only 48 now | |||
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"I just perfer the more gentle touch of a woman over a man at times I haven’t stopped it it’s always been there just haven’t found a lucky lady to play with long term yet. I love a more attentive person. I enjoy the more closeness of the want and need. As other ladies have said it can be difficult to find x Charlotte x You mentioned the build up, the chase and the teasing in your OP, is there a way in which those things are different when you’re with a woman? Or don’t you feel that there is any build up, chasing or teasing with men? So don’t you think men can be attentive? Sorry, but i don’t understand what closeness of want and need is, could you explain what you mean by that please? Yeah men can be just as but I find a lot just want to please themselves first. It’s a difficult one to put into words really. Just there is a difference since I’m bisexual. I enjoy both sides. But I guess it would be like saying to a straight person if they would cuddle up to the same sex naked. Women feel softer also men are hairy etc. not saying woman aren’t but general rule of thumb. Just there’s a different buzz and feeling to it. Xx Charlotte xx Ok, that’s interesting. Men are selfish lovers and hairy then? And women have soft skin and are attentive? Are all women attentive then, or are some women attentive and some aren’t? I agree that cuddling up to a man feels different to cuddling up to a woman, i think everyone would agree with that. Normally bi women enjoy cuddling up to a man as well as cuddling up to a woman though, it sounds like you don’t enjoy cuddling up to men because they’re hairy…. Curtis here! She never mentioned that but hey you wanna crack on and be Dr Phil go ahead. She craves a woman’s touch as she’s bi Not because men are hairy but maybe just because a woman has a completely different body and a woman will know what they want. I don’t appreciate the odd interrogation over something so simple. She doesn’t need to justify to you or anyone WHY she craves it or HOW it’s different. She just does." Well at first she said that she likes the build up, the chase and the teasing so I simply asked what is different about those things with a woman than a man because it’s possible to have all those things with a man as well. I was asking out interest, not to interrogate. I didn’t at any time ask her WHY she craves it and I wasn’t asking her to justify herself, I was just hoping to learn more about the topic she started a thread about. Why start a thread about something and then get angry when someone asks you questions about it? So men don’t know what women want now? If I started a thread saying that I like being with a woman because I’m straight and women are different from men, and then claimed that women are better lovers than men and they know what I want, I’d expect and hope that people ask me questions about it and are interested to learn more about what I like. In fact, if I started a thread on any subject I’d hope that people show an interest and ask questions, isn’t that the whole point of a forum. | |||
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