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Misses agrees to go to a swingers club which one is best in London

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's agreed to come to one don't want to overwhelm her on first visit want a relaxed place

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By *lifelessvanillaCouple
over a year ago

Queens Park, London

Abfabs

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!! "

How u know I been spa lol

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

How u know I been spa lol"

Your verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

How u know I been spa lol

Your verification."

Ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

How u know I been spa lol

Your verification.

Ok lol "

And if she's now joining you on your swinging journey - even if she knows you're here and you have her consent - I'd change that 'single guy seeks' bit on your profile!

And although I've not been I've heard nothing but good stuff about abfabs!

Enjoy yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're going to AbFabs go on a sat instead of a Friday as the single guys can be a bit intimidating for a first-timer.

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

tell us what u looking for and we try to advise u looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are in london eureaka naturist club is not far from u ,its open daily and very relaxed enviroment and peeps, nice facilitys sauna jacuzzie ect outdoor pool woods meadow, have a nice day there , then if your both comfortable they have naughty partys at nite too, partys on wed thurs fri and sat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tell us what u looking for and we try to advise u looking"
I

I just want to ease her into it maybe just socialise and dabble a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abfabs without question. We have been to loads of clubs. This is one of the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

How u know I been spa lol

Your verification."

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

try ourplace4fun on a saturday.Its couples,single ladies and limited number of single guys only.So should be a good icebreaker for your wife.Also, the blokes there are well behaved(i go there so have witnessed this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please take our advice, if this is your first ever club and single guys are not your thing, then find a couples only night.

Despite all the promises vetted limited singles etc etc you always get a few numptys and they make it awkward for everyone.

I appreciated a lot of couples do enjoy have single males which is fine, but there are dedicated nights out there for that.

Whatever you do enjoy it. On the whole everyone you meet will be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd avoid Paradise Spa, last thing you need is someone popping up saying hi, are you here again!!

How u know I been spa lol

Your verification.

Ok lol "

The "Facebook" syndrome strikes again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont go eurekas it will make her head spin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately abfabs on a saturday night..it's couples only, or pleasures in kent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely Abfabs ! That's where we first went to experience the swinging lifestyle !

There's no pressure to play/ undress its do as you wish ! But to just go have a drink, use the facilities together the pool, the sex swing or just to socialise and people watch. Then when she's ready get in the full swing of it all

And def a Saturday ! It's completely different on single guy nights and we now only go on a Saturday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ab fabs ..and dont buy into the demonisation of single guys twaddle...go there and most of the guys who attend are respectful..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ab fabs ..and dont buy into the demonisation of single guys twaddle...go there and most of the guys who attend are respectful.."

Talk rubbish most cpls we spoke too said exactly the same as us a soon as you move there like vultures 5 or 6 minimum following all the time we went once on a single guy so did a lot of our friends and all said never again!!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been to many in London but would advise going on a couples only night

Gives her a chance to chat with other couples without single guys trying chat her up or feeling put off by over zealous guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ab fabs ..and dont buy into the demonisation of single guys twaddle...go there and most of the guys who attend are respectful..

Talk rubbish most cpls we spoke too said exactly the same as us a soon as you move there like vultures 5 or 6 minimum following all the time we went once on a single guy so did a lot of our friends and all said never again!!!'"
makes me smile..bit like going on s kiing trip and complaining its snowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your in north London then you can't go wrong with Ourplace4fun, which is in the Wood green/Alexandra palace area. it's a very small but intimate club that is superbly run. they do let in limited single guys but due to its smaller size it tends to make people be more talkative and interactive so i have found. it is a a dry club with few private areas but there is improvements underway that will double the club's current size and see a Jacuzzi installed.

Abfabs or Kestrels as it's known during the day is right on the outskirts of London by Heathrow airport. It's a impressive club with every facility you could want from a swimming pool, hot tubs and lots of play areas. it's a big club that can make interaction hard for the more shy, as there's not really a main social area as such but then it's good that if you want private chats as you can normally find somewhere away from the crowds. the downside is that the staff are not always able to spot single males that might be pestering or following ladies. However the staff are also very good there.

Both clubs do not have a bar so have a bring your own drink policy.

I would rate both clubs as the better two in London.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye


"She's agreed to come to one don't want to overwhelm her on first visit want a relaxed place "

Definitely OurPlace4Fun. Abfabs is rather a big place, it can be difficult to find people to chat to. It's more intimate at OurPlace4Fun and they have these "white lines" which single guys may not cross without an invitation. So the girls can easily choose who they like.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think Probly abfabs or eurekas lol if u see me in there don't say I told u so lol

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By *icdarCouple
over a year ago

surrey

Killing Kittens is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ourplace4fun is a great club you will made very welcome and greg n Lisa and the starf will make you visit very comfortable my wife is one of the starf there trust us you won't be disappointed xxxx Alan n jonie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For newbies a Saturday at Ourplace4fun is a great idea as they only allow in a total of 8 single males plus they have a 50% discount off lifetime couples membership at the moment all you have to do is give the code RP/CP/0313 on the door and its only £15 plus entry instead of £30 plus entry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Killing Kittens is good."

I realise that what quantifies a good club is always very subjective but we have heard very little in the way of positive comments about KK. And it also very expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ab fabs ..and dont buy into the demonisation of single guys twaddle...go there and most of the guys who attend are respectful.."
we actually stopped going to abfabs because not only did the single guys not know how to behave - but one of the guys running the place at the time seemed to think his position at the club gave him carte Blanche to touch mrs ox every time he was near her (albeit not always sexually but doesn't matter - it was uninvited!). That was a while ago and we hear that Saturdays are a very nice crowd there but if we ever go back would not be on a single guy night - wouldn't be worth the jail sentence

That said we are giving strong consideration to trying a Saturday

We've also heard good things about ourplace4fun but again it's anecdotal as we've not been yet

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