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I do she don’t or she won’t he dont

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By *ull of the year 25 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Watford

If you like to have sex and your partner has gone off sex is it ok to get it elsewhere it goes for him or her

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
46 weeks ago

Leeds

If you discuss it and they are happy for you to do so then yes.

If your lying and cheating then no.

Maybe start by discussing what's gone wrong with the sex life, start back at basics make some time together - sex for me starts in the day, if I've had a day of not being listened to, ignored or his attention is elsewhere then no I don't wanna drop my knickers.

Mrs

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By *ikilovesCCouple
46 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness

No, you should give it a few days first....

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By *ull of the year 25 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Watford


"No, you should give it a few days first.... "
lmao

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
46 weeks ago

Within touching distance

I think you need to have an honest chat and tell your partner everything your feeling. It's not OK to cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Tough one

Ultimately you must discuss 1st

Something is wrong and the cause has to be found

Sex is everything in a relationship

Some might disagree but that’s our opinion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

East Sussex

No idea if it's ok or not, it's down to each individual couple and their dynamic.

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By *rispyDuckMan
46 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"If you discuss it and they are happy for you to do so then yes.

If your lying and cheating then no.

Maybe start by discussing what's gone wrong with the sex life, start back at basics make some time together - sex for me starts in the day, if I've had a day of not being listened to, ignored or his attention is elsewhere then no I don't wanna drop my knickers.

Mrs "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

A long and very honest conversation needs to be had and see if a compromise can be reached. It's not fair for someone to expect their partner to go without a sex life just because they've decided they don't want sex. Equally it's not fair to expect a partner to have sex when they don't want to. Hence why a compromise needs to be reached where both people are happy and content. Good luck.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends.

Do any parties involved believe they're in a monogamous relationship is one of the main factors.

The other is have you tried to help resolve their lack of libido for you or just decided it's easier to find someone less hassle to get into the knickers of.

But I'm sure plenty of other relevant information missing too

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

If getting sex elsewhere is agreed upon with both partners then yes its fine.

If it is behind the partners back then no. Lying and cheating is disrespectful to the partner and the people who might not be aware the person seeking sex is doing so.

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