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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After being on this site for quite a while, I still can't seem to get any replies from women, I came on this site to gain more experience when it comes to foreplay, but I may have been miss guided when someone approached me with this website, understand single guys may not be your cup of tea but becoming very puzzling, actually a female on this site actually told me she doesn't meet she uses the site as a confidence boost WTF? So is majority of women just here for the same, hope pt, want actual REAL genuine meets, thanks for reading rant

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

happens a lot, don't let it get to you

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just started to use forums but oh god sex everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeze another bloody whoa is me post. Accept the fact there are no guarantees.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The site may be a confidence boost but I find actually meeting guys boosts it more.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i suppose there will be a mixture of both types .. we personally like to meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my preference is single guys, but have met one married one, i failed to read his profile properly and am in reg chat with another married guy who i am definately hoping to meet. did have embargo on married guys because im married and thought it would be more complicated.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I meet, albeit not as often as I'd like, but that is due to me needing to know someone first and they are looking for instashag, so we will always clash! Each to their own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't really a dating site in the regular sense of the term, in my experience it's difficult to arrange one on one meets ...

But it gives you access to the swinging community or scene ...

Get yourself involved with the socials, or down to a club, get out and meet people. And maybe it will follow on from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool replies I'm not complaining at all, but the effort in writing messages because less charming after knock backs, but understand people want to make sure they know who they are seeing, will never know without a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going to a club? i really enjoy the clubs and get to meet lots of people some of who are not on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue is that reality and probability often don't match up to the expectation and assumptions that people make about the site and its users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what were your expectations of this site? Swinging is a scene not just a website so consider going to clubs and socials to get yourself known. Maybe also work on your profile and pics to help you, stand out amongst the huge number of single guys on here. Don't forget that single guys vastly outnumber single ladies on here so it can be very competitive. Having said that, we know quite a few single guys who do very well on here. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't really a dating site in the regular sense of the term, in my experience it's difficult to arrange one on one meets ...

But it gives you access to the swinging community or scene ...

Get yourself involved with the socials, or down to a club, get out and meet people. And maybe it will follow on from there "

this isnt a dating site in any sense of the word it is a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found this site has gone way beyond my expectations, have met some great people and look forward to meeting many more.

I think you get out of it what you put into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some wont reply because youve been on the site for over a year and havent been verified-its very easy via webcam and you may have even been on the site when phone veris were allowed.

Always looks a bit suspicious to us!

Have fun

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The issue is that reality and probability often don't match up to the expectation and assumptions that people make about the site and its users."

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused.. Why have people mentioned meeting married guys and some about dating sites..

I didn't read any of that in the OP question

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