FabSwingers.com forum: Aurally cuckolded?

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

Fellow fabbers genuine opinions sought

I’ve been in the lifestyle for 20 years and in the time I’ve gone solo, as a couple, with a swinging partner, as the regular third with a couple and currently solo again.

About 7 years ago I embarked in a swinging partnership with a woman (married - and I knew the situation). We had nights, and weekends away, we did clubs and generally had a great time. This lasted three years.

This ended on ok terms when she decided her kids needed her full attention and she felt she wanted more from it (I.e. a relationship- which we’d both agreed up front wasn’t the plan) So we stopped by mutual agreement.

Fast forward to January 2024 and I start getting messages from her - just chat initially… but soon asking if we should do it again, how good it had been and how she missed the sex.

Before any decision was made she started talking about a guy she works with

Conversation evolved and elaborated and it became clear she was entering a relationship with him.

So I decided not to pursue sex with her as it sounded very complicated (she’s still married, but separated in January after finding out her husband had cheated on her)

She proceeded to talk about the new guy a lot

How fit he is

How hung he is

How much sex she’s getting

How great the sex is

So … and sorry it’s been a longer post than I had intended… my question is am I being “cuckolded” aurally … I realise that strictly speaking I’m not cuckolded as I’m not in a relationship with her , but it feels she’s telling me all this for a reason …

Or is she just feeling free and wants to enjoy herself as much as she can

She’s not on here btw - before you horny guys go looking

I realise I’m old enough and been around the block enough times to make up my own mind, but I’d be interested in others views

By *ee And MikeCouple
49 weeks ago

Cannock

It’s a bit of a weird one, because the messages you are getting are like the messages most cucks like myself would get from their wives if they are meeting guys whilst they are at work or if they were away with a guy for a weekend.

But as you aren’t in a relationship with this woman then realistically she’s not cuckolding you.

That said, if you know this woman intimately and she wants to share her exploits with you then I’d say just enjoy it, like I said a lot of us cucks get messages like this off our hotwifes and it keeps us going !

By (user no longer on site) OP
49 weeks ago

"It’s a bit of a weird one, because the messages you are getting are like the messages most cucks like myself would get from their wives if they are meeting guys whilst they are at work or if they were away with a guy for a weekend.

But as you aren’t in a relationship with this woman then realistically she’s not cuckolding you.

Thanks for the reply… it’s appreciated. I guess if she and I were back “at it” I’d probably understand her angle - though we never had a cuckold relationship back then, so it feels a little odd coming out of left field. Also she’s no longer asking/suggesting that she and I hook up again… so I’m just on the receiving end of her stories. She knows I’d go for a threeway with them, so maybe she’s just keeping that option alive by including me in a conversation.