FabSwingers.com forum: D*unk sex or sober

By *alsam1 OP Couple
48 weeks ago

Caister

Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?"

Ooo that’s a hard one… they can be very good sober or not

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen

MrAbz knows if I'm tipsy then it's unlikely I will be making much of the physical effort.

He does however indulge my tipsy demands

MrsAbz

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By *alandNitaCouple
48 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?"

seriously ?!?

Sober always unless it's a long term partner and I am sure it's consensual.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Sober for both of us.. tipsy at a push.

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By *heGigglersCouple
48 weeks ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

"Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?

seriously ?!?

Sober always unless it's a long term partner and I am sure it's consensual.

Nita"

This. 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I would never meet anyone who was d*unk - sober sex only.

Consent is very important.. Also BDSM activities can be very dangerous, so absolutely no way i would engage with someone who was drinking

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
48 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?"
we wouldn't play with someone intoxicated... we may have a drink together but prefer to be sober

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By *apiomanMan
48 weeks ago

Shipley

I had a lover who most enjoyed sex when hungover!

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By *unandcuriousCouple
48 weeks ago

Antrim

d*unk is always fun and seems to flow more freely and theres always next morning which is also hot as fuck

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By *antstayaway9Man
48 weeks ago

Definitely seem to be kinkier when d*unk

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
48 weeks ago

Worcester

"Do you prefer your partner intoxicated or not?"

You can’t consent if you’re d*unk, and I require my partners to be able to consent.

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By *iasubTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"I would never meet anyone who was d*unk - sober sex only.

Consent is very important.. Also BDSM activities can be very dangerous, so absolutely no way i would engage with someone who was drinking "

Couldn’t agree more

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By *rucking-HellMan
48 weeks ago

Northampton

"You can’t consent if you’re d*unk, "

Bit of a weird opinion.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
48 weeks ago

Worcester

"You can’t consent if you’re d*unk,

Bit of a weird opinion.

No, it’s not a particularly weird opinion.

I believe it’s also case law.

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By *DW1983Man
48 weeks ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

If it's someone I trust then I don't mind if they've had a glass or two of wine during the evening and are a little tipsy but still sober enough to make a clear decision, but I'd steer clear of anyone who had had too much.

For one, there's the consent issue, especially when meeting people at clubs or from sites like this. (And describing it as weird: huge red flag).

For two, it's just not fun trying to deal with someone who's had too many (or taken something). You might feel great after two bottles of wine but as someone who rarely drinks, it's just hard work to deal with people in that state and not sexy at all.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
48 weeks ago

wonderland.

"You can’t consent if you’re d*unk,

Bit of a weird opinion.

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why is it weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Sober preferred

But if Iv had a few drinks I find anal play easier

Which is an absolute bonus

But never d*unk sex

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By *ourdoyMan
48 weeks ago

South

Like sober sex x

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By *andb69Couple
48 weeks ago

leeds

Genuine consent is difficult to determine if you're d*unk, so sober always. Also the sight of a d*unk woman vomiting over her partner while fucking at one of our club visits is enough to put anyone off d*unken sex.

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By *od ThrusterMan
48 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

Sober preferrable but having a drink while on a meet is OK. Wouldn't meet anyone d*unk, nor would I want to if I was.

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By *apybarasCouple
48 weeks ago

High Lighthouse!

A variety of answers for a variety of circumstances is probably the most realistic response.

For one thing "d*unk" is a very relative thing. Over the limit to drive compared to 8 pints in are quite different.

Someone you've been in a relationship with for years, is very different to a stranger you are meeting for the first time.

I like a couple of drinks, it does relax me a bit. But obviously everyone have their own preferences. As in most things, if your preferences don't match and you are unwilling to compromise or change then probably best to give it a miss.

Mr C.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
48 weeks ago

Nottingham

"I would never meet anyone who was d*unk - sober sex only.

Consent is very important.. Also BDSM activities can be very dangerous, so absolutely no way i would engage with someone who was drinking "

Don't drink and kink....

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Stockport

Sober or the pics and vids can come out blurry if you don't have steady hands !

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