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Couples picking up guys at vanilla clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago

So we are semi regulars at VA and Jaydees and have always found swing clubs work better for us than fab, but next month we have a day/night out in town which will consist of a bottomless brunch followed by vanilla clubs and bars.

We are interested to hear from any couples with experience of picking up guys like this, how did it go and how did you approach the guys?

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
46 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

My ex GF used to pick up guys and bring them back from nights out. But that was with me at home waiting.

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By *aughtyangieCouple
46 weeks ago

Brighton


"My ex GF used to pick up guys and bring them back from nights out. But that was with me at home waiting. "

My wife did the same thing some of the guys face when I opened the door (6'2 and built like a out house) lol

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By *axo25Man
46 weeks ago

lightwater


"My ex GF used to pick up guys and bring them back from nights out. But that was with me at home waiting.

My wife did the same thing some of the guys face when I opened the door (6'2 and built like a out house) lol"

Say 6’1 on your profile! Fibber

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By *iberal elitesCouple
46 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Following with interest

Anyone ever done this as couple hooking up with a couple in a vanilla setting- very rare and risky I bet

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
46 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey


"My ex GF used to pick up guys and bring them back from nights out. But that was with me at home waiting.

My wife did the same thing some of the guys face when I opened the door (6'2 and built like a out house) lol"

Have to admit. She didn’t always tell them upfront it was for a threesome with her boyfriend involved. Mostly they didn’t mind once they knew they’d get laid.

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By *tickyPollCouple
46 weeks ago

Dartford

We have done this just by chance though, it was a very good night x how about once you’re in a bar/ club sit separately so you can keep an eye on her, she will probably get more attention on her own. Once she reels him or her in then you can let them know what you are doing x they will either love it or shit themselves lol, have fun if it happens then great good luck x.

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By *educerMan
46 weeks ago

Brentwood

Will definitely be keeping an eye on this thread....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"We have done this just by chance though, it was a very good night x how about once you’re in a bar/ club sit separately so you can keep an eye on her, she will probably get more attention on her own. Once she reels him or her in then you can let them know what you are doing x they will either love it or shit themselves lol, have fun if it happens then great good luck x. "

Ah this is a good suggestion, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

What is a vanilla club?

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By *LiamMan
46 weeks ago

Midlands

I'm sure you won't have many problems

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By *aughtycheshirecoupleCouple
46 weeks ago

Cheshire

We’ve had guys back on a night out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"We’ve had guys back on a night out lol "

Share the details then lol

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
46 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey


"What is a vanilla club?"

It’s the middle one in a row of Neapolitan clubs.

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By *owestoft ManMan
46 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Did something similar in a hotel in Jamaica and was not expecting what turned out. We went to the bar lounge and got some of the locals coming over and chatting to us and buying us drinks. Eventually she asked me if she could show one of them the room we were in and winked at me. I said sure no problem and I would stay here having some drinks. So she went off with one guy and was gone for about 1/2 an hour after which the guy came down alone. Sat and said something to one of the other guys, had a final drink and left. That guy he spoke to then excused himself and was gone for another ~1/2 an hour. At which he came back and the same thing happened again with another guy. Eventually after about 10 of them finished and left I went up to the room to check on her. She opened the door and said ah its you lol and she was naked with cum running out down the inside of her legs. What a mess lol

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By *rNaughtyMrsNaughtierCouple
46 weeks ago

NorthEast

We went to a naughty party once in Manchester and it wasn’t very good so we hit the town for a vanilla night! We were sat down and there was a guy dancing who kept making eye contact with me! My hubby said I’m going to the bar you go and have a dance, still feeling a little naughty from what I was hoping to happen from the previous party I went up and started dancing with him! With in a couple of minutes I’m kissing him and rubbing his bulge on the dance floor I went back over to my hubby said drink the drinks grab our coats we are going back to the hotel, he was a young French guy over visiting family! what a night/next morning that turned out to be!!

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By *rish In DubaiMan
46 weeks ago

Carlow


"We went to a naughty party once in Manchester and it wasn’t very good so we hit the town for a vanilla night! We were sat down and there was a guy dancing who kept making eye contact with me! My hubby said I’m going to the bar you go and have a dance, still feeling a little naughty from what I was hoping to happen from the previous party I went up and started dancing with him! With in a couple of minutes I’m kissing him and rubbing his bulge on the dance floor I went back over to my hubby said drink the drinks grab our coats we are going back to the hotel, he was a young French guy over visiting family! what a night/next morning that turned out to be!! "

A very lucky go.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Happened couple times with us, was luck and not planned! First time we saw a friend out with some mates and joined them for a drink, A was flirting with one and they got on well, she messaged him on social media to come back to ours for a drink and he was really keen, talking and having a drink I left them alone for 5/10 mins for A to work her magic and walked in on them already started.

Another we were just out and got talking to some guys and one we got on with was nice and kept apologising for being bit flirty with A and we laughed everytime and he didn’t understand so that started that conversation when we told him and that was that.

Pure luck both times and just have to go out with any expectations.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
46 weeks ago

cahoots

Never planned but we have picked up couples before in hotels. We just get chatting and then drop the fact we are naturists into the conversation and if that is positively received we casually move on to swinging. Mostly nothing happens other than having a fun chat with nice people but occasionally we've ended up in a room. Either way it's a good night.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
46 weeks ago

cahoots


"What is a vanilla club?"

Not a swingers club.

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By *londebiguyMan
46 weeks ago

Southport

My gf often used to bring home a bouncer from clubs.

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
46 weeks ago

goffs oak

Have done this a few times now, kelly usually gets chatting to the guy and then I will join them, we have had a mixed reaction when they realise we are a couple. But each time we have ended up having fun with them.

We have also picked up a couple on a vanilla night out by just getting chatting and things progressed.

Just relax and go with the flow is our advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"We went to a naughty party once in Manchester and it wasn’t very good so we hit the town for a vanilla night! We were sat down and there was a guy dancing who kept making eye contact with me! My hubby said I’m going to the bar you go and have a dance, still feeling a little naughty from what I was hoping to happen from the previous party I went up and started dancing with him! With in a couple of minutes I’m kissing him and rubbing his bulge on the dance floor I went back over to my hubby said drink the drinks grab our coats we are going back to the hotel, he was a young French guy over visiting family! what a night/next morning that turned out to be!! "

This is very hot!

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By *RFR72Man
46 weeks ago

Watford

Wish this would bloody happen to me lol

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By *neplusserMan
46 weeks ago

Birmingham

This is how I first discovered fab.

I got talking and flirting with a sexy woman at a club, who I initially thought was single. We really hit it off and as the night progressed she suggested that we head back to her hotel nearby, but I should know that she does in fact have a partner… not only that, but he had been watching us flirt the entire night and encouraging it. It definitely felt like a curveball to begin with, but we all sat for a few more drinks and that initial surprise soon faded, especially as she continued to flirt with me in front of hubby. I’ll never forget that night and I have them to thank for introducing me to fab. Haven’t looked back since

I’d recommend letting Mrs roam solo to start with. Just seen your profile and I’m sure she’ll get the desired attention you’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

From someone who has been picked up like this before… just be open, Mrs had made plenty of eye contact with me whilst on the “dance floor” she approached after a while and explained that they have an open relationship… said that Mr was sat down and pointed him out and said would I be interested in leaving with her and filming for him to enjoy once he “catches up”

The honesty and forwardness made it less awkward, don’t overthink it, I think you’ll find unless they’re in a relationship you’re not gonna struggle looking at your profile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"This is how I first discovered fab.

I got talking and flirting with a sexy woman at a club, who I initially thought was single. We really hit it off and as the night progressed she suggested that we head back to her hotel nearby, but I should know that she does in fact have a partner… not only that, but he had been watching us flirt the entire night and encouraging it. It definitely felt like a curveball to begin with, but we all sat for a few more drinks and that initial surprise soon faded, especially as she continued to flirt with me in front of hubby. I’ll never forget that night and I have them to thank for introducing me to fab. Haven’t looked back since

I’d recommend letting Mrs roam solo to start with. Just seen your profile and I’m sure she’ll get the desired attention you’re looking for "

What a great introduction to the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

What club did you say you were going to again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"What club did you say you were going to again "

Haha haven’t decided yet. Somewhere in Norwich after a bottomless brunch

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By *hisismeXXXMan
46 weeks ago

Welsh Wales

Back in my married days, me and the wife often managed to find ourselves a single male on a normal night out.

I’m not much of a dancer, but she would love to to move ( and her exhibitionistic side loved the attention) so when we got to clubs she’d inevitably hit the dance floor while I sat/stood on the side watching her.

Inevitably she’d get attention from males and if any took her fancy she’d dance, flirt and maybe more with me enjoying the show.

At some point she’d come back to me, sometimes with her friend, and we’d see where it took us. Always honest with them, you’d be surprised how often the guys were happy to get a taxi home with us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
46 weeks ago


"Back in my married days, me and the wife often managed to find ourselves a single male on a normal night out.

I’m not much of a dancer, but she would love to to move ( and her exhibitionistic side loved the attention) so when we got to clubs she’d inevitably hit the dance floor while I sat/stood on the side watching her.

Inevitably she’d get attention from males and if any took her fancy she’d dance, flirt and maybe more with me enjoying the show.

At some point she’d come back to me, sometimes with her friend, and we’d see where it took us. Always honest with them, you’d be surprised how often the guys were happy to get a taxi home with us."

That sounds like fun.

Mr is no dancer either

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By *educeusforfunCouple
46 weeks ago

London

We have done this a couple of times too and was very horny

Last time was at a Butlins music weekend in January

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By *emptation6580Couple
46 weeks ago

playa de ingles


"What is a vanilla club?

It’s the middle one in a row of Neapolitan clubs. "
like!!!!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
46 weeks ago

Durham

We have met people and ended up chatting about swinging, the last couple, he had had been a swinger but she hadn't. Sadly it never went any further but it was fun to have sexy chat.

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By *andW4funCouple
46 weeks ago

Kent

Hot stories, sound like amazing nights, in a way more sexy for happening in vanilla club xo

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