FabSwingers.com forum: Be honest with me.......

By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this $-

Thank you

S xxx "

Hey, he’s curious. Nothing wrong with that.

As long as you have understanding with a straight couple that they don’t wish to touch and play, I wouldn’t see it being an issue.

Same vie versa really.

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By *andPextraCouple
over a year ago

North West

We wouldn't go looking for a couple with a bi male, but if we happened across one its not a deal breaker.

Just needs a conversation as normal around what everyones’s boundaries are.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Doesn’t bother us at all, we would just discuss the ground rules either before a meet or at a social first anyways

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I'm not on a couples profile but I have previously.

As long as a conversation happens on boundaries then there shouldn't be an issue.

Some straight guys don't like playing with bi guys, i think its more just incase the bi guy touches him.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

As already said.....wouldn't be an issue as long as things are discussed beforehand

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thank you guys

Appreciate the comments, you're all a lovely bunch aren't you

Respect and boundaries are always set whether straight or bi play - resepct is key - always

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx "

As others have said, communication and clarity is clear to understand what everyone’s preferences and ‘needs’ are.

From my perspective, this is how I discovered my own sexuality. I was curious for many years, didn’t act on it because the situation was never right. Eventually it happened and I’ve never looked back

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No it doesn't put us off. Mr is totally straight but we have met and played with couples where the man is bi. They know Mr is straight and totally respect and accept he is off limits to the male. The right people respect boundaries and don't make an issue out of it, and we respect their boundaries. Bi people can play straight but I unfortunately OP you do get narrow minded people on here who think just because a man is bi that he will pounce upon a man if naked in a room with them. That really doesn't happen. Good luck finding the right people.

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By *ashfulandBullCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

From my point of view it really wouldn't bother me, I would presume there's always boundaries discussed (we're new to this world) and as I'm straight I would expect people respect those boundaries. Same would go for my wife I'm sure.

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx

As others have said, communication and clarity is clear to understand what everyone’s preferences and ‘needs’ are.

Thank you for responding

Absolutely clarity is essential, as with any scenario.

So happy it eventually happened for you

Beautiful profile by the way

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Not an issue for us (Mr is straight)

Ideally we’ll have had the convo before play and agreed there is no MM play.

We’ve had it before mid play with a stray, searching hand and nipped it in the bud, not a problem.

No issue with the inevitable close contact and touching

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"No it doesn't put us off. Mr is totally straight but we have met and played with couples where the man is bi. They know Mr is straight and totally respect and accept he is off limits to the male. The right people respect boundaries and don't make an issue out of it, and we respect their boundaries. Bi people can play straight but I unfortunately OP you do get narrow minded people on here who think just because a man is bi that he will pounce upon a man if naked in a room with them. That really doesn't happen. Good luck finding the right people."

Thank you for a wonderful response

You are so right that some people are a little narrow minded and just presume J (Mr) will jump on them- he never ever would, it does nothing for him at all to be in that kind of situation, plus he is more attracted to women. He's just honest about his bi curious side on our profile.

S xxx

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Puts me off"

Thank you for being honest

each to their own, and all preferences should be respected

S xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope doesn't put us off, however as my Husband is straight he wouldn't be into Bi play with another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx

As others have said, communication and clarity is clear to understand what everyone’s preferences and ‘needs’ are.

Thank you for responding

Absolutely clarity is essential, as with any scenario.

So happy it eventually happened for you

Beautiful profile by the way

S xxx"

Why thank you kind lady. Feel free to pull up a chair and find out more

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By *oupleus30Couple
over a year ago

Minster

Mrs here ... when myself and Mr look browse on fabs and I have mentioned to him about some couples who have bi males yes I think it does put him of abit as he worries the man may think he can touch him but he's straight.

(But this could be as my oh is new to this and is alittle worried anyway about if people don't follow rules and stick to bounderies)

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Mrs here ... when myself and Mr look browse on fabs and I have mentioned to him about some couples who have bi males yes I think it does put him of abit as he worries the man may think he can touch him but he's straight.

(But this could be as my oh is new to this and is alittle worried anyway about if people don't follow rules and stick to bounderies)"

Thank you for being open and honest

I suppose my question back would be, could you as a bi curious woman meet with a straight couple and think you were OK to touch a straight woman ?

I think your answer would be 'definitely not all boundaries would be respected'

S xxxx

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx

As others have said, communication and clarity is clear to understand what everyone’s preferences and ‘needs’ are.

Thank you for responding

Absolutely clarity is essential, as with any scenario.

So happy it eventually happened for you

Beautiful profile by the way

S xxx

Why thank you kind lady. Feel free to pull up a chair and find out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is as straight as they come and we'd have no problems.

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By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Hubby is as straight as they come and we'd have no problems."

Love this response

S xxx

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

"Hey you lovely lot

Hope you're all having a wonderful Tuesday.

I need some honesty - please give me it both barrels, I've a thick skin

Does it put you off us, as a couple that my husband is Bi Curious? (Intended for the straight couples and single males out there)

Do you worry about playing with a couple with a bi curious male, if you are straight?

I would really appreciate some honest comments on this

Thank you

S xxx "

Let's put it this way, I am staying with a woman this week, and she has bi men pop in.

Nope bi curious does not put us of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all would there be a problem.

If everyone is open and honest as to what boundaries there are then there shouldn’t be a problem with it on my side at all. Other may differ but if that’s the case they wouldn’t message or be in contact to start with.

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