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By *heelz69 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Manchester

So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!

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By *adCherriesCouple
46 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

As annoying as it is, no one is obliged to meet someone even talking for weeks.

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
46 weeks ago

South East Coast

At least she's told you now, and didn't just not turn up! Everyone is entitled to change their mind

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
46 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Unfortunately if she's come to the conclusion that it's not a good idea to follow it through she is well within her rights not to do so. And at least she let you know before the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Unfortunately it does happen. But as others have said at least she has informed you in plenty of time. And just not turned up.

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
46 weeks ago

Yeovil

Sorry OP. It happens, I usually get it an hour or less before the meet. Get used to it. It will happen a lot. Just make sure you enjoy the meets you do get

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"As annoying as it is, no one is obliged to meet someone even talking for weeks. "

… Or months. People are allowed to make their choices op, it’s a free world. It’s nice for someone to let you know, take that as a way to know you chose someone genuine and nice to talk to.

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By *issmorganWoman
46 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's hard when people change their minds op, but they're entitled to do so.

At least she told you in advance and didn't no show or just block you.

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
46 weeks ago

Guildford

Maybe it was nerves/cold feet.

Perhaps suggest a friendly,no pressure, chat over the phone before aiming at meet.

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By *heelz69 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Manchester

Oh yeah I understand that people have the right to change their mind, it's just frustrating

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By *rpeggioCouple
46 weeks ago

Baughurst


"Oh yeah I understand that people have the right to change their mind, it's just frustrating "

Yes, agreed it must be frustrating. It does not mean however that the profile is a fake. If you have evidence of it, then report. If you have strong suspicions but no evidence you should have seen this coming if you have chatted for weeks with this person, so it's a bit on you to have kept it going on the slim chance she was genuine. If you did not have suspicions at all, then understand that genuine people can change their mind, so it's unfair to call her time waster or fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"

Someone she's more into turned up on her radar. Move on. And, when you find someone reliable treat her well.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
46 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"

Hey OP

Sorry you have had someone change their mind. Doesn't mean they are a time waster or a fake though- just simply means they changed their mind - which we're all aware is completely fine and acceptable.

At least she let you know rather than just ghosting you or not turning up.

S xxx

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By *heelz69 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Manchester


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!

Yeah I don't think it's a fake and probably not a time waster, I was just saying I know how people feel about that

Hey OP

Sorry you have had someone change their mind. Doesn't mean they are a time waster or a fake though- just simply means they changed their mind - which we're all aware is completely fine and acceptable.

At least she let you know rather than just ghosting you or not turning up.

S xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
what did you say when she said that ?

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By *edWitch0000Woman
46 weeks ago

worthing

She's not a time waster, she just changed her mind. A time waster is someone who doesn't show up IMO.

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By *heelz69 OP   Man
46 weeks ago

Manchester


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!what did you say when she said that ?"

Not really much I could say, I just ok thanks, I wasn't going to get into arguing or insulting her.

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By *eedsmale36Man
46 weeks ago

Leeds


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"

Keep your chin up OP, everything happens for a reason, maybe she will get back in touch, keep the faith

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By *alandNitaCouple
46 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!

Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"

I haven't read the other replies but in my opinion this isn't time-wasting it's simply a change of mind.

If you had turned up and she didn't, that would be a waste of time.

I think you maybe need to reevaluate your expectations, as you sound very entitled. A conversation or initial agreement to meet doesn't guarantee it will happen. People are allowed to change their minds.

Nita

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By *ose and her beastCouple
46 weeks ago

Watford

Better than being ghosted

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

There are no certainties in life OP unfortunately (well tax + death perhaps)

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By *alandNitaCouple
46 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Time you enjoyed wasting, is not wasted at all.

Cal

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