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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well... I have been on this site for some time and up to now not had a meet. The usual story, single males flood this site and my messages largely went unread or ignored wih the kdd thanks but no thanks.

Then I managed to arrange a meet with a cuckold couple. They were varified, seemed genuine. So they gave me the post vode and told me to message when in the street. To thier house I drove, messaged them, and nothing. Not a thing. I waited for just over an hour, they were reading my messages hut ignoring every single one.

So I left. Then I got another message saying sorry they were ready to meet now so Ibturned around and came back. Aaannnd stupid me they ignored me again.

Another meet turned out to be a wind up (which very nearly got nasty) andbthen the usual story after that... "Yes lets meet on Saturday" and radio silence from Friday night (yet they still read my messages and dont bother replying).

So disheartened I think about removing my profile, my excitement and enthusiasm for persuing this lifestyle dashed, resigned to a vanilla sex life for all eternity... It really left me wondering... Am I not attractive? Am I a man of too many words? Not enough? It really made me wonder.

But then suddenly, after messaging a couple, they are up for a social meet. A little aprehensive (and seriously thinking of not turning up owed to previous experiences) I drove and met them and wow! What chemistry were was and such a deliciously gorgeous couple to boot!

My faith restored we arranged a meet for Monday and now, finally, I can actually endulge in my little kinks and twists!

Keep at it guys and dont lose faith.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excuse the typos... Touch screen phone!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Things such as this happen. Learn from it and move on - but don't get disheartened (there is lots to enjoy here).

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By *o drama queenWoman
over a year ago

Abergele

if only we were closer id meet with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if only we were closer id meet with you "

We could compare piercings

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By *o drama queenWoman
over a year ago

Abergele


"if only we were closer id meet with you

We could compare piercings"
wheres yours ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if only we were closer id meet with you

We could compare piercings wheres yours ?"

Which one? They are all below the neckline and I have three to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse the typos... Touch screen phone! "

It's great that you didn't give up and finally you were rewarded with a lovely couple to have fun with.

Unfortunately it does happen to us single women too. I was all dressed to impress and ready for a meet I had arranged Friday evening, we had several emails on here, followed by texts and phone calls, then nothing! I sent a couple of texts and called once but that was it, I wasn't going to chase him all night. Unfortunately I had turned down an all night session with a regular guy I see AND an ex FB contacted me to see if I fancied some more fun, I turned him down too because I was assured of a good night with this guy.

I ended up on my own, pissed off and very close to deleting my profile. But as you can see I didn't.

If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards."

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really girls!?!??! Wow I cannot believe either of you would get stood up??? Sadly for me the single woman remains ellusive but given even half a chand I would be there in a heartbeat! Not all that far from York either lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up."
Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up. Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek! "

*thing not think lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Well... I have been on this site for some time and up to now not had a meet. The usual story, single males flood this site and my messages largely went unread or ignored wih the kdd thanks but no thanks.

Then I managed to arrange a meet with a cuckold couple. They were varified, seemed genuine. So they gave me the post vode and told me to message when in the street. To thier house I drove, messaged them, and nothing. Not a thing. I waited for just over an hour, they were reading my messages hut ignoring every single one.

So I left. Then I got another message saying sorry they were ready to meet now so Ibturned around and came back. Aaannnd stupid me they ignored me again.

Another meet turned out to be a wind up (which very nearly got nasty) andbthen the usual story after that... "Yes lets meet on Saturday" and radio silence from Friday night (yet they still read my messages and dont bother replying).

So disheartened I think about removing my profile, my excitement and enthusiasm for persuing this lifestyle dashed, resigned to a vanilla sex life for all eternity... It really left me wondering... Am I not attractive? Am I a man of too many words? Not enough? It really made me wonder.

But then suddenly, after messaging a couple, they are up for a social meet. A little aprehensive (and seriously thinking of not turning up owed to previous experiences) I drove and met them and wow! What chemistry were was and such a deliciously gorgeous couple to boot!

My faith restored we arranged a meet for Monday and now, finally, I can actually endulge in my little kinks and twists!

Keep at it guys and dont lose faith. "

enjoy your fun on Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to hear about a happy ending & sorry to hear about your timewasting no shows. I know it's about patience & this has restored my faith in waiting for the right & genuine contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really girls!?!??! Wow I cannot believe either of you would get stood up??? Sadly for me the single woman remains ellusive but given even half a chand I would be there in a heartbeat! Not all that far from York either lol! "

The guy I was meeting was only staying 5 mins up the road from me too so hardly had to travel to meet me, which is rare. I have met guys that have travelled for hours to meet, one in particular from Denmark! So I know I'm worth it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up. Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek! "

It would have to be a damn good excuse for me to consider a second chance. There was nothing to stop him from texting you that day and saying he changed his mind, or even lie and say his house blew up or something. Anything to allow you to make alternative plans. Props to him for telling you the truth eventually but whats to stop him from backing out again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up. Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek!

It would have to be a damn good excuse for me to consider a second chance. There was nothing to stop him from texting you that day and saying he changed his mind, or even lie and say his house blew up or something. Anything to allow you to make alternative plans. Props to him for telling you the truth eventually but whats to stop him from backing out again?"

I know. It was half an hour before we were supposed to be meeting, I texted to check all was still ok and got no reply, I am more angry that I missed out on the other 2 genuine guys, they are both good friends and great playmates too, but had made other plans by the time I got back to them. Makes me so angry but I also know there are some great people on here and hopefully I will have many more fab meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up. Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek!

It would have to be a damn good excuse for me to consider a second chance. There was nothing to stop him from texting you that day and saying he changed his mind, or even lie and say his house blew up or something. Anything to allow you to make alternative plans. Props to him for telling you the truth eventually but whats to stop him from backing out again?"

See if someone backs out its fine... But to not say so is a load of arse. I think partly (inreal life anyway) i very often get girls I approach think I am joking. I am very direct, if I like someone I will flirt and get a feel for them and if there is chemistry I tell them. Maybe that is offputting? I dunno. There is someone recently who things happened with (not through the site) and after she said that she really liked me but didnt know if I was just joking. Meh we had lots of fun anyway! LOL

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There is someone recently who things happened with (not through the site) and after she said that she really liked me but didnt know if I was just joking. Meh we had lots of fun anyway! LOL"

You need to stop wearing the red nose and giant shoes when you're out and about then.

Seriously though, I hope all goes well for you tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards.

I usually report the profile as a no show then block it. It doesn't make the situation better but if the person in question makes a habit of standing people up and get reported again the admin might take notice and get rid. Wishful thinking perhaps but it cheers me up. Funny think is although I've blocked him on here (after having my say) He has texted me today saying sorry he got cold feet and did I want to meet today! Bloody cheek!

It would have to be a damn good excuse for me to consider a second chance. There was nothing to stop him from texting you that day and saying he changed his mind, or even lie and say his house blew up or something. Anything to allow you to make alternative plans. Props to him for telling you the truth eventually but whats to stop him from backing out again?

See if someone backs out its fine... But to not say so is a load of arse. I think partly (inreal life anyway) i very often get girls I approach think I am joking. I am very direct, if I like someone I will flirt and get a feel for them and if there is chemistry I tell them. Maybe that is offputting? I dunno. There is someone recently who things happened with (not through the site) and after she said that she really liked me but didnt know if I was just joking. Meh we had lots of fun anyway! LOL"

Guys think the same of me, when we get chatting and discuss our likes ect, they often say I must be too good to be true! What's that all about then? I am what I am and I can be rather direct, this isn't a dating site after all so I say exactly what I like. If that makes me too good to be true then I'm out of here! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the worst thing about these no shows and other timewasters is that you get a jaundiced attitude to everyone. Yesterday I was contacted by a couple who seemed too good to be true. I did not take them seriously and then they turned up at nine by which time I had a comfort wank. I was sopleasantly suprised! They were decent ordinary people.

Bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse the typos... Touch screen phone!

It's great that you didn't give up and finally you were rewarded with a lovely couple to have fun with.

Unfortunately it does happen to us single women too. I was all dressed to impress and ready for a meet I had arranged Friday evening, we had several emails on here, followed by texts and phone calls, then nothing! I sent a couple of texts and called once but that was it, I wasn't going to chase him all night. Unfortunately I had turned down an all night session with a regular guy I see AND an ex FB contacted me to see if I fancied some more fun, I turned him down too because I was assured of a good night with this guy.

I ended up on my own, pissed off and very close to deleting my profile. But as you can see I didn't.

If a guy treats me this way then he doesn't get a second chance I'm afraid.

So, all refreshed and ready to take on the world again. Onwards and upwards."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She cancelled last minute owed to a sickness bug hitting the house. So still no meet for me.

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