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Acceptable distance to a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s take on this, how far is to far to travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide... cost and inconvenience of travel x time and experience (pleasure)

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"What’s everyone’s take on this, how far is to far to travel ? "

No distance is too far for right person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only you can decide... cost and inconvenience of travel x time and experience (pleasure)

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helpful hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only you can decide... cost and inconvenience of travel x time and experience (pleasure)

helpful hahaha"

Some will say 20 mins, some 2 hours - some 10 miles, some 300 miles ... I don't see how that will help you to decide??

Generally i travel 1.5-3 hours. Did that help you?? No right.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We happy to travel as far as we need to for the right couple x

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No such thing as to far, we would just make a weekend away if they are further than 3 hours away... that way we get a change of location, do some sightseeing and get a meet out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you build up a good enough connection then there shouldn’t be a limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travel Europe in a camper so no where is to far in the uk haha

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Happy to travel for the right person and cover my hotel bill.

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

Guess it depends where you live. If you live in the middle of nowhere, you’re probably going to have to travel further than someone who lives in a city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy to travel for the right person and cover my hotel bill. "

*Searches for hotels

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

I'll go to the closest city. Which is Worcester.

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By *uffhandymanMan
over a year ago

selby/peterborough

Distance is irrelevant for a hot meet!

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

It depends. For a short notice or spur of the moment meet then probably half an hour travel. For more advanced planning then further is fine.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Distance isn’t an issue club wise for me. If there’s a decent night on that I’d like to attend will happily take a road trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk 500 miles...

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Within London

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As others have said distance shouldn’t be a factor if it’s for the right person.

Social meets would be different as I wouldn’t travel as far for a drink and a chat.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

For a good club event, I’d be willing to travel a few hours as I know it’ll be worth my while. A meet on the other hand, probably an hour tops if we were to be meeting for the first time outside of a club/party setting but that’s not a hard and fast rule

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As midnight says it varies from person to person.

I'd only meet people local to me, I wouldn't go too far for what would only be a social anyway.

Theres loads of threads where people have traveled a fair way and being stood up. So it's for you to decide what risk you'll take for someone you've not met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've driven for about an hour and 15 mins for a meet and the same again coming home on the same evening. Was worth it.

An hour or so is probably sensible we'd say but everyone's different. It also depends on if you've arranged a meet near somewhere you were going to travel to for something else anyway.

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

Depends on with who and what has been arranged... a couple of hours would usually be the limit unless they were exceptional...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me 2.5hrs for one lady but met her 3 times and she blew my mind. We were friends a long time before and after. Can't find her now sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't go any where over an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a soft limit of an hour. Have travelled considerably further, and would for the right meet....

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

As I prefer regular to one-offs, I don't want anyone having to travel for more than an hour to get to me. Anything more and there is an expectation I'd accommodate them overnight and that's not what I am happy to do, not after some disasters in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much you can afford and what kind of life/job you have. I have a fairly flexible job and can easily afford to travel to Nottingham or Manchester at least once a month to meet women/couples.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Presume these people who say 'distance is no object for the right person' have unlimited free time and funds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Presume these people who say 'distance is no object for the right person' have unlimited free time and funds. "

Not unlimited, but able to make arrangements.

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By *inkandchainCouple
over a year ago

Droitwich

Have camper will travel lol

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Presume these people who say 'distance is no object for the right person' have unlimited free time and funds. "

Think it also comes down to the number of potential suitors who are local to someone. Not everyone has the privilege of having people who fit what they’re looking for located closer to home. For some, those individual/s are further afield

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