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"How big was the banana ?" I believe at least 8 inches otherwise she would not pay attention to it! | |||
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"What should I have done?" Reply "yes it is big" then let the woman eat her banana in peace. She was literally just commenting on the size of her banana. | |||
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"I remember something similar only it was a female staff member asking me if I have ever been with a black girl (she was black) I never quite knew what was happening. I chose To ignore " To be fair that really isn't the same as mentioning that mer banana was big. | |||
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"No but it was still a question as to if she was flirting or just asking a question which is what the OP is questioning. " Ok. What was the context? Were you in a group discussing the different people you'd had sex with or one to one? If one to one I'd say she was definitely putting feelers out at least. The same with the banana situation. If she turned to her colleague laughing saying "look at the size of this" then looked him dead in the eye while deep throating it I'd say she was flirting. | |||
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"No but it was still a question as to if she was flirting or just asking a question which is what the OP is questioning. Ok. What was the context? Were you in a group discussing the different people you'd had sex with or one to one? If one to one I'd say she was definitely putting feelers out at least. The same with the banana situation. If she turned to her colleague laughing saying "look at the size of this" then looked him dead in the eye while deep throating it I'd say she was flirting. " just sitting in the office one morning when she asked it was with me and another girl in the team (who was also west Indian) however as I was her manager I thought best to not get involved. Fast forward a few months and the other girl confessed she'd had a sex dream about me. | |||
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"No but it was still a question as to if she was flirting or just asking a question which is what the OP is questioning. Ok. What was the context? Were you in a group discussing the different people you'd had sex with or one to one? If one to one I'd say she was definitely putting feelers out at least. The same with the banana situation. If she turned to her colleague laughing saying "look at the size of this" then looked him dead in the eye while deep throating it I'd say she was flirting. just sitting in the office one morning when she asked it was with me and another girl in the team (who was also west Indian) however as I was her manager I thought best to not get involved. Fast forward a few months and the other girl confessed she'd had a sex dream about me. " Yeah it you're in a position of authority it's not a great idea. | |||
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"If she slid it up her chuff after that comment I’d say she was defo hinting " Yes or at least split it in half, with one part in her chuff and the other half hanging out her mouth with eye contact. Then its on. | |||
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"I’ve had it before when a female colleague kinda gets embarrassed at eating a banana in front of males in the office does this mean there a prude or just doesn’t want to let on what a freak she can me ???" No, they're not a prude and no doesn't mean she can be a 'freak'. It just means she wants to eat her banana in peace without (generally) male colleagues making her feel uncomfortable with innuendo. | |||
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"I’ve had it before when a female colleague kinda gets embarrassed at eating a banana in front of males in the office does this mean there a prude or just doesn’t want to let on what a freak she can me ???" No, it usually means she's seen things like this where men infer sexual things from the simple act of eating a banana and they just want to eat their lunch in peace | |||
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"Yeah I get what you’re saying and no doubt there are males that would make a snide comment about it , but if you say they want to eat it in peace why not go to a break room ? It’s hard not to see what there doing in plan site around the office " I don't think it's women who should be changing their behaviour on this. | |||
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"Either way it’s too risky for something fairly innocent. In that situation I would have casually laughed and done something like ‘getting monies worth’ she would in my opinion need to be more direct to make it way less risky. If context you’re packing and it’s obviously showing then she makes that remark it’s a bit less risky… I totally agree with that by just assuming you could be in front of HR be for you know it In terms of black female, prior conversation context helps, but again it could be an innocent question - I would say ‘no I haven’t, yet’ her response would then be key. The sex dream comment is the most obvious, and far less risky You could easily go ‘want to make the dream a reality’ Risk/reward - is being hauled in front of HR over a risky response worth it" | |||
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"I agree with you no one should ever feel uncomfortable in there office full stop But what would the men do all leave the office? I mean the time I was talking about the comment wasn’t directed towards me but the fact she made a comment out load would mean the guys was looking at her and was uncomfortable or it could be she wanted attention ( I know your say that’s a bloke thing to say ) but there’s always two sides to things ? " There certainly are. I'm sticking to tinned peaches from now on.  | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this?" • It's entrapment. She was setting you up to illicit an unsavoury reaction, for you to then make a pass at her and then have you hauled over hot coals to HR. These office wenches are not to be trusted, trifled with or setup with a trebuchet to sling contemptuous arrows at you. | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this? • It's entrapment. She was setting you up to illicit an unsavoury reaction, for you to then make a pass at her and then have you hauled over hot coals to HR. These office wenches are not to be trusted, trifled with or setup with a trebuchet to sling contemptuous arrows at you." Would the trifle have bananas in it? | |||
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"Yeah I get what you’re saying and no doubt there are males that would make a snide comment about it , but if you say they want to eat it in peace why not go to a break room ? It’s hard not to see what there doing in plan site around the office " . So because the grown up men folk in the office can't refrain from making a lewd comment, she should go and sit elsewhere? Do the menfolk offer the same courtesy of going elsewhere to eat their snacks? Sounds a bit like victim blaming to me. | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this? • It's entrapment. She was setting you up to illicit an unsavoury reaction, for you to then make a pass at her and then have you hauled over hot coals to HR. These office wenches are not to be trusted, trifled with or setup with a trebuchet to sling contemptuous arrows at you. · Would the trifle have bananas in it?" • You're the only sexagenarian on this site that I would confidently trifle with...and sprinkle hundreds and thousands all over you. You filthy minx. | |||
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"Any more thoughts on this? • It's entrapment. She was setting you up to illicit an unsavoury reaction, for you to then make a pass at her and then have you hauled over hot coals to HR. These office wenches are not to be trusted, trifled with or setup with a trebuchet to sling contemptuous arrows at you. · Would the trifle have bananas in it? • You're the only sexagenarian on this site that I would confidently trifle with...and sprinkle hundreds and thousands all over you. You filthy minx." Like some elderly knickerbocker glory  | |||
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