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By *leafordian75 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Newark

After being away from the scene for a few years I'm back and have noticed a variety of changes.

One of the most significant seems to be a significant rise in status updates referencing couples being let down.

As someone who has always prided himself on his reliability but struggles to get meets, I can't understand who these people are who are lucky enough to have a meet arranged and then are no shows.

Has there been an increase or are people just being more vocal about calling out this behaviour?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

There has been a big increase in people not turning up for meets.

When I first joined (14 years)it was maybe 1 in 10 that didn't turn up now it's more like 1 in 10 that will turn up.

As for couples more and more are single men, at least 50%

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I remember people saying much the same about people not being reliable 15 years ago. I daresay in another 15 years, someone will be saying it's not what it used to be, too.

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By *inLemonade65Couple
48 weeks ago

leeds

It’s amazing when you post a meet you get swamped offers and absolute confirmation of turning up then on the day it’s either radio silence or some lame excuse why they weren’t on.. had 3 guys mothers die the night before a meeting in the past..who knew fab was so deadly

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By *leafordian75 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Newark


"There has been a big increase in people not turning up for meets.

When I first joined (14 years)it was maybe 1 in 10 that didn't turn up now it's more like 1 in 10 that will turn up.

As for couples more and more are single men, at least 50% "

Sorry, are you saying that 50% of couples profiles are guys pretending to be a couple? If so, that's depressing....

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By *otgirl32Woman
48 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics

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By *iredhandMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester


"There has been a big increase in people not turning up for meets.

When I first joined (14 years)it was maybe 1 in 10 that didn't turn up now it's more like 1 in 10 that will turn up.

As for couples more and more are single men, at least 50%

Sorry, are you saying that 50% of couples profiles are guys pretending to be a couple? If so, that's depressing.... "

That does happen and quite often it is the guy fantasising about his wife with another guy. In the majority of those cases I’d wager that the wife doesn’t know anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"There has been a big increase in people not turning up for meets.

When I first joined (14 years)it was maybe 1 in 10 that didn't turn up now it's more like 1 in 10 that will turn up.

As for couples more and more are single men, at least 50%

Sorry, are you saying that 50% of couples profiles are guys pretending to be a couple? If so, that's depressing.... "

To be honest I think I am underestimating the percentage. It's amazing how many times the wife is suddenly called into work.

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By *iredhandMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester

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By *iredhandMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

His loss judging by your pics!

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
48 weeks ago

doncaster

Yea 50 percent is high but there is a lot we’ve had couples profiles trying to steer us to single men which is blatantly the single man who is running the couples on how the conversation goes

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By *leafordian75 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Newark


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

Very nice of him to waste your time like that. Did you call him out and demand and explanation?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Anyoje wanna chat with me? i wont waste your time

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By *oxy jWoman
48 weeks ago

somerset

cant remember the last let down on this account or our couples account just very very selective and never plan anything more that 7 days away if it take more than 7 day to meet then the more you'll get let down ...

i dont use phones cams apps email nope everything is done via fab if im meet from fab ... i think after 3o years on the scene you get to know + theres groups of us who away from fab share those who are abusive / dreamers / messers and it works a treat (share screen shots)

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By *ootyfruityCouple
48 weeks ago

andover


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

Lucky you didn’t meet him!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

chichester


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

Very common on here for people alas

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By *assy LassieWoman
48 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Anyoje wanna chat with me? i wont waste your time "

That's what the timewasters say

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By *agneto.Man
48 weeks ago

Bham


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics

Very common on here for people alas "

And sometimes they actually turn out to be a porn model...

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By *ifestyle1Man
48 weeks ago

me171

I see why I get a lot of confusion and disappointment with me

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By *sianpearlWoman
48 weeks ago

swindon

Having been on here 10 years I have noticed the amount of no shows is exactly the same. It surprises me that single men complain constantly about not being able to get a meet, but fail to show when they do. I would estimate that 90 per cent are no shows and fantasists but that is the nature of the beast.

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By *adbod52Man
48 weeks ago

south east

A lot of single guys really do give us genuine ones a bad reputation.

If I say I am going to meet, then I meet.

If there is a meeting that I I am unsure I can make, I won’t commit myself.

Perhaps the ones that don’t turn up and constantly let people down should be banned from the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It is a problem. I deal with it by being reliable.

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By *unboy197077Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester M46

Perhaps people should take more notice of verifications ?

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By *ornyplaytimereturnsCouple
48 weeks ago

Dartford

Been on and off this site a few times but lately we are finding more and more single men being time wasters, not saying every guy is as met some very nice guys.

Can’t see what they get out of it?

We message, have the phone call then they bottle it when making plans to meet or they don’t turn up

It’s very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"Been on and off this site a few times but lately we are finding more and more single men being time wasters, not saying every guy is as met some very nice guys.

Can’t see what they get out of it?

We message, have the phone call then they bottle it when making plans to meet or they don’t turn up

It’s very frustrating "

They get cold feet, performance anxiety. It's one thing to fantasise about it and another to actually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It gives out a bad impression for us genuine folk which can be frustrating

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By *ornyplaytimereturnsCouple
48 weeks ago

Dartford

Still very frustrating

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By *zlakMan
48 weeks ago

Norwich


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

Oh shit!! That's not good

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By *otgirl32Woman
48 weeks ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Nah I just blocked him

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
48 weeks ago

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I don't know how many people used the site 10-15 years ago but I'm assuming more use the site now and being able to log on your mobile increasing the number of daily users so more time wasters,

The site is just wank material and a fantasy site for a huge amount of people but mostly Men, Nothing wrong with that until they start involving other people about potential meets

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By *ikester85Man
48 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

It's not all one sided. I've had 3 meets off here planned with couples. Have turned up to all 3 bang on time. and.... they're a no show.

Seems like single blokes aren't worthy of even a message to say sorry we're not coming. Quite often get treated like shit even when they've made the first move!

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
48 weeks ago

doncaster

Very high chance that you have encountered single men pretending to be a couple for some cheap thrill

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By *iredhandMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester

It has got to the point where I always do a reverse image search if I’m tempted to initiate contact with someone that has public pics, particularly if they’re new. The number that turn out to be ‘borrowed’ from elsewhere is quite alarming and makes me wonder why the check can’t be done by the site when they are posted?

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
48 weeks ago

doncaster

Wouldn’t even know how to do that we was speaking to a single woman in Doncaster then 2 days later a “couple” messaged us using her pics I honestly don’t see the point in it what’s the actual end game for

Them

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By *iredhandMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester


"Wouldn’t even know how to do that we was speaking to a single woman in Doncaster then 2 days later a “couple” messaged us using her pics I honestly don’t see the point in it what’s the actual end game for

Them "

Unless you are of the same mindset it is pointless trying to understand why.

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By *ouplemfMan
48 weeks ago

south brent

So many let downs on here.arrange something and then it all goes quiet. Am sure it’s the male of the couple just getting off on the fact that another man desires his wife or girlfriend.

Just annoying

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By *apiomanMan
48 weeks ago

Shipley


"Perhaps people should take more notice of verifications ? "

Unless all verifications had to be published, then people would only show the complimentary ones!

Maybe a Trip Advisor star system?

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By *ifestyle1Man
48 weeks ago

me171

Still awake for a whole response here

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By *ldschoolfunCouple
48 weeks ago

Knebworth

I WhatsApp our location live to show we are in our way, hate letting people down.

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By *ink vixenCouple
48 weeks ago

Medway

You’d imagine that organising 10 guys from Fab that want to fuck a good looking and willing woman would be easy.

The reality though is an absolute joke.

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By *eedsmale36Man
48 weeks ago

Leeds


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics "

He might have got a last minute call to get to LA to shoot Anal Sluts 36, mans got bills to pay

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
48 weeks ago

Middle England

We only meet at clubs so don't really have an issue with single guys pretending to be couples.

Is it not easy to detect, via verifications and/or making sure you're able to talk to their partner before arranging a meet; or is that too simplistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We have only really had it once, it was a couple we had met before at a party and got on great. About a week before the planned meet it was radio silence and that was it. They have since messaged apologising and trying to strike up some chat over the following months but

after being let down it was a no-go for us , once bitten and all that . Peoples time is precious, free time is precious and can be really hard to organise.

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By *owestoft ManMan
48 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Been on many similar sites for many years both as a couple and as a single. Always had time wasters but also many good meets. For us we found most of the couples had very old photo's and not great hygiene for some. So often when we met we would say sorry just got a phone call so have to cancel. But found most men we had vetted first and chatted with were great.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
48 weeks ago

chichester


"Not surprised. Was chatting to a hot bloke for weeks and was ready to meet him - then by stroke of luck found out his pics were all porn model pics

Very common on here for people alas

And sometimes they actually turn out to be a porn model... "

I mean yes some of us are from porn or have done it

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
48 weeks ago

doncaster

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