FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling for meets ?

By *iver589 OP Man
49 weeks ago

plymouth

I seem to be struggling for meets ? I'm genuine but maybe the ladies on here are spoilt for choice or hounded ? And I don't wana be a hounder . Any advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Pictures and a bio would definitely help.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

It's a hard game on here

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Don’t normally give out atvice as it normally falls on defe ears ie you give it and the person just brush it off

You have 0 pics it isn’t a blind date people aren’t going to meet a black avatar

Your profile has 0 context at all people don’t know what your looking for and don’t want to need to ping pong messages for days to find out they aren’t compatible

So I would say add pics and context in to your profile

Also clubs and socials are a single guys best friend on here

As you have sed the numbers are heavy one sided so clubs and socials are best ware the numbers are some what even or more better

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Pictures and a bio would definitely help.

If you were selling a car you wouldn't just put "car for sale"

Without saying what make and model and it was and the history and a few pics. When I say pictures I don't mean 20 pictures just of the gear stick and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Pictures and a bio would definitely help.

If you were selling a car you wouldn't just put "car for sale"

Without saying what make and model and it was and the history and a few pics. When I say pictures I don't mean 20 pictures just of the gear stick and nothing else. "

LOL! love it!

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By *iver589 OP Man
49 weeks ago

plymouth

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By *iver589 OP Man
49 weeks ago

plymouth

Thanks for the advice just waiting on photo approval . I don't like the idea of dick pics . Surely women don't like seeing hammers everywhere ?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Thanks for the advice just waiting on photo approval . I don't like the idea of dick pics . Surely women don't like seeing hammers everywhere ? "

Personally no, but I do like tasteful pics: fully dressed, half dressed, shirt open, bare chest and jeans/trousers, boxers. Take a look at some other profiles to get some ideas. Good luck

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By *ick1111Man
49 weeks ago

Near Spalding

OP, I’m having the same problem as you. I’m not a hounder either. Maybe I should be a bit more so, in putting myself forward, but I certainly think the ladies have the upper hand on here.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"I seem to be struggling for meets ? I'm genuine but maybe the ladies on here are spoilt for choice or hounded ? And I don't wana be a hounder . Any advice ?

Women here are bombarded with messgaes from men. Be patient, polite, and perservere. Specialise, don"t spray and pray.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
49 weeks ago

andover

"Thanks for the advice just waiting on photo approval . I don't like the idea of dick pics . Surely women don't like seeing hammers everywhere ? "

We like tasteful pics, the 2 you have are great, maby a body shot, but dick pics put us off, maby in your friends only photos though, as we are partial to cock, just don’t like it forced on us as there are so many on here!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
49 weeks ago

London

Try clubs and socials.

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By *orny-DJMan
49 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I think you need to re-examine what your expectations were on joining the site.

Most single men can wait 6 months to a year before getting their first meet.

Your lack of a profile picture won't be helping either

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By *iredhandMan
49 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m just surprised that this thread isn’t already full from all the guys on fab in the same situation, of which there will be many!

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By *oxy jWoman
49 weeks ago

somerset

your asking !% of fab you give you advice thats how small these forums are and add into that alot dont even meet ...

your profile should be just that ..''yours'' .... all advice will do is give you a boring profile like all the other who asked ... be you let people chose you or not ..

the site is massively one sided the site has so many men that most of them will never get a meet then you'll have guys who get the odd one here n there and then those for what ever reason get lots of meet..

swinging is a selection or rejection scene you cant ''make'' people meet you they are either interested or not sexual attraction is key as is other stuff too its swinging ie a lifestyle not free for all sex...

pics are your choice some wont like cock pics some will and some wont meet with out one thats said one is enought with a nice body shot ...

the advice for clubs is for men spot on if you want to increase your chances then get face to face again be you so people can chose ...dont big up / bullshit just relax and dont expect anything your there to ''find out'' more but its no different than online i8n that attraction is a must aqttraction to those who are looking is personal and different with every person / couples...

so skip advice sit down and think about who you are and what you are looking for without sounding like a porn script dont be or feel entitled ... theres something someone said a week or so back thats so true most people dont like many other people we all have a preference no more so than us couples and women we all tend to be very selective couples more so because everything is just ''extra'' ...

your a good looking guy from how little we see but your profile needs a lot more but from you not others ...

nobody owes you anything its not a free for all men sex site its a lifestyle .... there will not be someone for every one simple maths will tell you that

best of luck

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