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whats the worse let down you've had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mine was I had arraged to meet a couple in Milton Keynes, I was travelling from Reading, all was arranged to meet in a pub in MK and then go onto a rrom I had booked in their home town....I drove up there all keen, paid for the room and sat and waited in the pub.....needless to say they never showed !....dont you just hate that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one who had a car crash. And the worst is saying family member ill or in hospital why would you say it.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Guys who just dont call to say that they wont be coming grrrr

whats the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

saying that I had one turn up who did not look anything like her picture ! I had driven some distance and thought oh well in for a penny etc....just as we started to go for it the hotel fire alarm went off and fecked the whole night up .....they call me captain lucky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one who had a car crash. And the worst is saying family member ill or in hospital why would you say it. "

Funny you should say that but i had one who was genuinely involved in a car accident on Saturday night and i was meant to had met her last night.

It was true as it was mentioned on the RAC road watch check

She's ok though and another arrangement is planned soon. She wants her bruised curves rubbed which i am only too happy to do

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By * THE FILTHSTERS xCouple
over a year ago

Runcorn

A close friend of ours arranged a meet with a single female from liverpool on another swingers site on her way to his house dressed in a naughty police woman outfit she crashed her car into a ditch and phoned him crying her eyes out he had to pick her up drive her home so she could get changed then travel back to her car and call the rac to tow her car away

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

Biggest let down I have had is when .............

.....my hand went to sleep on me!!

The ultimate rejection!

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"saying that I had one turn up who did not look anything like her picture ! I had driven some distance and thought oh well in for a penny etc....just as we started to go for it the hotel fire alarm went off and fecked the whole night up .....they call me captain lucky !"

you see thats not nice!!!! you shouldnt do the sympathy shag! it may be us one day you meet omg imagine lol gonna go open some wine and cringe in the corner now lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Women who say "Oh I'm gnuinly interested, I just don't like to rush into things" o I wait... patiently... 3 month... 6 months... 9 months... and (as you do) discover they've been meeting everyone else willy nilly, yet if you ask them, you're accused of being pushy.

More and more women (especially in London) seem to be doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahabs I thhink you have a big chip on yor shoulder pal !

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby

Biggest let down?...

She turned up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol Martin you are a great advert for why women shouldnt go to single guy meetslol bless

i have a blow up doll here somewhere where did iput her???????

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

I took one lady to a party (it was our first meet) then she proseded to play with every male there exept me

Then later while i was playing she came up tapped me on the head and said she was ready to go home.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Ahabs I thhink you have a big chip on yor shoulder pal !"

Chip? you should see the manure used for the potatoes

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Can someone actually being there when you turn up classed as a let down???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mine was I had arraged to meet a couple in Milton Keynes, I was travelling from Reading, all was arranged to meet in a pub in MK and then go onto a rrom I had booked in their home town....I drove up there all keen, paid for the room and sat and waited in the pub.....needless to say they never showed !....dont you just hate that !

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i've booked a few rooms in the past and the guys havnt shown, i really hate that, to not show is one thing, to let you pay out money for a meet and then not show is just damn right rude, i refuse to pay for hotel rooms now days, my rule of hotel meeting now is you book and pay for it and i'll give you half towards the cost when i get there, that way i dont feel like im expecting the guy to do all the paying out but also im not throwing money away, if they not happy with that they can meet someone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahabs I thhink you have a big chip on yor shoulder pal !"

or maybe he should accept that hes not what theyre looking for and accept that its nuffin personal .....well it is but ya know what i mean hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol we think couples who dont call to say wat they are or arnt doing are just as bad as the guys and yr rite why are they on ere !!! makes me mad !!! just bad manners !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one who had a car crash. And the worst is saying family member ill or in hospital why would you say it. "

Maybe because it was true - not everyone tells lies ya know ....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Ahabs I thhink you have a big chip on yor shoulder pal !

or maybe he should accept that hes not what theyre looking for and accept that its nuffin personal .....well it is but ya know what i mean hehe "

Ah! See this is the thing, am very happy with rejection (once I know "Not my cuppa tea mate", the problem arises when I then get question over what I have to do (usually travel) with people who are interested... by the people who aren't. Catch-22.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem now days that every time you cancel your a time waster, i have been doing this for 9 years now and in all that time i've had to cancel twice, which to be honest seeing as i have 3 kids i dont thinks bad going, last time was only this summer when my youngest daughter fell off the trampolin and cut her leg very badly, it was actually while i was getting ready to meet a guy from off here, so i did what i had to and called him to explain what had happened, of course i got a load of verbal of him and he asked me what hospital i was taking her to so he could check i was telling the truth, i refused to tell him as it was my 8 year old daughter i was taking and to be quite honest didnt want him knowing her name etc and him checking up on her, to which he said if i was telling truth id have nothing to hide and the reason i wouldnt was because i was lying, then went onto saying i'll pick you up from the hospital, so i said again no because i have my child with me, i think he replied excuses, excuses etc anyway i hung up on him because i had to get to the hospital and i didnt have time to argue, next time i logged on fab i had a new verfication and he had put on it about me being a time waster, obviously only ment for my benifit. just his way of letting me know he didnt believe me i suppose, so even if you are honest your still branded a liar on here

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

When I realised that Father Christmas isn't real

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We had arranged to meet a group of guys, was on the phone to the main guy getting directions he gives us room number etc.. we get to hotel, no such room number and he never answers his phone.. total waster!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had arranged a meet with a lady...got a load of raunchy pics and texts in the weeks and days beforehand..8am morning of the all day meet I arrive at the hotel, pay for the room, go inside and send a text with the room number...she responds saying ok on way....30 mins later..nothing, send another text no reply....another 30 mins..send yet another text no reply...call no answer...and guess what a total no show. But you have to be philisophical ..for the one that didn't show I have had loads that have...its Swinging; it happens! lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I just don't get this booking a hotel room before you have met them thing...

Is why I ALWAYS meet socially first, the way I look at it is if you are hot enough for the guy he will be more than happy to meet you on another night for a second (more physical) meet.

Recently had a guy offering to drive over 400 miles and book a hotel local to me, he never got it when I explained that unless there was significant attratction on my part then it could be a costly and wasted trip for him.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I just don't get this booking a hotel room before you have met them thing...

Is why I ALWAYS meet socially first, the way I look at it is if you are hot enough for the guy he will be more than happy to meet you on another night for a second (more physical) meet.

Recently had a guy offering to drive over 400 miles and book a hotel local to me, he never got it when I explained that unless there was significant attratction on my part then it could be a costly and wasted trip for him."

Kudos and top tip to ya hun xx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we've just had 2 couples this friday and then a different couple tonight drop out on us within 20 mins of their arrival. This was inspite of making every possible effort to make sure they were happy with us and we them. How bad is that and how disrespectful and rude is that

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse let down i had was last night travelled through the snow all the way to Derby to meet a guy and he was nothing like his photo and complete and utter bull shitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8y ago when I started to venture into adult chatrooms, I arranged to meet a chap in London, room at a hotel booked, lied through my teeth to hubby (now ex) with regard to why I needed to be in London that day etc., waited in the cold and the wind for 2h, for him not to show up. Not even a phone call or text to say why.

He chickened out at the last minute - he was married!

I felt very cheap and desparate afterwards

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

chatted to a cpl last night got on well then aranged to meet them at theirs had to drive 30 mls through the snow then got a message from them dont come

they had found a cpl to meet instead

best thing on their profile they say that they are sick of time wasters wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I was told Santa doesn't exist

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby


"Today I was told Santa doesn't exist "

Thats bollox...dont listen to them...

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I always joke that people who swing must have very sensitive immune systems, due to the amount of last minute stomach aches, sinus problems, period pains and A&E visits that seem to happen at the last minute

The worst one was a woman who I agreed to meet who looked nothing like the pictures she sent me on MSN, and then proceeded to smoke like a chimney for 2 hours. It's the only time I've not gone through with a meet... but damn! Her photos must have been 15 years old (or not her)!!!

It is frustrating though when the woman/couple are up for it until about 4pm when it all goes strangely silent... ah well - at least I know the tell tale signs now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am pritty new and so far been ok always have shown but did read a lot about no shows and time wasters before hand i suppose what you are all saying here its only a matter of time till it happens to me

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