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Even people with verifications are tinewasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Nobody can know why you’re being ignored except the couple.

Maybe they lost interest, maybe they were never interested, who knows.

Not sure you’re going to get the answer you want from the forums.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
49 weeks ago

manchester

Maybe they changed their mind.

It’s frustrating but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I've had this to me recently got chatting with a couple things going good soon as it comes to the arrangement goes quite really frustrating

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By *accar305Man
49 weeks ago

Somerset

tbh I no longer take much notice of veris….. go with my gut. Like you, occasionally get it wrong but as someone said, who’s to know their reasons….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Maybe they changed their mind.

It’s frustrating but it happens. "
yes I know but would have been nice to get a reply even if it was sorry we've found someone else or not quite what we are after.i can accept that but to completely blank me for no reason when all I've done is to be polite and replied to all there messages and questions asked is beyond me.some people just seem to think its funny to string people along

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"I've had this to me recently got chatting with a couple things going good soon as it comes to the arrangement goes quite really frustrating "
yes you think oh a nice genuine couple for a change but no ,build your hopes up and let down again by timewasters

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By *tickler2000Man
49 weeks ago

St Agnes

Had the same. Was contacted by a couple seemed quite keen on meeting.

Arranged a meet and they was a no show.

Got to love getting fucked around.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
49 weeks ago

Leicester

We chatted to a couple visiting the city, had drinks first followed by a hotel meet. They spent hours drinking and chatting before going to the room for less than an hour (knowing we had a hard stop time to go).

The woman got fucked senseless and I really wanted him to do the same for my Miss, she even put on his condom but he just took it off.

After the meet he moaned about not cumming. Putting a condom on was a huge hint.

Pictures were taken, they refused to share, we eventually blocked them.

Fucking arsehole timewasters.

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By *hatdreamsmaycomeMan
49 weeks ago

kalamata

There’s way too many time wasters on here now compared to 10 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??"

Let me guess, you were chatting to one of them who did not tell the other one about the arrangements they made with you and then the other one was doing account admin?

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By *izandpaulCouple
49 weeks ago

merseyside

I wouldn't call them timewasters but a couple who had a change of mind and are bad mannered, rude.

Timewasters to us are folks who arrange a meet and don't show.

Happily only had a couple over the years but we tend to have initial meets in a pub we would be happy just the 2 of us having an evening there alone, so their loss !!

Sadly, we feel FAB is not the best site for 121 meets as the percentage of timewasters, dreamers and delusional is extremely high.

FAB is best for holiday meets, swingers parties, socials and who's near.

Sorry this happened to you but still loads of nice folks on here.

Good luck with future meets.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
49 weeks ago

near Putney Heath


"I've had this to me recently got chatting with a couple things going good soon as it comes to the arrangement goes quite really frustrating yes you think oh a nice genuine couple for a change but no ,build your hopes up and let down again by timewasters"

As someone recently diagnosed with Autism and who spent 2 years in intensive therapy trying to understand people, I don't get my hopes up.

I call it lowered expectations.

People get cold feet.

Could have been worse...could have got cold feet midway during fucking and nakedness(it happens)

My ex got cold feet after 7.5 years together and 2.5 years of marriage..... I definitely didn't see that coming. Literally and figuratively.

Most of my swinger sex has been in clubs to be honest. Everyone else bounces around too much and has impossible schedules and lifestyles.

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By *hatdreamsmaycomeMan
49 weeks ago

kalamata

All your pics look great but the ones on jan 28th in the mirror as there’s alot going on it the pic and distracts from yourself

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
49 weeks ago

Hounslow

We've had couples messaging saying they're interested and really want to meet etc. All of a sudden no contact at all, and for no apparent reason. Who knows what goes through people's minds.

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By *aomilatteCouple
49 weeks ago

Midlands


"This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??"

A probability is it was the Man messaging you and not both of the couple. Either he had a wank and then didn't want to meet, or he told his partner and she didn't want to meet.

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By *ennyleeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Southampton


"This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??"

Did they prove they were a couple and not a single guy lying?

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By *adCherriesCouple
49 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Perhaps they changed their mind.. perhaps after you exchanged face pics they weren’t interested but didn't know how to say.. so many reasons but they can tell you they changed their mind even when you are on the job!

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By *otuseater11Man
49 weeks ago

kilwinning

Just go with your gut feeling from now on mate like yourself I think veris can be a waste of time just move on trust your gut feeling

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By *andPextraCouple
49 weeks ago

North West

Grass is often greener. We've found people who seem keen and then disappear. Found something closer, better timing, more their taste. Who knows?

I doubt there is anyone on here who hasnt experienced the fickle nature of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago


"This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??"

Perhaps you are not being ignored, is 45 minutes long enough before you messaged again. Perhaps they are always logged into fab,just like we are.

We had a nice single guy message us yesterday, we sent a reply and he replied with a lovely message, moaning about all the time wasters here lol.

Anyway we were both busy last night but fab was logged on as usual.

This afternoon we decided to send face pics just to find we have been blocked.all we can think it was just because we didn't reply in 45 minutes.

His loss not ours.

In other words people do have busy lives away from fab. Give them time,you never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"This evening a nice couple messaged me.they are local to me and I was asked if I was free and asked if I was bi.said yes to both ,got chatting,exchanged pics and everything going fine.was asked if i wanted to go round once the guy had explained what they wanted,I said yes and thought that they were genuine as seemed really nice and verifications all said dont turn down a chance to meet if invited and a lovely friendly couple.got no reply but thought ok they may be busy.checked 45 minutes later and still online so messaged again asking if they no longer wanted to meet and then I got a reply that basically was one word "what?".I replied sorry i wasnt sure if you still wanted to meet or not and now ignored even though they are still online.they are the ones who contacted me at first and wanted to know if I wanted to meet ,so why now am I being ignored??

Did they prove they were a couple and not a single guy lying? "
there are verifications on there profile and some from people I've met,so thought yes they are a couple and are genuine.usual waste of time though like 99% on here

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