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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

Has swinging been any different?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
49 weeks ago

cahoots

Loads of singles on the scene now rather than predominantly couples way back when.

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By *elboy1957Man
49 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare

The Internet has opened it up to many more people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"Loads of singles on the scene now rather than predominantly couples way back when."

More choice for people who look for singles!

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By *itygamesMan
49 weeks ago

UK

fliks right , a ten stretch ago meeting a couple was pretty easy...

These days it really is male majority (even if the profile says couple or female , its a bloke)

chat rooms , cam rooms , profiles....majority males.

Not really a swinging site anymore , folk looking for a shag site..

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

I don’t think the ratios have changed in the last ten years very much. But there are definitely more people (singles and couples) who are just looking for a one off fuck these days rather than making long-term friends into the lifestyle.

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By *histlerMan
49 weeks ago

Guildford

I found it a lot easier 10-20 years ago to get chatting to people… maybe that’s just an age thing

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester


"I don’t think the ratios have changed in the last ten years very much. But there are definitely more people (singles and couples) who are just looking for a one off fuck these days rather than making long-term friends into the lifestyle."

Perhaps even stranger is the absolute horror some people seem to feel these days about people making long-term friendships. So many people are just looking for one night stands while suggesting anyone else should be on a dating app rather than a swing site.

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By *ee1967Man
49 weeks ago

watford

When me and ex Mrs started there was no Internet.

Used actual magazines

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"When me and ex Mrs started there was no Internet.

Used actual magazines"

How did you search for other swingers?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester


"When me and ex Mrs started there was no Internet.

Used actual magazines

How did you search for other swingers?"

You read the contact magazines and you contacted people in the personal adds, you went to clubs, or you went dogging.

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By *oxy jWoman
49 weeks ago

somerset

30 years ago here in the southwest there were no club the nearest was west midlands the choice was private parties or dogging oh and contact mags and magazines/papers ... slowly the internet took off starting with croup chat with adl/yahoo/xcite those groups really openned things up made it easier to meet new people the were hardly any idiots who messed around back then ...

30 years ago men on the scene were not common unless dogging at private parties it was always couples single women were rare and men were only invited if known by a few ..

there was a few websites before fab was born one got qiute big and was doing great until the decided to charge that did not kill them but did cause a massive shift to fab when it was born...

things have changed in someways massively there are less couples today swinging there are far less single women swing tho it was never really big in the forst place really but the amount of men has exploded at first with the popularity of the internet and porn many found swinging tho for non swinging sex and pics/vids then everytime fab mad the papers or docu more men and then covid another massive influx and covid cause quite a few couples to give it up ...

so yes today the picture is very different some good some bad swinging is taking its self under ground again more private parties now than ever with very few singles ..clubs(not all) are barely surviving due to cost of living some dogging spots are getting very busy again ....but every week we see more and more men joining on the hope for most of free sex and not swinging at what point it str^ngles itself i dont know its a easy scene for couples and women if tou get selection right but men will sadly find things get harder and harder and thats not good and for some dangerous as desperation and frustration sets in...

good thing today is more open with sexuality / kinks

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By *ddfellowMan
49 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

I think a lot more people would rather talk about it than actualy do it, and everyone seems obsessed with clubs and "events".

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By *moothdickMan
49 weeks ago

stoke

I’ve been at it for about 15 years on and off.. it’s changed, it’s was easier to meet and there was more fun, whether that was cuz I was younger or ppl who participate were more relaxed? I don’t know, but it was more fun… hey hoe, onwards and upwards

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