FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist

By *S-cardiffians OP Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I think you should receive a notification if someone adds you to their hotlist. It’s a compliment more than a wink but also I think it’s your right to know if someone’s keeping a closer eye on you like that.

Anyone agree?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't agree at all because the majority of people on my list are those I definitely don't want to meet.

Not everyone uses the hotlist for people they are attracted to.

Many use it as a notlist rather than a hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concur with Mr Reality. My hotlist is a notlist.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I've got quite a few profiles on my hotlist that hosts socials and club events, so I don't miss events etc.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Ours is mainly a notlist too

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By *ezandCCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Why not just block for a notlist and use hotlist for those you find hot?

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By *S-cardiffians OP Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Concur with Mr Reality. My hotlist is a notlist.

Why not just block these people?

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I think you should receive a notification if someone adds you to their hotlist. It’s a compliment more than a wink but also I think it’s your right to know if someone’s keeping a closer eye on you like that.

Anyone agree? "

Never used my hot list

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I don't agree at all because the majority of people on my list are those I definitely don't want to meet.

Not everyone uses the hotlist for people they are attracted to.

Many use it as a notlist rather than a hotlist."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone agree? "

Disagree. The automatic reaction would be a block of that person.

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By *damxxMan
over a year ago

London

I like the idea. I have around 10 people on mine and always curious if i'm anybody elses

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

here and there

That would be a good feature, but I suspect it would be no use to me as I can't see myself on anyone's holist, but maybe im Wrong....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it to pop ppl onto if we are browsing and don't have time to drop messages out... we then do so later

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Concur with Mr Reality. My hotlist is a notlist.

Why not just block these people? "

For various reasons often linked to status updates and pics borrowed from friends as well as other historical issues.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

We very rarely use ours we normally put people on so we can see when the people we are talking to are online rather than use it as an actual hot list notifications would be good more for the fact I’m nosey and would like to see if we are on any

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol"

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

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By *ananas2013Man
over a year ago

wolves

"Why not just block for a notlist and use hotlist for those you find hot?"

Hope it's ok your on my list

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Disagree - I like to perve my hotlist in private, I will own up on the hotlist Confessions games though.

Mrs

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

I dont think id be recieving many notifications lol

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think a notification on mutual hot-listing would be better, but you can select to turn this on or off from either side.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the hotlist as the wank bank....

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By *allandathleticMan
over a year ago

Asgard

"Disagree - I like to perve my hotlist in private, I will own up on the hotlist Confessions games though.

Mrs "

Cue hotlist confession game

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

Anyone agree? "

I think your on to something, I agree

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I think a notification on mutual hot-listing would be better, but you can select to turn this on or off from either side. "

This is probably better as its a more mutual thing. I'd love to know if I was on someone's hotlist (rather than a notlist) but there would need to be a degree of mutuality for notifications to be worthwhile.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Concur with Mr Reality. My hotlist is a notlist.

Why not just block these people?

For various reasons often linked to status updates and pics borrowed from friends as well as other historical issues. "

And also it helps you avoid people who you don't wish to see.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

You're on mine.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Disagree - I like to perve my hotlist in private, I will own up on the hotlist Confessions games though.

Mrs

Cue hotlist confession game

You may have accidentally fallen on to mine

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

You're on mine.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's one part of the site I don't use x

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

You are in our hotlist.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

You are in our hotlist. "

Ah thank you

you're on mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A notification would be good, it would be nice to know if we are on any x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre on mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't agree at all because the majority of people on my list are those I definitely don't want to meet.

Not everyone uses the hotlist for people they are attracted to.

Many use it as a notlist rather than a hotlist."

Surely then it would be a Not List. I think the hot list idea is a good one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

Added, you look fabulous

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We use the hotlist for people we might like to meet but don’t have the time to chat with right now. A fuck you later list

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"See I'm curious to know if I'm.on anyone's hotlist ...lol

Or not seeing as quite a few people seem to use it as a notlist

Haha true... anyway I doubt anyone would publicly admit to having me on their hotlist!

Added, you look fabulous

Ah thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A notification would be good, it would be nice to know if we are on any x"

You would be on ours if we weren't over 6 hours away. Lol

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By *ountyladMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

I use the hotlist as a book mark, so that I can go back to the profiles I think are extremely hot. Keep an eye on their latest additions. I think the profile should know that the are appreciated so much.

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