FabSwingers.com forum: Erection-Cum problem does this happen to you or yours..

By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Get and stay hard no problem, but struggle to cum.

40 minutes non stop fun with

Its with a new partner receiving oral, wank, intercourse still no Cum.

Even with a Really new horny, sexy meet with male or female or other as well.

I Think wow yes please when we meet, get hard pretty quickly.

But cannot cum ffs lol

With or without condom on.

*Ps I hate using condoms*

Then erection goes limp after 10 minutes to half hour of continuous trying.

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But

Watch nice similar porn movie at home on my own and no problem with a full heavy cum load hehe.

Do-Did-Have, you got or had the same problem pls.

Tried lots of *Viagra* style pills no luck.

Any Cures/Ideas/pills/lotions/gels you think could assist me pls.

Any fabber think they could cure this witha nice meet please private message and say hello, open to any tries.

Have a extra fab weekend all.

Thanx BigT

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By *hrimper36Couple
48 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

My advice to you big nice Terry is to seek professional advice when dealing with problems related to your favorite part of your body and not rely on a swingers forum.

As you’ve been told before when you’ve posted similar threads you could be suffering from underlying health problems.

Best of luck.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
48 weeks ago

Birmingham

Guessing porn has desensitised you.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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"My advice to you big nice Terry is to seek professional advice when dealing with problems related to your favorite part of your body and not rely on a swingers forum.

As you’ve been told before when you’ve posted similar threads you could be suffering from underlying health problems.

Best of luck.

Hello

Nice couple Shrimp.

Yes posted before but slightly different questions.

But well spotted.

Sadly most doctors including mine.

1. do not understand the problem.

2. Are not interested

3. You now wait 2 or 3 months to speak to them and longer for a appointment LOL

4. Just try and give you hard cock pill

5. I'm OK in that department thanx xx

Hence asking nice fabbers like you 2

Let's see

I'm sure other have or are suffering the same

Thanx

BigT xx

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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"Guessing porn has desensitised you."

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Thanx

I don't think so, else no hard cock + would not be able to play as long and stay hard

Cheers Terry

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By *heelz69Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

I don't cum due to disability, no problem getting hard and stay hard but no sensation down 4

I need to try a prostate massage or something that might work

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By *efinedRogueMan
48 weeks ago

Here, there and everywhere

It sounds like porn and death grip. Stop watching porn and loosen your grip when you slap it.

Good luck bro

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
48 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"It sounds like porn and death grip. Stop watching porn and loosen your grip when you slap it.

Good luck bro"

Death wank grip no pussy can match that tightness. Wanking to much can desensitise your dick. Also performance stress that makes some guys go soft can also fuck up your connection from brain to dick. Mr has had the no cum a few times but a few ladies we played with who were very tight sorted that out

. He had no issues with me so had to be stress induced performance anxiety.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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"I don't cum due to disability, no problem getting hard and stay hard but no sensation down 4

I need to try a prostate massage or something that might work

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Wish you well

But mine is not caused by disability

Prostate massage interesting never tried it

Sounds interesting

I hate condoms LOL

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But had same problem when no need for condom.

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And I really want to cum while banging.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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"It sounds like porn and death grip. Stop watching porn and loosen your grip when you slap it.

Good luck bro"

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I'm not addicted to horn

Watch maybe twice a week.

Slap it

I think I do

Thanx for message you to

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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"It sounds like porn and death grip. Stop watching porn and loosen your grip when you slap it.

Good luck bro

. He had no issues with me so had to be stress induced performance anxiety."

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Great points thanx

Weds I had a long but very relaxed 40 min session with a stunning Chinese young lady.

She was kind gentle loving and she tried so hard bless her the get my explosion

But failed, she was so disappointed and thought it was her

100% no I promised her.

I will meet here again, that was probably the most relaxed iv felt having sex for ages.

She was so nice xx

And she was only 25 and really tight it was so nice.

I was a lucky man.

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Dick-brain maybe

But how does one get rid of that??

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Performance Stress another interesting one.

But I don't think so, no complaints bar no Cum tbh.

Cheers BigT

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
48 weeks ago

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So many nice people/replies so far thanx all

Fingers crossed for a cum miracle lol.

BigSexNoCumT xx

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By *ddfellowMan
48 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

I have found a few times if trying not to come for a while it carries over and in the end I cant cum, try to come normaly once or twice instead of holding out see if it changes anything.

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By *ldschoolfunCouple
48 weeks ago

Knebworth

A meet with a gorgeous blond, some baby oil and a hand job with cheeky eye contact fixed it for me. There was a lot of cum.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
48 weeks ago

telford

"Guessing porn has desensitised you."

I think this is a valid point !

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
46 weeks ago

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"Guessing porn has desensitised you.

I think this is a valid point !"

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Thanx but I think not

I'm not addicted

Only like one type and it's the mild stuff tbh.

Watch mayb once or twice a fortnight only.

Who knows

Cheers anyway T

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
43 weeks ago

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Thought I'd revive this post

There are some awesome helpful people on fab

Wondered if anyone else has same or there partner.

Any other suggestions or ideas not already suggested

Thanx all

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By *ickD80Man
43 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Impressive that you can have 40 minutes non stop fun even though your cock goes limp after 10 minutes. Worrying that you talked to a doctor about it and got prescribed viagra because viagra is for erection problems and doesn’t affect ejaculation at all. If you can cum when you’re on your own and wanking then it’s not a physical problem at all, if it was a physical problem then you would never be able to cum. It’s obviously a mental problem of some kind but there are loads of factors that could cause that. You should probably talk to a counsellor about it rather than a doctor. There aren’t any pills or lotions that will be able to help you.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
37 weeks ago

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"Impressive that you can have 40 minutes non stop fun even though your cock goes limp after 10 minutes. Worrying that you talked to a doctor about it and got prescribed viagra because viagra is for erection problems and doesn’t affect ejaculation at all. If you can cum when you’re on your own and wanking then it’s not a physical problem at all, if it was a physical problem then you would never be able to cum. It’s obviously a mental problem of some kind but there are loads of factors that could cause that. You should probably talk to a counsellor about it rather than a doctor. There aren’t any pills or lotions that will be able to help you."

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There is always one isn't there who love to spoil it, and thinks there a super smart arse .

Oh well have a nice day and be happy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Central

It sounds like your delayed ejaculation is psychological, as you can cum when alone. Anything that you can think of, that would reduce the stress and potential performance anxiety, should be able to help. Obviously, there may be other factors too, which year GP could evaluate.

Potentially reducing the frequency of sex could physically up the game a bit.

Some medications could affect this - the GP or a pharmacist might advise. Low testosterone may be a factor. As said, it may be a combination of things, some to a lesser or greater extent. Performance anxiety will increase your stress levels, potentially meaning you monitor your performance, rather than just enjoy the sex. In the ideal world, there'd be a sex therapist on every corner.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Performance anxiety most likely is causing you an issue.

I don't find it hard to cum, I just don't cum quickly.

Jay

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By *hil most chillMan
37 weeks ago

South East & Europe

All I know is, there's no pressure to perform when it's just you on your own, and that's why it's easier. Until you're more comfortable with your partner, this kind of thing can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Two previous partners your age and older had similar issue

1) because he was on antidepressants and those can impact ability to climax

2) the other because he could only cum in the morning .... after alot of stimulation and in a certain position. He could also wank alone and cum ...

I didn't take it personally ... and it didn't matter if they didn't always cum so long as I did.

Would advise reconsidering your porn wanking ... because that can't be recreated with a pussy.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
37 weeks ago

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"All I know is, there's no pressure to perform when it's just you on your own, and that's why it's easier. Until you're more comfortable with your partner, this kind of thing can happen."

Thanx alwsys read and listen to all sencible points of view

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
37 weeks ago

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"Two previous partners your age and older had similar issue

1) because he was on antidepressants and those can impact ability to climax

2) the other because he could only cum in the morning .... after alot of stimulation and in a certain position. He could also wank alone and cum ...

I didn't take it personally ... and it didn't matter if they didn't always cum so long as I did.

Would advise reconsidering your porn wanking ... because that can't be recreated with a pussy. "

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Great points

And thanx

Anti depression tabs thankfully never needed

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I can cum anytime day or night just not I others Company.

So frustrating.

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I never seem to have any probs getting a partner to cum, which is nice

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You seem really nice abd understanding.

Maybe I need you to help me chill-relax-Cum xx

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Porn its real hard

Horny most days

Can't w..k on own, so porn becomes my friend or maybe my devil

Thanx BigT xx

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By *ornyhotcouple696969Couple
37 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Guessing porn has desensitised you.

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Thanx

I don't think so, else no hard cock + would not be able to play as long and stay hard

I think the porn desensitising you is very valid.

After being cheated on many years ago I turned to porn for pleasure, and could cum when ever I wanted to.

Once in a relationship and having penetrative/oral sex, I couldn't cum for love nor money.

Cheers Terry "

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