FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So last night we visited a club and we had a play in the public rooms we were being watched by a few guys

One of the blokes caught els eye, he was very cocky and sure of himself

Anyway el invited him over and she gave him a BJ for all of thirty seconds when he cum and immediately lost his erection

Now the other guys found this hilarious and weren't very subtle about it, it was a bit humiliating for the guy. They didn't point and laugh but you could hear snickers

Our question is did he deserve it for being cocky or was that really harsh or bad etiquette?

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By *exxxoMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Isn't that normal? Maybe not to last 30 seconds! But to lose an erection after cumming?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Sounds like the other blokes just being arseholes. And probably just ensuring that they won't get to play with you!

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The laughing and mocking is bad etiquette no matter where you go.

Him lasting 30 seconds is on him, he doesn't deserve to be mocked for it.. it happens to us all from time to time.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"So last night we visited a club and we had a play in the public rooms we were being watched by a few guys

One of the blokes caught els eye, he was very cocky and sure of himself

Anyway el invited him over and she gave him a BJ for all of thirty seconds when he cum and immediately lost his erection

Now the other guys found this hilarious and weren't very subtle about it, it was a bit humiliating for the guy. They didn't point and laugh but you could hear snickers

Our question is did he deserve it for being cocky or was that really harsh or bad etiquette? "

They were probably jealous and would have jumped at the chance to be in his shoes. We find private rooms much more relaxing.

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By *exxxoMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"The laughing and mocking is bad etiquette no matter where you go.

Him lasting 30 seconds is on him, he doesn't deserve to be mocked for it.. it happens to us all from time to time. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bad etiquette.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

I wasn't there so don't know, maybe he had been bigging himself up, like so many do here.

You said he was being cocky, maybe karma decided he needed some humility.

If it was the above, being cocky, bigging himself up etc. Then himself breaking swinging etiquette, maybe he got what he deserved and will hopefully learn from it.

I can be a hard bitch!!

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By *ilyandronCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lasting 30 seconds with E ?! Man deserves a pat on the back !

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By *sxboy69Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

Seems unduly harsh, the bloke might have been edging for hours previously and obviously a bj from a hot woman is a very happy ending. Other guys were just being dicks

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By *ockonmeMan
over a year ago

lincs

I wouldn’t be happy if the other guys sniggered at me…the guy was clearly turned on by you both and was also so much aroused he gave you his load.

Maybe the other guys secretly had wanked at home before attending knowing that they too would blow very quickly and didn’t want to feel less of a man by cumming first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very childish and rude behaviour regardless of whether he was cocky or not. Bet they were just pissed they didn't get any action. Nob heads.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is such bad form from the other guys.

That would be a bunch who wouldn't ever be considered next time we played there.

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By *igBobby82Man
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"So last night we visited a club and we had a play in the public rooms we were being watched by a few guys

One of the blokes caught els eye, he was very cocky and sure of himself

Anyway el invited him over and she gave him a BJ for all of thirty seconds when he cum and immediately lost his erection

Now the other guys found this hilarious and weren't very subtle about it, it was a bit humiliating for the guy. They didn't point and laugh but you could hear snickers

Our question is did he deserve it for being cocky or was that really harsh or bad etiquette? "

Honestly sounds like the others were being prices. But the guy shouldn't have been so cocky and assumptive

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"So last night we visited a club and we had a play in the public rooms we were being watched by a few guys

One of the blokes caught els eye, he was very cocky and sure of himself

Anyway el invited him over and she gave him a BJ for all of thirty seconds when he cum and immediately lost his erection

Now the other guys found this hilarious and weren't very subtle about it, it was a bit humiliating for the guy. They didn't point and laugh but you could hear snickers

Our question is did he deserve it for being cocky or was that really harsh or bad etiquette? "

Bad etiquette definitely I myself last too long on occasion due to sertraline.

And people I have been with understand and don't mock me for it.

They had no right mocking someone and I agree probably an air of jealousy that they weren't involved

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Deffo sounds like jealousy.

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By *clovin4570Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

If people feel the need to judge for their own amusement, it's them that should be ridiculed. One man's gold is another man's trash, why can't we just smile and be happy that inhibitions are cast aside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why did you pick him if he was cocky ? genuine question

if it was me in a club and theres a cocky guy hot or not he aint coming anywhere near me cant stand cocky loud people no matter what..

and the other guys laughing just shows how childish they were i guess

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

These things happen being laughed at for quick ejaculation by grown men isn't on, I don't think anybody would like anyone to laugh at any part of their body or performance - it's just plain rude.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"why did you pick him if he was cocky ? genuine question

if it was me in a club and theres a cocky guy hot or not he aint coming anywhere near me cant stand cocky loud people no matter what..

and the other guys laughing just shows how childish they were i guess"

He wasn't cocky in a way that put el off just very confident in himself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It was rude, unnecessary and bloody nasty. Some people People absolutely delight in putting others down

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Cumming too quick has happened to us all at some point. Doesn’t matter how cocky he was, people shouldn’t take the mick. Not cool.

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah it's not on, I've never been to a club but from what I've seen and heard on here, the people on here that go to clubs are nice and welcoming, sounds like some childish behaviour and it must take guts to approach a sexy stranger like he did, they were probably shit scared of doing what he did, no shame what so ever in cumming quickly, I bet some guys would struggle to cum in his situation in front of strangers and his mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all we thought this was the case we just wondered what the normal mindset is in the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He nutted, they didn't.

Winner winner chicken dinner.

The Mr.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"why did you pick him if he was cocky ? genuine question

if it was me in a club and theres a cocky guy hot or not he aint coming anywhere near me cant stand cocky loud people no matter what..

and the other guys laughing just shows how childish they were i guess

He wasn't cocky in a way that put el off just very confident in himself "

I wanted to catch the fish shop before it closed, I wasn’t hanging around

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"He nutted, they didn't.

Winner winner chicken dinner.

The Mr."

Exactly

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Definitely bad form from the other guys, but seems like the lady has got some serious skills

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

The gezzer got to blow his load he's the champ, the others are jealous....

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