FabSwingers.com forum: Requesting a face pic

By *histler OP Man
51 weeks ago

Guildford

So you’re chatting, you share a couple of messages back forth… when is it okay to ask for a face pic?

As fab etiquette tends to dictate, you’ve shared a face pic with your first message so when should you expect one back?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

You can ask straight away as long as you are polite about it.

If they say no the trash took itself out.

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By *ealitybitesMan
51 weeks ago

Belfast

"You can ask straight away as long as you are polite about it.

If they say no the trash took itself out."

So someone who isn't comfortable sharing a facepic is trash?

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By *issmorganWoman
51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If you've sent one already and you're getting on well after a few messages, I'd ask then.

It's best to see one earlier rather than later and find there's no attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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51 weeks ago

East Sussex

We don't ask for face pictures until we're talking about meeting. If someone sends one off their own bat we don't feel obliged to send one back

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By *ev_1Couple
51 weeks ago

Bickliegh

Don't send face pics

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By *iaandjamesCouple
51 weeks ago

Almost immediately for us, attraction is important.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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51 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We don't ask for face pictures until we're talking about meeting. If someone sends one off their own bat we don't feel obliged to send one back "

This.

I've chatted to people for a while before asking. Not always because a meet is planned, but eventually I'll just pop the question in a nice way out of idle curiosity. Tbh most tend to send them quite soon off their own back if there's good chat and you're getting along.

If someone cuts me dead after I've asked? I'll leave it there. It's a good hint that the chat may have just been to kill time and won't go anywhere long term. So I won't pay as much attention to them moving on. But it's all good. You won't be attracted to everyone or attractive to them either. If the aim is to meet then that's important. For general chit chat does a face really matter?

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By *picyandspecialCouple
51 weeks ago

newcastle

"We don't ask for face pictures until we're talking about meeting. If someone sends one off their own bat we don't feel obliged to send one back "
this right here

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By *aomilatteCouple
51 weeks ago

Midlands

"So you’re chatting, you share a couple of messages back forth… when is it okay to ask for a face pic?

As fab etiquette tends to dictate, you’ve shared a face pic with your first message so when should you expect one back?"

It's maybe best not to ask at all, if someone wants to send face pics they will. There's no fab etiquette to send in a first message, it's just what some ask for. Personally if someone sends face pics and we'd like to meet them we'd send pics back.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
51 weeks ago

surrey

I always send a face pic on a first message. I don’t expect one back but if they reply and engage in conversation then I will ask if they would consider sending one. I think it’s reasonable to ask, if they say no or not yet I’m fine with it. As someone said above, they either aren’t interested in meeting really or possibly a man haha

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By *ellhungvweMan
51 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I usually send a face pic on first message. In my experience people who are likely to meet will tend to respond with one pretty quickly. People who don’t send one are a lot less likely to meet and I use that as a signal to move away from the conversation.

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By *olfandtazCouple
51 weeks ago

Bristol

"You can ask straight away as long as you are polite about it.

If they say no the trash took itself out."

This is pretty much how we work too

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I don't request or send face pix

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By *adCherriesCouple
51 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"I don't request or send face pix"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I don't request or send face pix"

does this mean you just blind date?

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