FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Age limits - do you change yours.

Jump to newest
 

By *orny Irish OP   Man
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

So on Monday I passed the anniversary of my entry to this world. Not a major thing but I went from being a round number of 50 to 51. Which has pushed me outside a number of profiles age restrictions.

My question is as you get older do you adjust your age restrictions of you have any? If so when after 5 years or 10 years or do they creep up every year in line with your age.

I must admit I don't change mine that often probably every 5 years as I like things to be in tens or 5s. A tad OCD that way.

Discuss please.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lower limit shifts more. I have a weird no younger men rule. Can't do it. Mostly it's always 10 years older than me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

No I just keep mine as a full spectrum spread

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

These days I enjoy the pleasure of meeting older women, and men so adjust my lower age limit up accordingly. Not sure I’ll change it annually but I may get to the point where I forget how to log on!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We changed ours up a year or so ago. I think after a time it's no longer necessary to amend the lower end

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mpeyeMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I too recently passed that milestone.

Im not that bothered by the number. I look & act a lot younger than I really am but it is frustating now being outside peoples cut off points.

Particularly as age is irrelevant to be in a horny companion (within reason)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes we've definitely adjusted ours a little as we've aged, I don't think you could be on this site for years and not really. Getting to the point where anyone under 20 looks like a child to me now...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

As a general rule we keep the age limits the same but we place more importance on the minimum age being over 40. Over 40's generally have more experience and confidence leading to fewer hang ups etc. No upper age limits at all, some of the much older couples with whom we've played are great fun and so experienced

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We put age limits on Fab as it tends to be what we look for. We both look young for our ages, but we tend to meet at Clubs where age doesn’t matter so much. It just comes down to attraction then. It is simply a filter on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I always keep a 10 year gap between my eldest child's age and my lower filter so I adjust it every year.

I've never changed my upper filter as I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like @_ealitybites my wife always wanted to put a minimum age limit which was 10 years older than her elder child, so as we started in our early 40's the minimum age was 30.

As we progressed however we found that we preferred our own age or older.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, I change mine when I have a bday.

I'm hitting the big 50 this year so both my upper limit & lower limit will increase accordingly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

Tried both ways !!still can’t get a meet !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ister_EMan
over a year ago

Hayling Island

I leave mine open but it's increasingly rare for me to actually be attracted to much younger women. Very few are as intriguing or as interesting as older women conversationally. And even fewer have the sensuality and experience to offer anything near the pleasure that more mature women do. I haven't had to shift my limit upwards though, because I was lucky enough to be be seduced by some much older women when I was a young man. So I've always appreciated just how good mature women are at pleasuring a man

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth


"The lower limit shifts more. I have a weird no younger men rule. Can't do it. Mostly it's always 10 years older than me"

And us older guys thank you for it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top