FabSwingers.com forum: Question to anyone

By *ingerFox21 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Doncaster

So I've been on here for quite a while and I've never met anyone, like I've asked for meets with women but just keeping getting rejections, like is it my looks or do most women want you to be friends with them before you fuck them, is it better to just go to swingers clubs as single male and do it that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

For me it depends on a man's attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I personally think people are just too picky nowadays

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
51 weeks ago

Birmingham

You considered reading any of the other 1000's of guys posts about this topic? Lots of advice swapped on them

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By *ingerFox21 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Doncaster

Feels that way , I've put myself out there but keep getting rejected

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By *ndiiiMan
51 weeks ago

Paisley Scotland

Sit back enjoy the popcorn and let the fun commence

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By *rmrs1234Couple
51 weeks ago

Waterford

Not alot of women want to dominate a young guy,so ur sliver of hope of meeting someone is exponential reduced.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Your photos are a bit dodgy buddy and wee things like your age range, 18-99, fix that.

With fab you get out what you out in, with the right energy and attitude.

Have a look at the profiles other guys have, who are successful on the site, and you will get some pointers. (If the main pointer you get is an erection….dont blame me)

Have a re-think on what you’re saying in messages. Do not send photos of your lustsabre and don’t be all sexual and creepy. Speak to people how you would in person and if you are emailing people, who’s profile describes you as what they are looking for, youl have a little more success .

(Also, mate, women on fab would fuck you harder than you could ever fuck them. They know what they want and they get it)

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By *rmrs1234Couple
51 weeks ago

Waterford

Hey can u say ibuprofen and curly wirly for me out loud.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
51 weeks ago

Waterford

Aye you

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By *ingerFox21 OP Man
51 weeks ago

Doncaster

Wouldn't say my photos are dodgy personally

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By *issmorganWoman
51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Not alot of women want to dominate a young guy,so ur sliver of hope of meeting someone is exponential reduced. "

This it's very niche.

Are you messaging women you're genuinely interested in meeting and do you fit what they're looking for?.

For many women you will be too young, so only contact those who are looking for younger men.

Maybe write a bit more in your profile as most of us look at a profile and if it's not appealing, we don't tend to reply to a message.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
51 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I personally think people are just too picky nowadays"

So people should change preferences and drop standards just to give a random a shag? Seeing as you have no verifications, when are you going to start meeting men and take it up the bum?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
51 weeks ago

Worcester

You’re quite young. Many people don’t want to play with people who are much younger than themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

"I personally think people are just too picky nowadays"

What an absolute silly thing to say! Why did folk just fuck anything with a pulse years back??

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By *parkle1974Woman
51 weeks ago

Leeds

For me the issue would be your age...which I think you'll find for most (not all) would be the same.

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By *essaMayWoman
51 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

We are very picky, i know we should drop our nicks when any guy shows us his cock.

We all have different types and looking for different things if they don't match then its not going to happen

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
51 weeks ago

Cumbria

"So I've been on here for quite a while and I've never met anyone, like I've asked for meets with women but just keeping getting rejections, like is it my looks or do most women want you to be friends with them before you fuck them, is it better to just go to swingers clubs as single male and do it that way? "

You’re pretty young, that counts against you. Also if you think the ratio of men to women on this site is bad, wait until you find out the ratio of submissive men to Dominant women!

Your profile reads like you don’t really know what you want, or that you’ll try to be whatever a woman decides. Not really that attractive.

Do women want you to be friends with them before you fuck them? Well what women wants varies but in general they don’t want to be treated like a hole to fuck.

Perhaps you need to review what you think this site is about, and how you might go about showing that of many, many thousands of men a woman can choose from, you are the one they should.

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By *wistedTooCouple
51 weeks ago

Frimley

"I personally think people are just too picky nowadays"

That’s a ludicrous statement. TOO picky? So you think people should meet and fuck people for the sake of it? For most people, being intimate with others requires a lot

Of checkboxes to be met and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

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By *wistedTooCouple
51 weeks ago

Frimley

"I personally think people are just too picky nowadays

What an absolute silly thing to say! Why did folk just fuck anything with a pulse years back??

Yeh, you’re right. The statement was absolutely 100% wrong. Being picky should be the first thing on anyone’s mind. Fuck only people who meet your needs 100% for the scenario you want to play.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
51 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I personally think people are just too picky nowadays

What an absolute silly thing to say! Why did folk just fuck anything with a pulse years back??

Yeh, you’re right. The statement was absolutely 100% wrong. Being picky should be the first thing on anyone’s mind. Fuck only people who meet your needs 100% for the scenario you want to play."

It’s amazing how many men on here seem to genuinely think this.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Thank you for you insight I’ll take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I've been in similar boat. Of the odd one or two that do politely reply saying I have no verifications but finding even a social to hopefully get a verification is hard enough let alone meeting one of the fine ladies on her for more then a social. Any of you delightful Durham ladies care to meet for a social . I know I'm no oil painting but have good character.

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