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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt

well i have to be honest and say the whole idea of joining a couple intrigues me, although i wouldnt know where to begin. I am straight and would have no interest in male play, thats the part that worries me. Anyway i guess im just after some advice, comments and tips from all you experts

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

What would u like to know? I've tried straight mfm and bi mmf's both were good, u don't need to have contact with the male just be comfortable with very close contact :D

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt

not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my husband is straight but we have had mmf and sometimes he just watches simple thing is both men play with me, only thing you is you need to be comfatable seeing another man naked and him seeing you.

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt


"my husband is straight but we have had mmf and sometimes he just watches simple thing is both men play with me, only thing you is you need to be comfortable seeing another man naked and him seeing you."

not a problem being seen or seeing, but guess its about trust and feeling comfortable with the couple. And i suppose finding a couple that would understand possible nerves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

explain to them how you feel its about trust if the male of the couple is straight he might be just as nervous as you.Good luck x

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt


"explain to them how you feel its about trust if the male of the couple is straight he might be just as nervous as you.Good luck x"

Hmm hadnt thought of it that way...Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your welcome .good luck x

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome. "

Most couples, (even very experienced ones) will have nerves. When I had mmf with my man and a friend we found the best approach was to talk openly and be totally honest about where our boundaries lay. That way there are no grey areas.

You will love it, im sure

xx

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt


"Most couples, (even very experienced ones) will have nerves. When I had mmf with my man and a friend we found the best approach was to talk openly and be totally honest about where our boundaries lay. That way there are no grey areas.

You will love it, im sure

xx"

Well reckon i wont know till i explore, so nothing ventured....... thanks

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

As with anyone you meet on here, be honest & polite, people respect that. I was very nervous the first time but don't worry about male play, many couples simply aren't in to that, & if they are they'll say so!

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt


"As with anyone you meet on here, be honest & polite, people respect that. I was very nervous the first time but don't worry about male play, many couples simply aren't in to that, & if they are they'll say so!"

Cheers, being polite is always good advive

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By *luemeanie69Man
over a year ago

north/south

Being a single male isn't the best in the club. A bad reputation due to a lot of idiots who ignore rules and act like a woman is the pied piper.

But as for playing, I've never had any issues with couples. Most are straight male and straight or bi female. Of course everyone's different but I'd imagine a couple with a bi male would make that very clear before any action took place.

As with everything in a club good communication is the basis of a great night of play.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Good luck! There's nothing better than a lady enjoying herself with two or more guys.

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"well i have to be honest and say the whole idea of joining a couple intrigues me, although i wouldnt know where to begin. I am straight and would have no interest in male play, thats the part that worries me. Anyway i guess im just after some advice, comments and tips from all you experts "

The first meet my partner and I had was a straight mmf. He later gradually became bi and a crazy stalking lunatic but that's another story..

There shouldn't be any issues unless one or both of the guys are either very nervous or have inferiority issues. Double the pleasure for her, a fun meet for a single guy, a chance to see somone else pleasure his wife/partner for the other guy, everyone wins. Plus maybe a cheeky bro tap for making her cum

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By *ust a guy 41 OP   Man
over a year ago

bagillt

Thanks for all the advice and comments guys, much appreciated....just need to find the patient couple who are prepared to teach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find getting in the right mind set helps. If you don't feel overly confident, or conscious about size, just think the other guy may feel the same and that he's gonna be naked and near you. The majority of couples are understanding and discuss things before hand. My 1st couple were great, we chatted then the male half started to play then encouraged me to join in.

Hope you have fun

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome. "

Some couples begin play where the man leaves the room and you and the lady start playing before he comes back in to join you. By then you'll be 'in the zone' as it were and be far to busy to worry. That approach can help a lot.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome.

Some couples begin play where the man leaves the room and you and the lady start playing before he comes back in to join you. By then you'll be 'in the zone' as it were and be far to busy to worry. That approach can help a lot.

Best of luck "

We do this

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