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When you wank do you always cum?

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By *ure_heat OP   Man
51 weeks ago

Solihull

I edge loads so often I'll just bring myself close a few times, then trousers back on and crack on with my day.

When you sit down to have a wank is your intention always to cum?

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By *sacambsMan
51 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Nope, not always. Like you, I love a good edging session over a few days

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
51 weeks ago

Inverness

It’s not a wank if you don’t cum

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By *sacambsMan
51 weeks ago

Huntingdon


"It’s not a wank if you don’t cum "

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"I edge loads so often I'll just bring myself close a few times, then trousers back on and crack on with my day.

When you sit down to have a wank is your intention always to cum?"

yes

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By *ust want fun 888Man
51 weeks ago

nearby


"I edge loads so often I'll just bring myself close a few times, then trousers back on and crack on with my day.

When you sit down to have a wank is your intention always to cum?"

oh, definitely. Admittedly I don’t have a lot of control over edging, once that feeling is rising I just want to come

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
51 weeks ago

Birmingham/midlands

I get distracted part way through by some random thought and all of a sudden the moment has gone. That’s the problem when you’re wanking on your own, sometimes the moment slips away and you forget your cock is out and you really shouldn’t have got it out in tescos in the first place.

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By *aughtySxTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Sometimes get interrupted

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

No

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
51 weeks ago

birmingham

I’m the same but I edge for a good hour then cum if I have time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yes. I cum a few times

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By *haneleviMan
51 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Not always but It plays on my mine untill I finally do. So usually have ti finish the job

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By *ivorced manMan
51 weeks ago

Birmingham

If I have a good wank session, the aim is to shoot my load

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By *sjrcMan
51 weeks ago

Glasgow

Not always. Love a good edging session. But to be honest usually when I start with intention to edge I get carried away and just want to shoot my load

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By *wolfy000Man
51 weeks ago

hitchin

Same as you OP. Can wank for a while, get close, then just zip up and carry on with my day. Would probs have a play every day, but only cum couple times per week. However, days when it’s been a bit longer, I get crazy horny and can’t concentrate on anything lol

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By *avid from farnboroughMan
51 weeks ago

Farnborough and Chepstow

usually more often than not a wank takes about 90 mins ..largely due to meds

if im edging the final explosion is immense over my chest head fucking everywhere ...but not always do i ejaculate ...

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By *amb_ManMan
51 weeks ago

Peterborough

Yes, but I love to edge for a while to porn first though.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
51 weeks ago

falkirk

Unless I get disturbed

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Bolton

Not always x sometimes I'm edged for hours then locked back up x

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By *ndiiiMan
51 weeks ago

Paisley Scotland

Depends how k feel

Sometimes edge and then stop. Other times have to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Not always but usually. Some times I enjoy a good edging session. Some times I get interrupted by one of my needy cats or the sound of my housemate.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Not always cum

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

No not always

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By *nigma321Man
51 weeks ago

Manchester

Absolutely, every time!

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By *igjohn78Man
51 weeks ago

lincoln

To right

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By *hank you sirMan
51 weeks ago

colchester

I've always cum eventually during a wank, I think if I didn't my balls would ache and I would think about nothing else until I've cum

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By *helroyCouple
51 weeks ago

Skegness

not all ways

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By *neforutoMan
51 weeks ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
51 weeks ago

chichester

Most of time no

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By *heekyCharmMan
51 weeks ago

Colne

I'm easily distracted

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By *rthur WrightusMan
51 weeks ago

Round the Bend


"Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either "

Yes but you shouldn't always rush your food and sometimes best eaten slowly to enjoy it, cake may be an exception

In answer to the OP tho I start but don't always finish by choice

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By *alsam1Couple
51 weeks ago

Caister

Edging is the way x

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
51 weeks ago

Norwich

Need to cum to ease the sexual tension

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

And I thought I was alone by edging for days

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By *uiet_69Man
51 weeks ago

Near

Always

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either "

But do you ever pop the chocolate bar in your mouth and let it melt though to Savour the enjoyment of it all that bit more?

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By *avexxMan
51 weeks ago

cheshire

always cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Don’t always cum like getting to the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Always but to.like.to edge and tease myself kinda am now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yes big time

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

If anyone wants to watch feel free to message me

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By *luboyoMan
51 weeks ago

North West / Birmingham

Sometimes I edge for a while and save it. Particularly if I'm meeting a play friend a day or two later. I like to increase my chances of larger cum shoot for then

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

When younger yes, always, now I often wank for hours without cumming, keeping it for later

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By *inkycreamCouple
51 weeks ago

manchester

With doxy over and over.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Why would you wank and not cum ? It’s not really a wank surely ?

It’s like saying saying did you eat but really you’ve just made a sarnie and put it in the fridge for later

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

No I love edging. But if I dont cum by the end of the 2nd day I get grumpy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Most of the time but not always . Can see me edging for a good hour or so if not longer

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
51 weeks ago

Launceston


"Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either "

As a woman I find the whole edging thing very confusing! And the description above sounds pure torture rather than pleasurable! Are you men masochists?

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
51 weeks ago

Rotherham

Almost never as I have been in chastity since 19 years old including 24/7 during my two cuckold relationships

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By *tarlink12Man
51 weeks ago

Brighton

Love edging for a few days, makes my cock look bigger in my work trousers and trackies too

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By *moothshaftMan
51 weeks ago

Coventry

I can't wank and not cum. I HAVE to cum. Takes a bit longer now I'm a pensioner though!

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By *eeds fun guyMan
51 weeks ago

yorkshire

Yes except when I am purposely edging which may happen for weeks

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By *el13ABCMan
51 weeks ago

Huddersfield

The aim is to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"It’s not a wank if you don’t cum "

Totally agree with you as this is exactly the way I masturbate , but the actual act itself doesn't necessarily require one to get to that point. x

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By *afkaMan
51 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)


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As a woman I find the whole edging thing very confusing! And the description above sounds pure torture rather than pleasurable! Are you men masochists? "

It's kinda like a long sex session, as opposed to a quickie - sometimes 5mins is enough but if you have enough time it's wonderful to get close to the edge of cumming then back off, then go again and again, the build up is the best bit and then after a few goes that's satisfying enough, don't need to cum at the end every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Yeah it doesn’t seem complete without that

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Seems fairly pointless without the orgasm to complete it

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By *rthur WrightusMan
51 weeks ago

Round the Bend


"Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either

As a woman I find the whole edging thing very confusing! And the description above sounds pure torture rather than pleasurable! Are you men masochists? "

Is it the cake bit that throws you ? But I have to agree it's hard when confronted with a nice slice of Lemon Drizzle

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By *neforutoMan
51 weeks ago

Fantasy land in the SW


"Yup, always. I dont get the edging thing, its like cutting a slice of cake or opening a bar of choc and not eating either

But do you ever pop the chocolate bar in your mouth and let it melt though to Savour the enjoyment of it all that bit more?"

Nope, im like a pig in a trough with choc or cake

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By *evonrobMan
51 weeks ago

Kingsbridge


"I edge loads so often I'll just bring myself close a few times, then trousers back on and crack on with my day.

When you sit down to have a wank is your intention always to cum?"

Once I decide to have one it ends with me cumming…always enjoyable too!

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

I’m very Mitch into edging these days often on her perving while edging

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Mrs yes.

Mr yes unless caged. Wanking with a cage on only results in cumming maybe 1 in 4 times. The other 3 attempts are just pure frustration

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By *oiluvfunMan
51 weeks ago

Penrith


"Nope, not always. Like you, I love a good edging session over a few days"

Same here! Women don’t understand men don’t need to ‘empty’ to enjoy themselves I love edging over the course of a few days, keeping myself in a state of horniness with a semi-on while going about my ‘normal’ business, until that time I decide to let it fly….

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By *oiluvfunMan
51 weeks ago

Penrith


"

As a woman I find the whole edging thing very confusing! And the description above sounds pure torture rather than pleasurable! Are you men masochists?

It's kinda like a long sex session, as opposed to a quickie - sometimes 5mins is enough but if you have enough time it's wonderful to get close to the edge of cumming then back off, then go again and again, the build up is the best bit and then after a few goes that's satisfying enough, don't need to cum at the end every time. "

I agree mate

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By *ensman100Man
51 weeks ago

Hounslow

About 70 percent of the time... love edging. Building up the climax is great

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By *eeper ThanMan
51 weeks ago

Dartford

Don’t start something you can’t finish

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
51 weeks ago

Kent

Always. I aim for 3 and then I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Nope still haven’t

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
51 weeks ago

Northumberland

No, I love to edge and taste the precum ,

Xx

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By *isser36Man
51 weeks ago

fylde Coast


"I edge loads so often I'll just bring myself close a few times, then trousers back on and crack on with my day.

When you sit down to have a wank is your intention always to cum?"

I do this a few times a week, just play and enjoy then before I go too far stop and save my cum. I enjoy it.

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By *erICorknowCouple
51 weeks ago

cork

Sometimes it has to be more filthy than normal to get me going! ????

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By *eeper ThanMan
51 weeks ago

Dartford


"Always. I aim for 3 and then I'm happy. "

I love your insatiable hunger

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By *abonTedCouple
51 weeks ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Yep…every time. Unless Ted is with me, watching. That usually ends differently

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By *hesubtlegentMan
51 weeks ago

surrey

I edge sometimes. Especially if I have a meet coming up. Then I make sure I don’t cum because when I do have sex, it’s so much more intense…

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By *ndysahornyboyMan
51 weeks ago

Biggleswade

Usually yes and I usually cum most days at least once (often sex and a wank as well) but often in the morning if I wake up early I'll start a wank but won't finish, knowing that I'll return to it later on and blow my load.

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By *j1104Man
51 weeks ago

Rochdale

I edge until I can’t hold it anymore x

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By *RWoodyCouple
51 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When I play it's because I'm horny. If I'm horny, I'm coming. It's a simple equation here

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

Always cum unless someone returns home early lol. Xx

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By *ambsfunMan
51 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Always cum unless someone returns home early lol. Xx"

Hahaha

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By *reechoicesMan
51 weeks ago

Bristol

Love edging and can split it over multiple sessions, though do find it harder to concentrate and resist temptation to do it again as time goes on until I have to cum just to get focus back for other things.

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