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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago

So peeps is soft swing frowned upon. Weve been to clubs and played together with a few undesireables asking to join in but deffo not into single guys but no couples have ever approached. Weve chatted and prefer the soft swing oppose to wife getting battered by some hunk or i grab a naked brunette and fuck all night,however we have said what may happen during a soft swing may happen and never say never so do soft swingers still get party invites or club fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I think it’s one of these things that those who frown upon it, aren’t ones you’d want to play with anyway. It’s all about respecting the boundaries of others, not judging and being all high horse about it

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
48 weeks ago

Exeter

We're only soft swap and have lots of fun, we'll never have full swap. But have lots of fun with others x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago

Cool

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By *erry bull1Man
48 weeks ago

doncaster

In my eyes soft swing is still good fun

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
48 weeks ago

Camberley

No it’s not frowned upon but not many seem to entertain it....

We are a full swap couple but some or most enjoyable, and memorable meets have been soft swap so we are equally happy with either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago

Were mire than happy to get naked and suck lick whatever but like i say the full on might just happen when were least expecting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We’d love a soft swap just seem to struggle to find people.

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By *itygamesMan
48 weeks ago

UK

i love soft swing....its just adult/open minded fun.

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By *heonixrising500Man
48 weeks ago

Barnsley

Soft swing is very good if leads to more even better

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By *aomilatteCouple
48 weeks ago

Midlands

We soft swing and have had plenty of fun

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By *lik and PaulCouple
48 weeks ago

cahoots

We always enjoy soft swing

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By *helamontsCouple
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Always been soft swing for us and we have had some amazing meets over the years ...

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By *ecret_Passion777Man
48 weeks ago

Manchester

So what is soft swap, exactly? Everything except penetrative sex?

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By *atinocoupleCouple
48 weeks ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

This is how we started. And progressed from there. Occasionally our playdates have just been this and it's still incredible fun

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
48 weeks ago

Epsom

We're soft swap of sorts and been involved in orgies with no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We are happy to soft swing and is what we do initially with the right people would consider full xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"We are happy to soft swing and is what we do initially with the right people would consider full xx"

Sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"This is how we started. And progressed from there. Occasionally our playdates have just been this and it's still incredible fun "

Sounds good

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By *andD300Couple
48 weeks ago

london

We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C. "

Id quite happily fuck on a big bed whike others around all do the same.

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By *Ci LutherMan
48 weeks ago

Cumalot

Had many an amazing night soft playing with my mates wifes .. everything bar penetration

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
48 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m struggling to find people (men, I mean mostly) for soft swing kind of thing. Seems like everyone just wants to fuck senseless and it’s not something I’m interested in.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Whenever we start meeting again when it comes to couples I'd prefer soft swing.

I've no desire to be repeatedly pounded like some shite porno.

Mrs

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By *ikilovesCCouple
48 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C.

Id quite happily fuck on a big bed whike others around all do the same."

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We've been on the big bed lol, had some soft play on it too and never been frowned on,

let folks know you're new to it and they will be accommodating we've found

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

We don’t frown upon it, it’s just not what we are looking for. Time is precious , organising meets isn’t easy and we want to get the most out of it and for us it’s full swaps .

Keep going and you’ll find what you’re looking for xx

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
48 weeks ago

Leicester

We have come across numerous couples who are happy to, or only, soft swap. As someone else noted, the sort of ppl who are negative about soft play are the sort you wouldn't want to play with anyway. Swinging works best when everyone respects each others' preferences

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By *andD300Couple
48 weeks ago

london


"We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C.

Id quite happily fuck on a big bed whike others around all do the same.

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We've been on the big bed lol, had some soft play on it too and never been frowned on,

let folks know you're new to it and they will be accommodating we've found "

Thanks for the advice. Love your photos. C

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
48 weeks ago

Inverness

It’s soft swing we are looking for. Certainly until we feel confident to move forward with anything else

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By *tms1xCouple
48 weeks ago

Chelmsford

We prefer the idea of soft swing but you never know in the heat of the moment lol

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
48 weeks ago

cardiff

Nothing can be frowned upon, you do whatever you want to do and don’t worry about what other people might think x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
48 weeks ago


"We prefer the idea of soft swing but you never know in the heat of the moment lol"

Think thats us tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"We're soft swap of sorts and been involved in orgies with no problems "
we have had the same experience

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By *ntrigued888Woman
48 weeks ago

Beds


"So what is soft swap, exactly? Everything except penetrative sex?"

Correct

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By *eandher4and9Couple
48 weeks ago

leeds

We love all that soft swing gives us x kissing licking sucking toys use of hands and mouth xx

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
48 weeks ago

Somerset

We have only ever been soft swing and have had plenty of fun in clubs, parties and private meets. None of the people we have played with have been soft swing only but were happy to play with us on those terms and even say some complimentary things about us and the soft swing experience afterwards. It certainly works for us.

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By *ie n MashCouple
48 weeks ago

Back in Malice


"So what is soft swap, exactly? Everything except penetrative sex?

Correct "

We are "soft swap" only and this is our definition. Had a fantastic meet recently with a wonderful couple who are "full swap". They kindly respected our wishes, a great time was had by all and they are looking to meet again - with no expectation of anything "fuller".

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
48 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

Don't worry about being frowned upon or not invited, lots of people are soft swing only, lots of people only interact with their partners around others, some only go for the voyeur/exhibitionist side... the most important thing is that you do what makes you comfortable and happy x

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By *ellhungvweMan
48 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Everyone should do what they want and I would fully support people who want to soft swing but I think most people have meets or go to clubs/parties to fuck. People who want to soft swing are, realistically, going to get overlooked in those situations.

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By *dquestCouple
48 weeks ago

Peterborough

We started with soft swing and progressed up to full swap same room. That's our happy place, we don't do separate room or playing away. Everyone eventually finds a happy level of comfort and no one should push you beyond your comfort zone.

This is supposed to be fun

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By *uriousBeastMan
48 weeks ago

London

I love soft swapping! It is usually for starters, and I love that exciting vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

To be honest I prefer soft meets, nothing better than getting naked (or just me getting naked) and having a relaxing and fun play with no expectations and see where the meet takes us.. so if single, couple or group get in touch x

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
47 weeks ago

Solihull

Softswing only for us, but you never know it could prove to be a stepping stone one day!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
47 weeks ago

London

I only soft swing. Never had anyone say no or complain.

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By *essaMayWoman
47 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood


"So peeps is soft swing frowned upon. Weve been to clubs and played together with a few undesireables asking to join in but deffo not into single guys but no couples have ever approached. Weve chatted and prefer the soft swing oppose to wife getting battered by some hunk or i grab a naked brunette and fuck all night,however we have said what may happen during a soft swing may happen and never say never so do soft swingers still get party invites or club fun."

To a lot of people on the scene, full swing was driven by the male. They do not consider it swing unless they can stick their cock in lol.

We were soft swing couple (when a couple) and I didn't want other guys cocks, some got very abusive if they couldn't get what they wanted. But there are a lot of soft swing couples out there, I always found soft swing far more interesting as it allowed for imaginative play. If you only want soft swing stick to your boundaries and don't be swayed and there are plenty out there who will enjoy soft swing with you

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By *erkshire8299Man
47 weeks ago

slough

As an older guy, much prefer soft swing ...as no pressure and if more happens , then that's a bonus.

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By *indy777Couple
47 weeks ago

Hampshire

We are soft swing only. As long as you’re clear with communicating your boundaries, there’s never an issue.

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By *archelCouple
47 weeks ago

A field somewhere

Soft swinging is great, we love it. If a couple doesn't respect your choices then you don't want to be near them types. But to be fair most couples love it if in the orgy rooms. Crack on and enjoy.

Wanking dead will always try their luck, I'm no longer polite to them assholes...I tell them to straight up fuck off now. Single guys who are respectful swingers don't behave that way.

Mrs

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By *edscpl33Couple
47 weeks ago

luton

Soft only for us x

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
47 weeks ago

Bristol

Absolutely fine with couples who only want to soft swing, and if we have good chemistry with the couple and they are open and honest about what their limits are in advance, then all is good.

Our preference is to fully swap, but we certainly don't rule out people who don't want to.

One of the main areas we do avoid meeting is scenarios where only one of us, or only one of the couple would be involved. There are many profiles where it's "we are looking for FF play and Mrs will not have any interaction with the other male".

That's fine, you do you, but it's not what we are interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

We love soft swing, I've aniexty and new with couple meets, and soft swing I'm comfortable with as doesn't feel pushy, talking before to know each others limits n the no's with first..

It's finding a couple who are okie with soft swing and genuinely wanting to meet and not try push limits...

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"We're soft swap of sorts and been involved in orgies with no problems "

Well we would watch you fuck live right there in front of us - do we bring score cards like in strictly

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Also why are we using the term "only" when it comes to soft? We don't use it against any other genre - just sayin

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By *uzyamCouple
28 weeks ago

Shropshire

We started as soft swing 9 years ago and still are, lot's of fun to be and reserve the ultimate just for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

What's soft swing?

Kissing, holding hands only?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
28 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"What's soft cell?

Kissing, holding hands only?"

Tainted love.

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By *elboy1978Man
28 weeks ago

Fellgate

Never tried soft swing something I would give a go

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By *s2walesCouple
28 weeks ago

Gwent...

We go with the flow, if couples only want ti play soft that's fine with us. Just respect others limits..

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By *ootyfruityCouple
28 weeks ago

andover

Yes, we’ve been to quite a few club nights and played with other couples. But have never full swapped, everyone had a great time

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
27 weeks ago

Taunton

We are very much soft swing

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By *emptusboth777Couple
27 weeks ago

oxford

We would be very happy to soft swing with another couple, especially in a club setting. Hopefully get to try next time we are at VA

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By *ssexhung4funMan
27 weeks ago

Essex

What would you define as a soft swing? Curious on the clarification

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By *iberius61Man
27 weeks ago

Pontefract

Each to their own, really do what pleases you, nobody owes anyone else a shag (unless you lost a bet )

As someone said, those who look down upon something you don't want to do (yet) you wouldn't want as play partners anyway.

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