FabSwingers.com forum: Where do they learn

By *eachcpl OP Couple
52 weeks ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here

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By *tms1xCouple
52 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

He was a touch of class lol

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By *he Silver FuxMan
52 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

What a silver-tongued cavalier!

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By *enk15Man
52 weeks ago

Evesham

I learnt the art of seduction from watching Johnny Bravo.

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By *uriousBeastMan
52 weeks ago

London

Lmao hahaha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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52 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't want seduction.

I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.

From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’

I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

When are you meeting him?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I don't want seduction.

I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point"

To be honest, I'm terrible at chatting people up and seduction. I do and would rather just be direct and have fun chatting to people than trying to pretend to be all swarve and seduce-y on people. If I did try to, I'd probably feel as though I'm trying to manipulate them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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52 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I don't want seduction.

I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point

Personally I just want a man to treat me as if I'm a person with the ability to decide whether or not I'd like to meet them without them having to resort to seduction techniques. Of course I want to feel as if they find me attractive etc and I'm not going to respond to crude requests "it's not going to suck itself love" won't cut it

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By *Ci LutherMan
52 weeks ago

Cumalot

Any then guys wonder why they don’t get meets …

Always like to put the effort in and happy to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.

From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’

I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.

My abuser had 2 accounts. Both with subscriptions

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.

From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’

I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.

My abuser had 2 accounts. Both with subscriptions

Sorry to hear! It won’t stop it unfortunately but I do believe it would remove the majority.

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By *atermelodyMan
52 weeks ago

"I don't want seduction.

I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point"

My thoughts exactly. Besides, well written messages still get ignored the same, so might as well just get straight to the point

It is what it is and some women and couples like it and some don't. You can't please everyone.

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By *oxy jWoman
52 weeks ago

somerset

"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men"

no it does not it give the person a bad name for himself your responsible for your self not others .... so stop hiding behind those so called bad guys your responsible for your self you getting anywhere on this scene is down to yourself stop using other as a excuse for getting nowhere ...

if people want to meet you they will soon let you know just as they wont if they dont

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By *oxy jWoman
52 weeks ago

somerset

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

its 95% of my messages is sex talk but im fine with it as it instantly tells me im not interested and str8 block to me its just a great filter....nothing like a guy making your mind up for you saves wasting time and 100% going on block list ...

worse one is younger guys ... will you be my mummy so i can fuck mummy

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By *izandpaulCouple
52 weeks ago

merseyside

Not just the guys who are socially inept and probably sexually too.

The ladies within and outside of a couple are sometimes as bad.

Looked at Blind Dates on the TV and found it equally laughable but very sad too.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It is either "I want to fuck you".

Then send messages every day hoping I'll change my mind lol

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By *essaMayWoman
52 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men

if people want to meet you they will soon let you know just as they wont if they dont

This is very much the case and if i was looking would put me straight off. See it all the time in the forums sure the others do also. Hiding behind others for your own failings as well "fake profile" cry doesn't cut it. Said this before

The I'm not like the other guys stance is the same as every other guy doing same thing, which means in effect you are just like the other guys.

Id respond to someone who doesn't try and stand on someone else to be seen

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Well did it work?

Did you fall over in lust like those old Axe body spray ads?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

The art of writing a good message is all but gone. We are all visual animals nowadays.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
52 weeks ago

manchester

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
52 weeks ago

London

"I learnt the art of seduction from watching Johnny Bravo."

The only role model worth paying attention to

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here

Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it."

This is very true. I know a guy whose chat up line is "do you take it up your ass?" He scores a lot.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
52 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Thanks for the tip OP

I’m going to message someone saying I want to put my penis in your vagina. Classy huh

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By *irmhandmancMan
52 weeks ago

Bolton

I learned my chat up lines from Syd the Sexist. Not really. Gone are the days of "dya wanna see the soles of ya feet in me wing mirrors?"

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Not sure where they get it from , mr had the chat right from the off

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By *rpeggioCouple
52 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here

Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it."

More like who's delivered it on to.

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By *rpeggioCouple
52 weeks ago

Baughurst

"Thanks for the tip OP

I’m going to message someone saying I want to put my penis in your vagina. Classy huh

It doesn't matter how crude or seductive the words. The moment anyone writes to us saying "I want..." it's game over.

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By *weet6Woman
52 weeks ago

East Riding

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

Christ! That was polite!!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I watched a lot of Bottom growing up so if complimenting her cracking blouse doesn't work I call it a loss and leave

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Newport

I learnt all my seduction techniques from the songs of the band "Steel Panther"

And my wife couldn't be happier! I tell her that every morning!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Horsham

"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.

For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".

Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "

He might used his best lines on you, when wrote that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Central

I'm guessing that we're now getting people who perhaps have none or very limited chatting up experience, they've just sent FAF messages

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By *olfandtazCouple
52 weeks ago

Bristol

We aren't here to be chatted up but we do appreciate a well written first message that shows they read our profile

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By *ust want fun 888Man
52 weeks ago

nearby

I don’t think I’m as blunt as that, but admittedly, I have never been any good at chatting up people. From a younger age, when us friends used to play together boys and girls, we just went out with each other and that is what it was like Into my adult hood and I was always chatted up by women, so have never learned or been any good at chatting women up

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By *olinOfBathMan
52 weeks ago

Corsham

"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men"

On the contrary, the behaviour of the majority Neanderthals allows an occasional half-decent chap to stand out from the crowd.

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By *ddfellowMan
52 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

Most people meet online nowdays so the art of chat up has gone by the bye, its also the constant two or three word messages in text limiting peoples ability to form a coherent sentence.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
52 weeks ago

Leeds

You don’t want him after all that time, thought and effort he put in?

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