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My wife said to me set it up and make it happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we both been talking about this for ages we been doing this fantasy since lockdown I'd say about bringing a extra guy in the bedroom for MFM or me to watch

Now she's said it I got cold feet and I've been so up for it this whole time haha ! Is that normal ? I'm turned on by it alot but it's now making that couples profile and actually talking about someone else with my wife ! Any advice ?

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Go for it i def would if my wife agrees take our hot rp fun to reality.

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By *he MinionMan
over a year ago

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Maybe attend a club as a couple first before jumping straight into a thresome. Be around other naked couples etc...

Get used to your partner getting attention in front of you type thing.

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

Might be a good start to get a couple's profile

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"So we both been talking about this for ages we been doing this fantasy since lockdown I'd say about bringing a extra guy in the bedroom for MFM or me to watch

Now she's said it I got cold feet and I've been so up for it this whole time haha ! Is that normal ? I'm turned on by it alot but it's now making that couples profile and actually talking about someone else with my wife ! Any advice ?"

It's probably not normal. It's maybe best to leave as a fantasy.

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By *dging-In-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend


"So we both been talking about this for ages we been doing this fantasy since lockdown I'd say about bringing a extra guy in the bedroom for MFM or me to watch

Now she's said it I got cold feet and I've been so up for it this whole time haha ! Is that normal ? I'm turned on by it alot but it's now making that couples profile and actually talking about someone else with my wife ! Any advice ?"

Honestly, best approach is to have an open and honest chat about your feelings.

I've been swinging for nearly 15 years and it's amazing how many people don't have these chats.

My DMs are open if you want to chat OP.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think you've possibly missed the boat on this op.

You've been talking about it in the forums for so long, but neither of you has moved to make it a reality.

You've had lots of good advice over the years on here, but only you can make that leap to it being a reality.

Sometimes it's best to just actually be brave and try something and see how it feels for you both.

If you still want to try this lifestyle as a couple, sit down together and make the profile. If you don't like it, you will at least know, rather than wondering about it or regretting not having a go.

Only you know if you want to go ahead or not,talk to your wife, establish what you're both looking to achieve and are comfortable with and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice. Calm, reasoned, logical and practical….you've been told OP. It helps that the advice is coming from someone who is obviously lovely too!

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

Club would be the best as she does not have to do anything took my mrs she wanted to join in as she got turned on

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"So we both been talking about this for ages we been doing this fantasy since lockdown I'd say about bringing a extra guy in the bedroom for MFM or me to watch

Now she's said it I got cold feet and I've been so up for it this whole time haha ! Is that normal ? I'm turned on by it alot but it's now making that couples profile and actually talking about someone else with my wife ! Any advice ?"

Take it slow, take it steady

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It sounds like it’s just fantasy in your head - I recall you were setting up a couples profile a while ago and you still haven’t.

It’s fine if it just fantasy - but talking and talking and then talking about it even more (which you’ve done for years) won’t get you any closer to going beyond fantasy, which is where I suspect you already know it will stay.

I had no clue how I’d feel watching someone I loved have sex with someone else so I arranged a blindfold meet for C and just done it - no one will be able to help or guide you - you’ve got to take the leap.

K

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By *oconaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Texas

You’ve done the calculations, triple checked them, ran through the scenarios, analyzed it to bits…now it’s time to take first step into the unknown.. the scary part where your talk demands it’s walk counterpart …but after a little while, the scary should give way to new heights of pleasure for you both…Good luck! Communication is key, after that, take action!

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We second the idea of hitting a club first. Talk with other swinging at the club and see how they handle things. Flirt a bit and go home turned on. Then chat about it some more. Communicate!

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