FabSwingers.com forum: Misleading messages

By *ob.42 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Near Yarmouth

Not a great night for me yesterday.

A couple messaged me out of the blue and wanted a meet, I said it would be late and would message when I was leaving a prior commitment, that was fine.

Asked what they were looking for, (bi female, straight male) she said doesn't matter, it would be fun whatever and I'd enjoy it. Ok...Messaged when I left my meeting, again when I stopped at lights, she was reading and replying, all good so far...

Arrived, they came out of the hotel and it turned out he was bi curious and I was meant to fuck him. She wasn't intending to play in any way, and then he decided he couldn't go through with it.

We chatted for a while outside, they didn't think I would actually turn up so he'd fucked his wife while I was heading their way and was done for the night.

I always ask what the expectations are, last night I was toally and deliberately mislead.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
47 weeks ago

Yorkshire

So sorry this happened to you OP

S xxx

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By *MCMan
47 weeks ago

London/EA

Extremely poor and disrespectful on their behalf.. Hope your next meet goes better OP!

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By *r not quite virginMan
47 weeks ago

rochdale

"Not a great night for me yesterday.

A couple messaged me out of the blue and wanted a meet, I said it would be late and would message when I was leaving a prior commitment, that was fine.

Arrived, they came out of the hotel and it turned out he was bi curious and I was meant to fuck him. She wasn't intending to play in any way, and then he decided he couldn't go through with it.

We chatted for a while outside, they didn't think I would actually turn up so he'd fucked his wife while I was heading their way and was done for the night.

I always ask what the expectations are, last night I was toally and deliberately mislead. "

That's shit. I hate people doing things like that. I had somebody block me last night after we agreed to meet. Hopefully it goes better for you next time. On a side note I've just seen your status and tried to message you but you blocked all men. So if you want to chat feel free to message.

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By *inter_XOMan
47 weeks ago

Co.Tyrone

I’ve had the odd message from someone with the beginnings of a chat and I’m polite so I’ll always message back and then I get deleted or blocked.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

That's awful op, sorry you had that.It sounds like they'd were trying to excuse their own bad behaviour.

I hate it when people can't be upfront about the way they want to play.

If they were looking for him to explore his bi side, they should have run that past you first.

I wonder how many others they will try it with.

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By *oxy jWoman
47 weeks ago

taunton somerset

not surprised we all talk about men being messers but one thing we've learnt from this scene their are plenty of couples who mess around to but its ok cause its funny when a couple does it ...

only thing with this is they were real they met you they told you they thought you would not turn up so they played id just put it down to crossed wires and move on .... i think its sad that a couple has to hide the bi/bi curious tag on this scene there are more bi couples and bi men that str8 why lie ..

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
47 weeks ago

South East Coast

That's really bad! They are the sort that give fab a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

The moment she said it doesn't matter, I'd be like yeah ok, take care.

Sorry this happened, but maybe ask for clarification of everything before committing to anything for future meets.

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