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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up

Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time

Help us please xx

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up

Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time

Help us please xx"

She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.

It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up

Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time

Help us please xx

She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.

It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you?"

This. I don't have a partner but this comment sounds as sensible and logical as you could get.

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By *inLemonade65Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up

Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time

Help us please xx

She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.

It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you?"

This…!

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Talk

Listen

Question

Listen

Self reflect

Listen

Give space

Self reflect

(Try?) instill trust

Self reflect

(Try?) understand

Find common goals

Be kind to each other

Get counselling?

Other than that dunno

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By *NKED_n_KINKYCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Exactly the same happened with my wife, as soon as the menopause kicked in she dried up and lost all interest in sex.

We went private and they tested her testosterone levels and they were very low. She was started on testosterone gel and within 3 months she's changed completely, her sex drive has gone through the roof.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your kind words of wisdom

But we have tried most of the list hence why I asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up

Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time

Help us please xx"

HRT Will do it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If relationship problems are the root cause of loss of libido (not saying it is here) you can't medicate one partner to solve them.

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