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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am sure i am not alone when i say occasionally i get involved in a "ping pong" messaging with a potential suiter/s etc...... now i love a good natter as you might know; but there comes a time when you just want to say

"shut the crap do you wanna fuck - yes or no"

but of course we never use such words....so....

What "put downs" do you use and why ?

Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falling asleep usually works

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them. "

your a worse chatterbox than me then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Falling asleep usually works "

Is that before, during or after the meet?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them.

"

Me too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them.

your a worse chatterbox than me then lol "

If people are happy chatting with me, I'm happy to chat back. Sometimes the messages fall off for a while in quantity but we all have lives outside of here and it's good to talk. I know. An advert told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them. "

Being a single lady, i like to get to know a little about someone i may be intimate with and if it takes "ping pong messages" so be it.(safety first)

If the guy loses interest or gets bored of waiting.......it shows they were not the type of guy im looking for in the first place .

Job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every case is different and there's never any rush or expectancy!

But if I need to draw a conversation to a close ill just say something like "must dash - Rihanna's just arrived for her weekly facial!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them.

Being a single lady, i like to get to know a little about someone i may be intimate with and if it takes "ping pong messages" so be it.(safety first)

If the guy loses interest or gets bored of waiting.......it shows they were not the type of guy im looking for in the first place .

Job done "

OK, whatever, so are we going to or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao

Pingggggggggg

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have made some super friends on here, some I cant, couldn't or wouldn't meet. That doesn't stop us chatting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Falling asleep usually works

Is that before, during or after the meet? "

While messaging on my phone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i always meet at my home, i have to be extra careful and feel at ease with the guy.........some on here are strange ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry peaches, bit rude. Got distracted by the peaches in the red holder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry peaches, bit rude. Got distracted by the peaches in the red holder. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken - we all have Chat Buddies and i am not alone here but I love them all and some of us even meet socially as Chat Buddies for meals/drinks - but no sex and long may that continue.....

I suppose where i am leading you all here is this....put your "flirting head on" and just think along these lines..... you connect with someone he/she/they seem dead sexy (as in you fancy getting close to them), they texting goes along the "will you wont you" lines - gets fruity even and gets to point where you want things to happen; but the ping pong messaging carries on...

dont shoot the messenger; but can you see where i am coming from here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so how does this Sat sound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken - we all have Chat Buddies and i am not alone here but I love them all and some of us even meet socially as Chat Buddies for meals/drinks - but no sex and long may that continue.....

I suppose where i am leading you all here is this....put your "flirting head on" and just think along these lines..... you connect with someone he/she/they seem dead sexy (as in you fancy getting close to them), they texting goes along the "will you wont you" lines - gets fruity even and gets to point where you want things to happen; but the ping pong messaging carries on...

dont shoot the messenger; but can you see where i am coming from here ?

"

I do understand where your comming from , and i do think that when it comes down to getting the "nitty grity" ...guys are more impatient than women.........not all granted.

But to me.......

Patience is a winner and shows me that he respects my wishes in getting to know him.

saying that......i do know that some women delight in leading guys on with no intentions of having fun........thats not nice so honesty should be there at the beggining

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I don't use 'put downs'. Even if someone doesn't want to have sex with me or can't due to living too far away or something, the ping-pong messages continue because I like them.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I still think i opened a can of worms here lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I ping ponged for two years with one lady (including a no contact period with me hiding my profile and staying off site for 15 months while I was in a relationship).

We finally met a few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken - we all have Chat Buddies and i am not alone here but I love them all and some of us even meet socially as Chat Buddies for meals/drinks - but no sex and long may that continue.....

I suppose where i am leading you all here is this....put your "flirting head on" and just think along these lines..... you connect with someone he/she/they seem dead sexy (as in you fancy getting close to them), they texting goes along the "will you wont you" lines - gets fruity even and gets to point where you want things to happen; but the ping pong messaging carries on...

dont shoot the messenger; but can you see where i am coming from here ?

I do understand where your comming from , and i do think that when it comes down to getting the "nitty grity" ...guys are more impatient than women.........not all granted.

But to me.......

Patience is a winner and shows me that he respects my wishes in getting to know him.

saying that......i do know that some women delight in leading guys on with no intentions of having fun........thats not nice so honesty should be there at the beggining "

Peaches (god they are lovely - sorry distracted again) is absolutely right. Honesty is THE key. If you can feign that you have it made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken - we all have Chat Buddies and i am not alone here but I love them all and some of us even meet socially as Chat Buddies for meals/drinks - but no sex and long may that continue.....

I suppose where i am leading you all here is this....put your "flirting head on" and just think along these lines..... you connect with someone he/she/they seem dead sexy (as in you fancy getting close to them), they texting goes along the "will you wont you" lines - gets fruity even and gets to point where you want things to happen; but the ping pong messaging carries on...

dont shoot the messenger; but can you see where i am coming from here ?

I do understand where your comming from , and i do think that when it comes down to getting the "nitty grity" ...guys are more impatient than women.........not all granted.

But to me.......

Patience is a winner and shows me that he respects my wishes in getting to know him.

saying that......i do know that some women delight in leading guys on with no intentions of having fun........thats not nice so honesty should be there at the beggining

Peaches (god they are lovely - sorry distracted again) is absolutely right. Honesty is THE key. If you can feign that you have it made! "

Oiiiii

My eyes are up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oiiiii

My eyes are up here "

You have eyes as well??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oiiiii

My eyes are up here

You have eyes as well?? "

Oh yerrrr

and all me own teef too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha very true @ the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oiiiii

My eyes are up here

You have eyes as well??

Oh yerrrr

and all me own teef too "

Then again, I cannot see that cause I am blocked from your profile.

Goodbye cruel world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange..........?

there are not many that are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its says "site supporters only" are allowed to view, i.e. those with silver or gold medals.

You have never blocked me specifically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

works now.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

just out of interest....for those who complain about the ping pong aspect...I have a question...

whats the difference between "ping pong-ing" and "getting to know someone"

in that respect I am a ping pong-er.... so to speak

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I am sure i am not alone when i say occasionally i get involved in a "ping pong" messaging with a potential suiter/s etc...... now i love a good natter as you might know; but there comes a time when you just want to say

"shut the crap do you wanna fuck - yes or no"

but of course we never use such words....so....

What "put downs" do you use and why ?

Happy Fabbing xx "

The term 'ping pong messaging' is rather judgemental. I like to chat beforehand and, as I cannot meet very often due to work commitments, it can take a while before I can set up a meet. Therefore, keeping in touch via messaging or text, or even phone call, is what is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ping-pong, ping-pong, ping-pong ...perfection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure i am not alone when i say occasionally i get involved in a "ping pong" messaging with a potential suiter/s etc...... now i love a good natter as you might know; but there comes a time when you just want to say

"shut the crap do you wanna fuck - yes or no"

but of course we never use such words....so....

What "put downs" do you use and why ?

Happy Fabbing xx "

Put downs?

you not thought of simply asking if they want to meet?

its quite easy you just say, we've been chatting a while now, you seem nice, would you like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao

Pingggggggggg "

Pongggggggg!! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same happy to chat along so long as i enjoy the banter...there are people i chat to even tho i know i won't meet them because of distance or other reasons but who knows maybe work will take me nearer and i will catch up with them at some point

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im the same happy to chat along so long as i enjoy the banter...there are people i chat to even tho i know i won't meet them because of distance or other reasons but who knows maybe work will take me nearer and i will catch up with them at some point "

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